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THE QURAN TEACHES US TO BE OPTIMISTIC

I always find myself questioning the things I do, even if I was the one who opted to do it from the beginning. I frequently ask myself whether I’m doing the right thing. Whether there’s any good in the things I choose to put myself in. The school I go to, the activities I join, the events I attend, the friends I choose to keep. Are my decisions going to benefit my future or are they just a waste of time? I wonder if I’m really doing anything right these days. You see, I have always had this fear in me. This fear I can’t specifically explain. I often am afraid if I make the wrong choices, especially when I have to make big important life decisions. What if my plans don’t work out? Who will I be in 10 years? Will I ever really figure it out?

I hate self-doubt. You know when they say we are our own biggest critics, they’re hella right.

Sometimes, the plans that I have for myself, are not exactly the plans that Allah has for me. I get myself in a relationship, and it ends tragically. I take up a course I thought I’m good at, and later fail miserably. I apply for a scholarship, but then find out I was rejected. I plan to graduate on time, but got sick and am told to defer my studies. All these circumstances, it all leads to self-doubt. Will I ever be good enough for anything?

A few days ago, I was reading Surah Al-Kahf and stumbled upon a verse that struck a chord with me. It was so beautiful I made it my phone’s wallpaper lol. The verse goes:

إِلَّا أَن يَشَاءَ اللَّهُ ۚ وَاذْكُر رَّبَّكَ إِذَا نَسِيتَ وَقُلْ عَسَىٰ أَن يَهْدِيَنِ رَبِّي لِأَقْرَبَ مِنْ هَٰذَا رَشَدًا 

“Except “if Allah wills.” And remember your Lord when you forget & say “May my Lord guide me to what is right” (18:24)

Perfect timing. This verse isn’t only a do’a but also a statement of optimism. “Asa” according to the arabic language is a verb used to express hope. Subhanallah, Allah is teaching us that the most fundmental thing we need is His guidance. He is teaching us that in the end, He knows best what is good for us and all we have to do is give our best in the things we do. The rest is Allah’s job. I learnt that if we do what is good, our effort will never go to waste, even if things don’t turn out the way we want it. Our compensation is with Allah. 

The verse screams optimism. It says “when you forget” because whenever something bad/failure befalls us, we tend to lose hope. We are bound to feel lost & confused. Been there a lot of time. So this powerful verse is telling us ‘no, don’t give up, hang in there and ask Allah to guide you’. He created us, He created the stars and the universe, so He definitely knows what is best for us. Whatever happens yesterday, stays there. If we have failed in the past, that failure should not dictate our future. 

“Amazing is the affair of the believer, verily all of his affair is good and this is not for no one except the believer. If something of good/happiness befalls him he is grateful and that is good for him. If something of harm befalls him he is patient and that is good for him” (Saheeh Muslim #2999)

So I guess we will never really have all the answers, but it’s perfectly okay, What we do know is that we can always ask Allah to guide us to what’s the best for us.

As long has we put our trust in him, we are in good hands.

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Happy New Year!!!

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Salam Eid Al Adha everyone 🙌🏼

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I would like to take this opportunity to wish to all my muslim followers, happy Eid Mubarak, May this year gives us more blessings after we went through Ramadhan month🌈Enjoy Syawal everyone 💫

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Alhamdulillah, another one year older. الله blessed me every-single-day without noticing I’m turning 15th❤️(I almost forgot my age). الله give me another chance to be better Muslim that’s the reason why i’m still alive 🤣. And last but not least, thankyou everyone for the kind doas & wishes (and presents) i really appreciate it. May all of our wishes came true, انشاءالله not now maybe in the future (who knows). May الله always bless us with whatever we are doing now or in the future. Love, EzzatulA

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Alhamdulillah. Nice dessert at nice cupcake shop @sweetassara 🌷

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Being a dUCkies, Its been 2 years until I am being a dUCkies (2016) i started buying songket dUCK scarf in lavender, some premium basic ducks in Vintage Rose and Hammam Blue scarves.

Being so addicted to their Limited Edition (LE)scarf. Huh being so noob, I thought every LE will be restocked again. But NO! (I did texted dUCk scarf through email for making sure if it will be restocked again or not) sad!

I’m sure I will not going to be missed on buying LE. I swear I’m not lying on saying dUCk really comes with nice material and gorgeous LE designs. You should buy too! And proves me that I’m not lying at all. But honestly i do like the most of the fabrics are the Satin Silk and Matte Satin Silk. Check out at @fashionvalet website and search for @duck.

Look for the original ok.

Love, EzzatulA

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Taking feels for AG tonight 😅

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Blessed

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This world is nothing but consists of words rather than actions.