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Being sensitive is a strength—it means you feel deeply. But unkindness? That’s a choice, and a sad one.
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to the young who want to die by Gwendolyn Brooks
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Oh to have been born Miley Cyrus and now whatever nefarious 3rd thing I am.
The old boys hold all the cards and they ain't playing gin.
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Drinking a vodka soda in bed before bed and pretending like things don't bother me has become one of my new once-a-week rituals
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Even with a cheat sheet I fail it every year
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Not that anybody asked, but I think it's important to understand how shame and guilt actually work before you try to use it for good.
It's a necessary emotion. There are reasons we have it. It makes everything so. much. worse. when you use it wrong.
Shame and guilt are DE-motivators. They are meant to stop behavior, not promote it. You cannot, ever, in any meaningful way, guilt someone into doing good. You can only shame them into not doing bad.
Let's say you're a parent and your kid is having issues.
Swearing in class? Shame could work. You want them to stop it. Keep it in proportion*, and it might help. *(KEEP IT IN PROPORTION!!!)
Not doing their homework? NO! STOP! NO NOT DO THAT! EVER! EVER! EVER! You want them to start to do their homework. Shaming them will have to opposite effect! You have demotivated them! They will double down on NOT doing it. Not because they are being oppositional, but because that's what shame does!
You can't guilt people into building better habits, being more successful, or getting more involved. That requires encouragement. You need to motivate for that stuff!
If you want it in a simple phrase:
You can shame someone out of being a bad person, but you can't shame them into being a good person.
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Reblogging to save a life because I hate Gemini so much after the last update
I fucking hate it here
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ROBERT WUN Couture Fall/Winter 2026 if you want to support this blog consider donating to: ko-fi.com/fashionrunways
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Omg horse ballet
horse sneaking suit
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I had an idea for a whole essay on why Maomao is quicker to accept affection from Loulan/Shisui than from Jinshi and how that's a reflection of her being raised in the pleasure district by courtesans and thus viewing affection from women as a given and natural thing to receive and give but at the same time viewing affection between men and women as transactional and something men have to pay to get and women offer as a product but I prefer to just enjoy the doom yuri while it lasts instead
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Okay well. I'm at the lake and there are some kittens here who were very very clearly dumped!!
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