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[canidkid]

Make sure you don't accidentally punish people for communicating their needs and boundaries. When someone cares enough to have the uncomfortable conversation, that's a compliment and a clear sign that they are invested in the relationship. Yes of course it's uncomfortable to hear that something you've been doing has been upsetting someone you care about when that was never your intention, but people generally only bother to have these conversations with the people they want to keep around - the people they trust to care. If they just didn't like you, they'd probably just try to avoid you. So make sure you don't make it into a more punishing experience than it has to be. Try to see the care and the trust behind the criticism, even when it triggers uncomfortable emotions. It's a good sign that they're there telling you.

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Jk Rowling will die in my lifetime and that’s so beautiful to think about

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little jay arondekar moodboard

jay!! my favorite living<3

take him to the zoo, let him eat all the oreos, and play some video games with him!

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linus takes a trip to the nether. birthday gift to my sister

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this one's for the regressors who are never little

the teen regressors who dont need a caretaker

the teen regressors who didnt feel free then and dont feel free now

the teen regressors who missed out on milestones when they were physically teens like their sweet sixteen, quinceañera, getting their drivers license in high school

the teen regressors who feel blurred between adulthood and teenhood because theres not as clear of a gap between being big and being a teen as there is between being big and being little/middle

the teen regressors who dont "get" modern teen culture

the teen regressors who want to relive their teenage interests without feeling burdened by being cringey

the teen regressors who get to dress the way their parents wouldnt let them when they were physically teens

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Summer outfit 🌴

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i think one of the most important things you learn about making connections with others is that a significant portion of the time people just do not know theyre doing what theyre doing

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terfs cannot be touching my fucking meowth posting when hes literally played by a trans woman okay like hes off limits. i know that cat dabbles a little in they/them and she/her

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No one in good faith expects you to be perfect.

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frolicking with mama :)

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Little toki and skwisgaar sibling bonding time......!!!

What is my life if it is not little toki and skwisgaar chat

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btw historically community blocklist accounts have never kept a community safe. they’ve only ever brought attention to people who should be ignored and harassment to innocent people. see an account you don’t like? block it. don’t put it on blast. don’t spread the account and content of someone you don’t want to see.

tumblr doesn’t function like other social media sites. where it might be common to see a blacklist on twitter, it’s not here. you are responsible for only your own online experience, and one person or account should not dictate who is allowed in certain spaces.

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૮꒰˶ᵔ ᗜ ᵔ˶꒱ა˖⁺‧₊˚ flip!brett hand mood board ! i love him so much, inside job is one of my favorite shows :3

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More little toki und skwisgaa...r...sob sob..

Need them dead

Sibling tropes for da win...

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do you have any little headcannons for metalocalypse?

Oh my gosh YES! Going in order, I'll list off a handful: Nathan: - Second oldest regressor (probably 7-8 on average) - A flip, oftentimes "babysitting" the others while Charles is doing adult stuff - Semi to nonverbal - Very unsure of his regression due to how important he is and how he needs to feel in control all the time Pickles: - Third oldest regressor on average (4-6) - Also a flip, usually alongside Nathan as the mom of the group - Really loves play kitchens/toy food, but also drumming everything with whatever he can (auditory sensory seeking) - Probably takes an edible before regressing voluntarily to get more into it Skwisgaar: - Oldest regressor (9-10 on average) - Not a flip, but does take on a big sibling role for regressed band members - Still fidgets with his guitar when little, but fumbles more and often gets frustrated - Major sensory seeker, his fluffy fur-like blanket is a big favorite Toki: - Around the youngest regressor (0-3) - Mostly stays with Charles when regressed, but can be babysat by Pickles or Nathan when a little "older" - A chewer, licker, will put anything in his mouth - Keep teether toys or pacifiers nearby around him - Hates having to take insulin when little, Charles often tries to distract him while giving shots Murderface: - Around second youngest most of the time, but has a lot of range (Anywhere between 2 to like 11) - Plays outside most of the time, cameras and guards around Mordhaus keep a watchful eye on him though - Always covered in some kind of bandaids, usually colorful kinds or the ones with patterns - Still swears a lot, Charles allows it so he can express himself the way he knows how (But keeps the language to a minimum around Toki) Charles: - Primary caregiver - Referred to as "papa", "daddy" or "dada" by the band - Despite his flat tone, he's a very good storyteller - Tries to be extra expressive around the band members so they know when he's actually mad or playing around

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lookin with mama