celestialpain

[celestialpain]

Btw shout-out to disabled people who feel sexual attraction but can't have sex or masturbate. Shout-out to disabled people who can't have sex or masturbate because it hurts. Shout-out to disabled people who can't have sex or masturbate because they're dependant on a caregiver. Shout-out to disabled people who can't have sex or masturbate because they're deemed "too mentally immature". Shout-out to disabled people who can't have sex or masturbate because they would be bedridden for days if not weeks on end. Shout-out to disabled people who can't have sex because they can't get into the right positions. Shout-out to disabled people who can't have sex because once their partner finds out they're disabled they refuse. Shout-out to disabled people who can't have sex because they can't go out to meet people.

Disabled people are not your uwu sexless perfect babies or broken people incapable of sexual pleasure. We deserve to be talked about in all aspects of life and the fact we aren't taught sex ed besides from an able bodied and able mental standpoint is genuinely god awful. No one talks Abt this and we deserve to be seen

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It’s very interesting to me how abled LGBT+ people are very much against performative activism by billion dollar companies and say that the companies only care about what happens to them financially, but they don’t care about the effect that these actions will have on queer people. Everything about that is valid and true, but it shouldn’t be that surprising when a big chain store pulls merchandise at the first threat from someone who has nothing better to do than be homophobic for a living.

But then go ahead and host for the second year in a row since 2021, an open, unmasked super spreader pride parade. You are openly hurting queer disabled people by hosting and attending these avents that have zero COVID precautionary measures or safety plans in use. There are no mask mandates, no sanitizing stations, and instead of showing that you do care about crippled queers (you don’t) you tell us to just “stay home” or “risk it anyway if you want it that badly”. Which means you don’t want us in the same place as you, you’d prefer it that way. We know.

Make it make sense. You’re either angry for the performative activism for every queer, or you’re very much tied into the exact ideation as straight/cis person who doesn’t care about “some” queer people— except with an ableist core.

[celestialpain]

a person with chronic illness saying “I wish I could ravish you right now I’m just very tired” is extremely sexy and romantic

[celestialpain]

something that i think everyone sleeps on is using positioning and support items during sex. shoutout to thigh/hand straps. to positioning pillows. to doggy style support straps. to toy mounts. thank you for making sex more accessible

[celestialpain]

Shoutout to all the disabled/chronically ill kinky people!

To the people who can't do "stereotypically" kinky things or have to change things to accomodate themselves and/or their partner(s)!

To the people who can't kneel because of chronic pain or joint issues.

To the people who can't be tied up because of sensory problems, or circulation issues, or because they get dislocations easily.

To the people who need mobility aids/braces/accessibility tools during sex.

To the people who use masturbation and sex as pain relief!

To the people who have a high sex drive but not the energy or ability to follow it!

To the people who have a low sex drive due to pain, medication, mental health etc!

Feel free to add to the list!

[celestialpain]

chronic pain is kicking my ass can someone please brutally fuck me into the floor until i'm sobbing so i can at least justify why my entire body hurts xx

[celestialpain]

I have a few mystery (undiagnosed and untreated) physical disabilities/illnesses that have been progressing and it's been really exhausting. Especially because I can't see a doctor for all of my symptoms at once because certain ones have been taking priority in their severity. I'm always like "oh well I don't really want to call them disabilities if they haven't been professionally diagnosed yet" but I have had a doctor agree with me twice on what I suspected was the issue however because of circumstances it wasn't within his power to diagnose me.

The other doctors I had seen for it told me everything looked fine and didn't want to do further evaluations even though my symptoms have continued to advance as well as couple with another potential condition. Recently I saw a doctor for another different problem and I've had to put that on hold because of yet another health problem that has taken precedence (I might be epileptic).

I'm so tired of being so ill I can't function and seeing doctors that don't believe me or downplay the severity of my condition.

But that leads me to the sex part of this post. It's actually more sweet than sexy, but still.

Being (probably, almost definitely) physically disabled with someone else who is also physically disabled is an amazing experience because there's so much understanding and compassion.

Especially because I'll have flare ups when we're having sex and she will do everything she can to make sure I'm okay and safe, even if we have to stop or take a break. On the flip side, getting massages for your mystery muscle and joint pain can be really sexy lol. It's another level of love and I appreciate it so much. I also do take care of her, don't get me wrong, but a lot of my physical conditions tend to be more prevalent.

I just feel so understood and loved <3

[celestialpain]

It can be really hard when you cant have “normal” sex

Whether its due to disabilities, dysphoria, physical limits, trauma, or any other reason it can make you feel limited and isolated

​(reblog if you relate and/or are okay with people who have to have “weird” sex)

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Yearning for something soft again. Maybe it’s the chronic pain but I can’t help imagining sleepily laying face down while somebody carefully massages my back and my shoulders and the back of my neck, enjoying the softness of my skin and gently kissing it as they do so. Maybe we fuck nasty after.

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i was dancing with a butch at a bar and i hooked my cane around his back to pull him closer and he made the CUTEST little gasp sound

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I'm going through a really bad pain flare up rn and honestly I think it would be so nice and help so much if someone was just gentle and tender and loving with me and like took their time feeling my body, stopping to massage the most painful spots maybe, covering me in little kisses all over and really just focusing on making me feel good

I think that might fix me (I know it won't but it would make things more bearable)

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need to see more horny posts involving people in wheelchairs. some of us are whores too. maybe i want to be choked with one of my safety straps while my owner leaves his teeth marks in my skin. maybe i want to feel my back pressed firmly against the cushions while he pounds into me. or uses my sitting position to face fuck me since his body is noticeably tall compared to my small body, especially when sitting. maybe strapping my legs apart to watch me cockwarm a dildo or watch my boycunt drip while a vibrator overstimulates my insides. let's get creative !

[celestialpain]

they need to invent a sex position where I can top without my hips hurting

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um . sweet gentle sex where they take care to not hurt you on days when you're already hurting. slow soft sex where they help to support your joints. light touches and massages over the places that ache. a sole focus on making you feel good when you don't feel good. no pressure no expectations just kind connection

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Shoutout to disabled babes who need to use accessibility aids during sex. Like sure, my wrist splints and knee brace aren't that 'sexy' looking, but I guarantee they'll help in my ability to fuck you senseless.

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thinking about being taken care of. i wake up and i’m having a flare up and they pull me deeper under the covers, back-to-front with them to keep warm. they kiss my shoulder and their hand wanders down my front and they idly play with my clit as we both start waking up. they dip in one finger, then two. let me get all worked up before they get out of bed, shushing me when i protest. they help me get in my softest clothes and carry me to the couch so i can watch them cook. they massage my hands and let me lay my head on their lap, drawing the blinds when the light gets too much. when night comes, they sit me down in the shower and they half wash me, half grope me. they dry me off and lay me down in bed, pillows and blankets all around, climbing over me and letting me lay lax as they take me slow and sweet. they clean us up when we’re done and we fall asleep tangled in each other.

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Yeahyeahyeah being disabled makes sex harder yadayada but do you know how hot it is when youre both so fucking desperate for each other so in need but having a hard time getting situated and it just isnt working out and hearing "let me help you../can you help me..?" LIKE 😵‍💫😵‍💫