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Here's a reminder that setting boundaries for yourself is important and you don't need to feel guilty about it.

And a reminder that if someone sets a boundary for you, please respect it! You might have a response due to trauma, like RSD, that tells you that when someone sets a normal boundary they're calling you a bad person or rejecting you. Remember that they aren't. They're not rejecting you. They're not insulting you. They're simply setting a boundary for themself. It's okay to feel bad, but don't guilt them about it. It's okay to ask them for reassurance that they don't hate you, but not to guilt trip them anything like "sorry ahhh I'm an absolutely horrible person I'm terrible I'm terrible" (lol). Promise to respect the boundary and then respect it.

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Reblog if it's okay to befriend you, ask questions, ask for advice, rant, vent, let something off your chest, or just have a nice chat.

please, please and please.

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“It’s still you, it always has been you, it always will be you.”

— B.D (hatin)

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“There’s a special place in my heart for the ones who were with me at my lowest and still loved me when I wasn‘t very loveable.”

— Unknown

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“Much of our life is spent wishing others understood us better than they do.”

— Gordon Allport

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Me not helping myself: * Overthink and analyse every detail over something I said, and why I shouldn’t said it *

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“Be thankful for all the struggles you go through. They make you stronger, wiser and humble. Don’t let it break you let it make you.”

— Unknown

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Finding out the harsh truth about why you suck can be difficult. Still, you need to be aware of how the flaws in your zodiac sign affect your personality.

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My front yard

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