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The North Node in the Houses

1st House: Expressing individuality is the forefront along with self love. PUT YOURSELF FIRST is out of this person’s comfort zone. In early life they found themselves through relationship and/or by always putting others first. There is a pull to learn how to focus on the self.

2nd House: Self-worth can be involved in the north node’s lessons. Developing inner security, finding worth and value in the non-tangible, and distancing themselves from unhealthy attachments is the big lesson here. There is a lot to be learned about inner strength and endurance.

*The 1st and 2nd House involve introspection work heavily. Both take a great deal of self-awareness and work that happens through individuality, wants, needs, inner value, inner security.

3rd House: There is a focus on opening the mind and learning to take in new information with grace and stride. The soul has an urge to communicate what they know and especially what they have learned from life. There is hesitance and fear to share that they must overcome.

*3rd House: Karma and these lessons can be connected with a sibling or extended family.

4th House: This person must learn to nurture not only themselves but others. They grow by caring for, protecting, teaching, and helping others grow. There can be an emphasis on facing conflicts or issues with their own family, especially parents. The north node is pulling them to come out of the shadows of insecurities that their family might have put onto them. There is an association that becoming a parent may help them grow and learn. Putting down roots may also be something that is outside their comfort zone.

5th House: There are lessons in following the heart, having inner faith, expressing themselves openly and passionately, and using creativity to aid in their growth. Speaking and acting on their heart is a challenge to overcome. There is a focus on personal empowerment that needs to be gained.

*5th House: Romantic relationships and interests can play a role in some of these lessons. Creativity is an important tool in stepping outside their comfort zone.

6th House: This is all about helping and serving others. Humility and giving back is likely not their norm. To give on both an individualistic and collective level is asked of them. They grow by focusing on self-improvement, improvement of others, and even improvement of humanity.

*6th House: There is an association by learning these lessons through work, a humanitarian organization, or through health and sickness.

7th House: One-on-one time, relating to others, cooperation might not be what this person is use to. Here comes the need to connect with others. BUT there is a balance in their needs and others’ needs. It is time to focus on other people, but don’t lose yourself in them or ignore your wants and needs. Relationships of all kind help them take another step towards growth and fulfillment.

8th House: Learn what it means to share with others intimately. To leave behind traumas and to move on from pain is a lesson. There is a call to explore one’s depths. An understanding and acceptance of death AND birth is associated too.

*When Nodes are in the 8th you hear a lot about transformation, but all the nodes can indicate this. With the 8th house there can be more symbolism in that the soul looks at life, death, rebirth. The soul is learning about the most primal and intense cycle and transformation.

9th House: Quest for meaning! A spiritual pull is here to learn about what matters to them on a “divine” level. Passion, instinct, feeling, and intellect all swirl in an uncomfortable storm. There is comfort in facts and logic, now the soul must think abstractly and about the unseen.

10th House: Confidence, inner and outer authority, gaining a reputation and using it for the positive, and a focus on career is here. They need to create a space in the public sphere as well as how to communicate and make an impact there. Success needs to be tangible but don’t mistake this for just money and stuff. Success on a deeper level can mean influence, to make a change in society, or maybe to make a better life for future family/generations.

11th House: There is a great humanitarian and collective pull. This person isn’t comfortable with the group, could be hesitant towards fellowship, and doesn’t always think on a communal scale. There is a mission to connect with others, face their society, understand organizations in their life. Bring fairness, equality, innovation, and civil connection.

12th House: Healing. To heal on a collective level or personal level. The soul wants to feel whole. Contentment in what one believes in and how one feels doesn’t come easily. Must learn to be at peace with their life and to find fulfillment by caring, loving, and healing others.

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Highly Focused 🌙 in the Houses

If this was a documentary, it would be about the rattlesnake not the whole desert.

Moon can represent the feminine polarity and women.

Moon in the 1st house can signify feminine traits being closer to the surface. Women or feminine energy may play a very significant role in shaping this person as they grow up.

Moon in the 2nd indicates great sensitivity towards the material realm as well as things like possessing, self-worth, and security. When it comes to focusing on just feminine energy, Moon in the 2nd can indicate intense attachment to women in their life, financial dependency on women, or security is highly dependent on a woman in their life. Many immediately think of being financially dependent on one’s mom which is understandable because it is the Moon aka the zodiac mom. But this can indicate other ladies as well. Feminine energy can also manifest in “passively” or softly approaching self-worth and security. Many times this is looked at as a weakness or struggle, which is unfortunate. While unhealthy dependency on a girlfriend or grandma can happen here, the idea that being reactive, reserved, sensitive towards your security, stability, worth as being a negative thing is old-fashion.

Moon in the 3rd we see someone who expresses their feminine side with ease, can be looked at as someone who relates to women or feminine traits with ease. What comes to mind is a feminist blogger or mommy blogger (though that also dips into the 4th house). Many female friends could be apparent. But when it comes to ladies in ones’ life a more likely association is women help shape their intellect, intuition, and communication in early childhood. An emphasis on female siblings could exist too.

Moon in the 4th you are going to see all types of green and red flags for motherhood/mothers, nurturing women in ones’ life, and female guardians/foster parents. Taking after ones’ mom and/or having their inner self shaped by the mother is associated. Women in their life tend to be protective, nurturing, intuitive, and tend to fit into the “mothering” archetype. Because motherhood is seen as such a strong trait, we see extremes of closeness or neglect/abuse with ones’ mom. Feminine traits can be seen most in the home and one could be quite guarded overall, especially over feminine traits that can, wrongfully be seen as “weak” or make them appear vulnerable.

Moon in the 5th house has an association with having female children and feminine traits most apparent as a parent and in romance. Has an appreciation for women or feminine traits clearly presented in others.

Moon in the 6th house. May get in good with female coworkers and bosses. But the main focus is feminine traits in their outlook and approach to routine, habits, health, and work. This isn’t just “sensitive”, “receptive”; this can mean holistic approaches, security and practicality driven behaviors, and being a dependable, helpful coworker who uses intuition to navigate and respond. May attract ladies in their life who want to help/serve them or care for them physically. Women friends or bonds may be important towards self improvement or improvement somewhere in their life.

Moon in the 7th house; likely to date women or the highly feminine? More like women play a significant role throughout their life. Appreciation and understanding for the feminine side exist. Here we see someone who attracts many female allies and rivals.

Moon in the 8th house. A misunderstood position in terms of this particular focus. Because the 8th house is associated with taboos, we may see someone rejecting the feminine externally or internally. Things get complex as the average interpretation of this placement is that intuition and feelings are intensified. Inheritance and genealogy from women play a big role. Feminine traits may be prominent in intimacy, sometimes in secrecy, in resourcefulness, and in other worldly views or occult interests. Women play a big role for transformations and sharing. Women in their life may be smothering, over protective, manipulative, controlling, or possessive.

Moon in the 9th house, female role models and teachers may be influential in this person’s life. Women in their life tend to be distracted with their beliefs, ventures, projects, or with an apparent self-interest. Moon here is known for indicating a mother who is from a different nation, religion, or race from the father. But also consider other women in their life can be of different cultures and religions than the individual. There is a focus on feminine ideals rather than displaying feminine traits outright.

Moon in the 10th house we see a theme of women playing a big role in their professional sphere of life. Women close to them might be a public figure, is highly focused on career, and can have a lot of influence socially somehow. Feminine traits are displayed in the public sphere. They can be highly sensitive about reputation. This is another area that wrongfully gets labeled as a “weak” placement. Mistaking feminine traits as a disadvantage, which doesn’t quite fit in the changing modern world. An individual might go into careers deemed “feminine” like nursing, teaching, or caregiver.

Moon in the 11th is famous for attracting female friends. However ladies in this persons’ life tend to be more intellectually-driven, have a good understanding and desire of/for friendship, are independent, and possibly detached or unpredictable. There is a tapping into the feminine collective; easily meshing with or appealing to the feminine side of others. Groups or organizations that help women or have some sort of feminine edge may appeal to them. Feminine traits are seen in connecting on many levels.

Moon in the 12th can have secretive or adverse relationship with women. There is an association with many being hidden enemies. There is manipulation, hidden problems, and strain associated with the mother or women who are very close. Feminine traits can be “muted” but is expressed easier in healing or caring for others. Women who are open with themselves are helpful to this person’s development.

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2nd house profection year

it’s my 2nd house profection year and I’m noticing some changes in my life. < my 2nd house is in cancer for ref.

~༯ I’m eating more this year than ever tbh. like I started having comfort food!!! eating whatever I want whenever and not holding myself back as much, which is very unlike me btw. I have a virgo moon and I’m not just nitpicky but also strict with my diet, even tho I have a fast metabolism (aries stellium).

~༯ usually when I’m stressed I tend to starve myself or get over caffeinated but this year I’m leaning more towards eating for comfort < yes taurus core.

~༯ I started going to the gym again but I’d slack off and become uninterested and bored, then find it interesting again, but that could just be my gem rising.

~༯ It seems like life is more abundant. things come easier! there's less resistance. I’m able to slow down and smell the roses.. 𓇢𓆸 I even feel a bit too comfortable or stuck in my comfort zone. everything seems like it’s too much and I just want to enjoy life. ˖ ݁𖥔 ݁˖

~༯ I started buying flowers, planting flowers, decorating my house a lot more, got more perfumes, more beautiful things. currently as we speaking I have like 10 different types of flowers in my house. I started cooking more, I even made up recipes that my family liked and started making them regularly.

~༯ I’m taking care of my skin, my body, and overall health. I'm investing more in skincare and health supplements. though sometimes I overdue it, like get fixated on one thing or another.

~༯ I'm someone that used to have high energy, I'd pull an all nighter or just wake up at 3am scroll non stop or put music on, it wasn’t energy it was ⋆˙⟡ anxiety ⟡⋆˙ , but I'm having more quality sleep this year! I'm in bed by 10 and maybe I just got older, but there's that.

~༯ giving my hair a well deserved break!! I used do dye my hair very often, this year I got a short haircut and I’m growing my natural hair back, I’ve only added a few subtle highlights and I don’t style it as often. I'm embracing more simplicity with my style, though could be that my ass got lazy 𐙚(ᵕ̤ᴗᵕ̤)

~༯ I'm planing more, working on my skills and hobbies, but not rushing or forcing things and not setting high expectations either. I don't feel like there's a rush like before. my values are changing significantly, I know what I like and don’t like and what I can put up with.

~༯ don't get too comfortable and not do anything about moving forward bcz you will be tempted to. remember to still challenge yourself!

~༯ I’m having a relatively comfortable year it got me having flashbacks of my 12th house profection year which was a fckin nightmare. It was all about the subconscious, mental health struggles, depression and overcoming these things. It really was about coming up with personified methods that help me deal with these internal conflict so I can move forward. It also was the year I became more spiritual.

~༯ my 1st house profection year wasn’t good either for me personally, it was super challenging and chaotic. it had me doing things outside my comfort zone. e.g. throwing myself in the ocean (i'm afraid of drowning). my individuality was constantly tested, my determination, my willingness to put myself first and not compromise my own needs and values.

~༯ there were instances where I felt like I'm compromising for the sake of keeping a friendship, which wasn’t reciprocated. I learned to not be afraid to walk away from ppl and places that don’t respect or value me. my cut off game wasn't particularly bad before, but I felt blinded, manipulated and pressured that year, I had to fully trust myself and only rely on myself. very much aries themes.

~༯ If you're going thRU it with your 12th or 1st house profection, know that it will teach you valuable lessons that lead you to know yourself and love yourself more. you will understand your triggers, your strengths, know who your enemies and true friends are. it gets better! this feels like the perfect year to take a break from all the past challenges that I went through, I'm able to slow down, enjoy life and reflect until I see where the next tides takes me.

stay blessed, much luv <333

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Reasons Why Water House Synastry Is Karmic and Intense:

In this post, I want to address some reasons why water house (4th, 8th, and 12th) synastry can be very intense, very transformational and create/increase codependency.

(the basis of this thread is the fact that there is attraction and desire within the romantic connection, and the depth of feeling will run more true if you share multiple other intense synastry aspects/past life connections. Friendships/family relations that have heavy 8th/12th house synastry overlays manifest *very* differently)

Each water house has one common factor, and that's with these type of synastry overlays; you will feel seen or accepted. In some way, some form, the severity of it depends (as usual), but if you struggle with:

4TH House:

Showing your true character to others without the fear of being judged.

Sharing your inner thoughts to others with ease and safeness.

The fact that you never felt/had a safe home, so now you long for that feeling (of being at ease/comfortable with someones presence).

Feeling ease and comfortability within your environment or within yourself, instead you experienced that those feelings came at a cost.

8TH House: If you struggle with:

Self acceptance.

Self worth.

Self love.

Self confidence.

Accepting/receiving love.

Having low respect for yourself (meaning how others treat you may be hurtful but because of lack of validation within, you allow or accept that behavior).

Having a pattern where the way others treat you either gives or takes away validation your inner wounds need.

Deeply craving emotional closeness yet fearing it at the same time.

Allowing yourself to desire love.

The fact you're emotionally unavailable; so you're unsure with how to deal with romance, and yet a part of you still deeply desires a partner.

These also may resonate if you have 8H, Pluto aspecting inner planets/Scorpio placements)

12TH House: If you struggle with:

Emotionally availability/allowing someone to see you, all of you.

Receiving tangible, stable, harmonious, love.

Having a habit to/find it easier to fix or save someone in hopes of changing their self destructive habits/mental health issues, this also creates an avoidance within you to focus on your own needs/problems. (it's easier to focus in someone else's pain rather than your own)

Feeling safe with the idea of not being needed, instead you choose to be the giver or other woman since it subconsciously keeps you at a distance of being openly loved.

Holding the deep desire to feel seen past the physical 3D.

Allowing yourself to receive the type of love you're able to give/shower them.

Wanting to fix or heal someone's mental health wounds or problems, you find it safer to be their savior than have a true give and take partnership.

(These also may resonate if you have 12H, Neptune aspecting inner planets/Pisces placements)

These are a few examples of how intense these synastry overlays may manifest if you are struggling with the above statements. I briefly mentioned a few indicators, needless to say they are more and each synastry chart or even natal chart will always paint the picture better of how deep these relationships can manifest.

then 4th, 8th, and 12th house synastry will cause internal shift within, whether you want it to or not.

4th House: With the 4th house and when someone walks into your life and they ignite your IC, the part of your character that you readily hide becomes unlocked. If you personally have struggled with being comfortable in your skin, or have struggled with feeling secure with who you are as you are, then this person to you will feel like a comfort blanket. Their presence will shift you into a mood where all you feel is safe, present, and in the moment. With them, you will feel complete in showcasing your inner world and your inner thoughts. Their presence will become this key that you didn't even knew you need. It'll feel easy with them, and there is no hesitation, confusion or worry. You can't feel worry, and it's not because they insistently tell you not to feel anxious, you just naturally won't. You guys will likely share the same humor or communication style, and if there is a Venus conjunct IC then the IC person will feel this romantic pull with showcasing their personality outwardly that they won't be able to shake towards the Venus person. Overall these feelings are especially true if you struggle with letting someone in, if it takes some time for you to allow someone else to see your personality or thoughts, then they will feel like a cure for allowing to let that side of you out and when you're next to them; you'll feel like you're finally home.

Example: you walk into a bar and they make eye contact with you, you instantly smile, they instantly smile, and the conversation that ignites feels as if you just spoke to them. It could be weeks, months even since you last saw them but the comfortability between the two of you oozes out in a way where it feels like they just came back home to you.

The reason why this type of connection can be hard to let go of is because their presence might cause or create a codependent need in you for them in order to feel "safe." All their presence is doing is igniting the secure feeling in you that you wish you had, you finally can look into another's eyes and feel that type of comfortability you've always been scared enough to unlock or accept. Your private thoughts and characteristics feel safe next to them, and because of that, they create this security within you won't know how to let go of. So, all they are doing is unleashing your wish of being your truest self without fearing the consequences of being seen for who you are.

In some cases, 4th house synastry may not run as intense, and some say it can be 'mundane' or boring, especially if you don't struggle with the listed wounds I stated, or if you don't share other intense or cute attraction synastry aspects with them; but in essence this individual will feel like a grounding force.

The bond you can form with them is tangible, it's secure, and it feels real. So, letting them go will feel as though you're letting go the one desire of ever revealing your private inner self with ease, especially if this is a part of you that you've been too afraid to openly show or even accept.

Songs That Relate

Look After You - The Fray

Chasing Cars - Snow Patrol

Control - Zoe Wees

8th House: With the 8th house, these type of connections are more intense, and naturally so. With this type of synastry, and if you struggle with self acceptance especially with self love or self worth, then letting go of this connection will feel near to impossible. It will feel like life or death if they walk away from you, and it will feel like a part of you dies every time they don't give you the reassurance or acknowledgment your soul wishes for. Their eyes alone, tell you it's time to let that wall down and without effort your wall crumbles. You know that if they leave, a part of you will leave with them but if your wound of wishing to be accepted runs so deep within, you can't help but take that risk. You're aware that the unavoidable low following their absence will cut deep, yet instead of walking away, you prepare yourself for its inevitable arrival.

You allow that pain to embody you because that pain hurts less than not feeling those moments of acceptance that they are able to give you, especially if it's what you've always reluctantly wished for.

With their presence that void of wanting emotional closeness that you've always longed for will feel like it has vanished, their eyes alleviate the long-ignored half-empty feeling, and so the part of you that wishes to been seen, the part of you that wishes to feel accepted, the part of you that wants to be vulnerable won't know how to let go.

You could run into them and it could be weeks, months even and if you still struggle with loving yourself in the way you wish they would, their presence will create this upheaval that will shake within you, this synastry holds cycles, loops, ups and down to the point of where if you don't hate them, a part of you will still want them.

This synastry creates a dynamic where this soul that entered your life is only igniting the parts of you that you, yourself don't accept, love or acknowledge. Their presence becomes this band-aid that somehow soothes the deepest parts of you that have been abandoned, and their presence soothes the part of you that you yourself believe you can't heal. This fear then creates a scarcity mindset that can cause you to become someone you're not, and even if you logically know what is objectively best to do in situations to not create more intensity within the connection; there's just a part of you that can't care.

The reason why this type of connection can be hard to let go of is because their presence might cause or create a codependent need in you to have them in order to feel "seen." Their presence gives you a sense of acceptance where you allow yourself to accept love in. If you struggle with emotional abandonment, or fear love, then their presence will feel like a "skip the line" pass with inner healing the parts of you that feel broken.

The reason why 8th house synastry is discussed so promptly and openly is because these feelings that persist (when dealing with inner wounds) become such catalysts of growth and ego deaths; but that is only because this connection allows in the hope for love you've been wishing for all your life. You want to be held, you want to be cared for and loved in a way that you've never received, and this person presences grants that sole wish. They bring you that one solace feeling that you've never felt and because of that, letting them go is letting go the one key that makes you feel worthy, seen, and accepted.

Their presence creates this codependent need within because they become this one "thing" that you think you need in order to fulfill that self love wound you keep repressing. You'll start to rely on them for emotional clarity or serenity, you'll start to "need them" in order to feel good, and you'll expect them to make you feel "better" emotionally and if they fail to meet those expectations, all you'd be faced with is the unwavering feeling of the lack of self love or worth you're too afraid to self develop.

The love you're so readily able to give them, is what your soul is asking you to give yourself.

*Those who have prominent natal Scorpio or 8th house placements as well as having Pluto aspecting harshly their inner planets or ascendant will feel these trials and errors more*

Songs That Relate:

Locksmith - Sadie Jean

Addicted - Kelly Clarkson

Im Yours/Haunted/Heartbeat - Isabel LaRose

Just a Little Bit of Your Heart - Ariana Grande

12th house: With the 12th house, this synastry unlocks so many different routes and experiences. Many factors influence how each individual can feel towards this ethereal connection. One way this synastry can manifest is through the tendency for the 12th house to cloud, confuse, and bring hesitancy into the connection. In some cases, Person A will feel as though they can read Person B in such a deep and subconscious way; this type of knowing may even be hidden from Person B to the extent that they are unaware of their own subconscious emotional needs, thoughts or feelings, and yet (especially if there's care or desire on their end) Person A can read Person B like a book. 12th house synastry can be so thought provoking because of the absolute depth and surreal feeling it can add into the connection. The planet person (or the person who has heavy Neptune/Pisces/12th house placements) will feel this innate drive to be with the house person (or the other partner who isn't as spiritual adept). It's as if one partner, driven by an innate need to give endlessly, is profusely tossing their sole bucket of water into the vast ocean of the other partner's needs. The giver (or the person who has heavy Neptune/Pisces/12th house placements) is so focused on giving that they overlook the importance of receiving, while the receiver remains oblivious.

If Person B remains unaware of the deep spiritual bond between them that can manifest, they may perceive Person A's actions as invasive or unnecessary. Person A, recognizing wounds in Person B that they may not be aware of can evoke a sense of fear in Person B, this has to deal with the issue of them not allowing or accepting a form of love that they believe (Person B) doesn't serve them.

If this scenario resonates with you, then this individual is provoking a wound within yourself that deals with the acceptance of receiving authentic love. This innate need to only give highlights your own fear of receiving real tangible love.

In this scenario where one party wants to save, fix, heal or give highlights that fearful nature in you where you allow to stay in shallow waters. You subconsciously know that you have such passionate love to give, but that thought of giving to someone who in turn might be willing to give back evokes fear and uncertainty within you.

This subconscious block holds more comfortability within you since it allows you to never accept a love where your soul will fully be fulfilled. It's self sabotaging and self written, you naturally already know how the story will end between you two, and so you subconsciously will find a character who perfectly embodies the story you yourself say you try to run from.

On the other hand this synastry (when desired and when is dealing with highly evolved individuals) can unlock such deep soulfulness between both partners. Between the two parties, it'll feel as if they have found someone that can finally understand them better than anyone ever has, it'll feel dreamy and mystical. Their body language writes stories that you could only read.

In a pure sense, one partner that desires the other very deeply and whole heartedly wants to make sure that their partner is seen, and understood. And this comes from a very sincere place and if the other receiving partner allows that kind of love in while being okay with giving that same love back, that is when this type of connection can be ideal.

Now in this scenario, this type of codependent nature deals with over emphasizing redemption with no boundaries. If there is solid exchangeable love, a part of you may believe there is always more good than bad within them or within the relationship, and so their wrongdoings or unacceptable behavior to you or to others somehow receives justification or more understanding than he or she should receive (especially if you also share 8th house synastry with them)

This type of dynamic receives interchanging parts, with the 12th house things can lack a solid foundation and lack crystal clear communication, some days you both won't deal with struggling dynamics, then one say Partner 1 acts out, to which Partner 2 cuirasses and holds, then a few weeks later Partner 2 acts out and Partner 1 comes to their aid.

Truly the amount of stories, experiences, how Person 1 will feel vs Person 2 is genuinely so intercomplicated and nuanced. Each story lies within the two parties involved, with this house they are just so many different routes and avenues it can uphold so in this particular post may not cover every ounce of information on 12th house synastry. If you are curious to learn more only about this synastry I have a long updated post titled "Understanding 12th House Synastry" and it's far more in-depth.

In essence, how the other partner receives this type of boundless understanding calls for them to be a very kind and open individual. It's important to understand and recognize red flags or self undoing patterns. Staying aware of the actual real situation instead of sitting in bed thinking of the "What if's" are key. Their posts may not be about you, that song on their story can be just a song, remember that. Especially if the individual lacks self awareness or care on their end.

Finally, I don't believe water house synastry holds malicious energy or serves as a dictatorship with stating how the relationship will fail. Not every synastry overlay is set for such intense energy or uncomfortable experiences, each planet in a natal chart holds different themes. What truly matters at the end of the day are the two souls involved within the connection. Desire, care, love, and acceptance are all foundational keys for any relationship to last even those with or without water house synastry. Accepting yourself in the purest form when it comes each water house theme (4,8,12) is key.

Your natal chart when it comes to synastry serves as a mirror within yourself, everything you are feeling for someone else is already sitting within you.

Don't forget that.

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synastry / composite chart notes ⋆.*:･ ೄྀ࿐ ˊˎ-

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hey y'all! i decided to finally get in my bag and make a post ab synastry and composite charts. and bc i constantly see this question brought up: in synastry, both people will feel the connection. how they feel it and whether one of them is affected more by it than the other depends not only on the full context of the synastry chart, but your individual natal charts, as well as things like transits, retrogrades, lunar cycles, eclipses, etc. there is no one shoe fits all answer for how energy manifests in astrology, always keep that in mind when engaging w astro content.

apologies for how long this post is btw, my virgo moon is constantly getting caught up in details and i never know when to stfu

click here for a (free) in depth synastry report!

─ ruler of your 1H in their 9H in synastry can indicate a long distance relationship, or traveling playing a significant role in this pairing

⋆.*:･☽ the partners may have differing backgrounds, i.e. being raised in different countries, being of different ethnicities/race, having different religious/spiritual beliefs, etc. the 1H person may feel that their identity and the way that they navigate through the world is significantly impacted by the 9H person’s ideologies and beliefs

⋆.*:･☽ the 1H person could feel like they learn a lot from the 9H person, and might find themselves feeling more introspective around them. the 9H person may feel that despite the difference in their upbringings, they see something in the way that the 1H person carries themselves that is admirable, and may even inspire the 9H person to explore different ways of thinking and learning. they could also find themselves wanting to teach the 1H person about their culture and traditions, or about their own personal beliefs

─ saturn conjunct juno in synastry can manifest as both partners having the same shared principles in regards to their needs for stability and commitment in their relationships

⋆.*:･☽ if this is a stronger aspect in the synastry chart, there's probably a good sense of dependability that the pair feels for one another, and an inclination to sustain a fulfilling, long-term relationship. saturn will usually be the one who takes the lead and provides structure to the relationship, while juno fortifies the foundation. it is possible for saturn to overstep or be too authoritative at times with the conjunction, which is why it's important maintain a sense of understanding between one another, as well as space for individuality to exist within the relationship

⋆.*:･☽ saturn can act as a stable, guiding force in juno's life, and juno typically views saturn as a source of wisdom. this aspect can also indicate there being a difference in age or maturity levels, with saturn usually being the older or more "mature" person in the partnership

─ ascendant sextile jupiter in synastry can indicate a connection defined by spiritual fulfillment and abundance

⋆.*:･☽ with this aspect there's usually an instant "click" between the two upon first meeting, and they could even feel as though they were destined to find one another. jupiter is not only physically attracted to the ascendant, but feels as though there is an innate understanding of one another's values. the two may even share personal beliefs, or have interests in the same topics or follow the same spiritual practices

⋆.*:･☽ this tends to be a very optimistic pairing, especially on jupiter's behalf, as jupiter is genuinely devoted to helping facilitate the ascendant person's personal and spiritual growth. the ascendant person in this equation is typically very appreciative of jupiter's uplifting nature, and may even enjoy going on adventures with jupiter and learning alongside them throughout their journey as partners

─ ceres conjunct pluto in synastry may manifest as a deep bond between two people that provides an extremely nurturing and innately protective nature to their relationship

⋆.*:･☽ this is a connection that can be very emotionally intense, both parties will experience themes of rebirth and renewal through this relationship. the way that pluto navigates their need for nourishment and emotional fulfillment will be triggered through their connection to ceres. this can result in pluto surrendering their need for control and allowing ceres to provide comfort through this phase of renewal. or, this can manifest as pluto becoming resistant when faced with their ideals surrounding being cared for, and doubling-down on their need for control. pluto tends to be very protective of ceres with this aspect, and can potentially be too overbearing at times

⋆.*:･☽ depending on how the energy of this conjunction manifests, the transformation brought on by this aspect can be life changing. when this energy is productively channeled, both partners navigate this deeply spiritual bond with wholehearted support for one another. ceres will usually be the person that pluto feels truly understands them, while pluto reciprocates that empathy and leads ceres through their personal and spiritual evolution and growth. there’s a post i came across that said something along the lines of “it hurts to be misunderstood, but are you ready to not run away the day that you find someone who truly understands you?” and honestly, i feel like that summarizes this aspect best

─ sun square north node in synastry is indicative of a karmic/past life connection, there is apparent wounding that needs to be worked through in relationships where this type of aspect is present

⋆.*:･☽ when these natives meet, it typically feels as though they’ve known each other for their entire lives. ultimately, these types of connections are meant to push the natives to evolve beyond the reoccurring lessons they keep encountering. with this aspect, the sun may feel stifled or insecure in their identity. while the NN genuinely wants what’s best for the sun, they may feel as though their intent constantly gets lost in translation. the NN person’s attempts to aid the sun person in expressing themselves may inadvertently trigger the sun person’s sense of self

⋆.*:･☽ this is usually a connection that people find extremely difficult to break away from. it definitely takes people who are very mature and know how to navigate conflict in a healthy way to be able to maintain a relationship with this being a prominent aspect. regardless, the most relevant part of experiencing a connection like this finally succumbing to and receiving the lesson you’re being presented with

─ ruler of your 8H square their neptune in synastry can indicate difficulty with idealization, both partners may struggle to see one another for who they actually are

⋆.*:･☽ this can manifest as conflict regarding the pair’s shared resources. with this aspect, the planet that has rulership over the 8H plays a significant role in how this energy plays out. i.e. if saturn has rulership over the 8H, the saturn person may grow to resent the neptune person and their “impractical” nature, while the neptune person may grow to view saturn as too impersonal and controlling. if this a prominent aspect in the chart, this relationship could be unhealthy. these natives could run into financial issues or debt, or even potential addiction or abuse

⋆.*:･☽ depending on the full context of the chart(s), i could definitely see there being potential to actually work through this square and maintain a positive, productive relationship. both parties (specifically neptune) have to work towards knowing when it’s time to lead with their head and not their heart. this can be a very spiritual connection, and the natives involved have to put in the effort to not fall prey to the depths of neptune or the idle energy of the 8H by instilling boundaries and prioritizing clear and honest communication between each other

─ moon square mars in synastry may show a deeply passionate connection, but misunderstandings and conflict can be present and reoccurring

⋆.*:･☽ while moon/mars aspects tend to signify a level of magnetism or sexual attraction between the two parties, these natives could find it difficult to express their emotions in a healthy, constructive way, specifically with the square. with this dynamic, the moon could find themselves feeling triggered by mars, and ultimately feel as though their needs for emotional support and nourishment aren’t be fulfilled. on the other hand, mars may feel held back or stunted by the moon, or feel as though the moon doesn’t share the same determination for their goals and generally feels unsupported in the relationship

⋆.*:･☽ emotions on both ends can be extremely intense, with the moon usually being more inclined to react more hastily. with this aspect, the moon usually has to work through any potential codependency that mars’ behavior invokes, while mars has to put more energy into being more considerate about how their actions and attitude impact the moon. ultimately, this is a very passionate pair, and they tend to be extremely devoted to one another regardless of their differences or the challenges they encounter

─ venus square uranus in synastry can indicate a connection that is very spontaneous and unpredictable in nature

⋆.*:･☽ while this aspect can bring an abundance of creativity and be a source of inspiration for the natives, it also has the capacity to cause instability within a relationship. uranus’ clever, rebellious nature is something that venus is initially attracted to, but after a while that admiration can boil over into annoyance or frustration, as venus feels they can’t rely on uranus to provide a sense of stability and harmony within their bond. this can also manifest as a long distance partnership, or a pairing where one partner (usually uranus) travels significantly more than the other

⋆.*:･☽ on the other hand, uranus could begin to feel restricted by venus, and struggle to maintain and express their independence in the connection. ultimately, both parties will have to adapt and compromise for one another’s needs. uranus may need to work to find balance between prioritizing venus’ desire for security and maintaining their sense of individuality in the relationship. while venus provides uranus with a level of excitability in the relationship and grants them their space when needed

─ sun conjunct saturn in the composite chart can manifest as a relationship where both parties uphold the same values around structure and tradition

⋆.*:･☽ this is an aspect that definitely gives "power couple" energy. while they may not be the most outwardly romantic pair or partake in PDA, they're extremely mature and tend to excel when working as a team, as they push one another to achieve both their personal and shared goals. with saturn here, this can be a very karmic relationship as well. this pair deeply values the connection they have with one another, and seek to maintain a long-term partnership. they may even feel an innate sense of responsibility for one another, and tend to navigate their relationship in a more traditional way

⋆.*:･☽ this pair may also run into issues when it comes to competing for the role of "leader" in the relationship, as one or both partners can be too domineering at times. they may need to work towards finding and maintaining balance in terms of power distribution, as to not bump heads with one another and hold space for each other's thoughts and feelings without judgement. this is a couple that may do well in business together, or may have even met one another through their careers as well

─ ruler of the 6H in the 10H in the composite chart indicates a connection where is a shared desire to be of service to others through their professions

⋆.*:･☽ this pair strives to help others, and they're typically viewed as a very generous couple. their work may entail advocating on behalf of the disenfranchised or underprivileged, and they could both be deeply invested in their careers. although, this dedication may come at the expense of one or both partners' health, as there can be a tendency to overextend themselves in order to accomplish their goals. these natives have to be mindful of how they approach their careers, as whatever challenges they encounter can deeply impact their well being, and potentially interfere with their day to day life

⋆.*:･☽ the planet that has rulership in this placement will provide more context into how the energy plays out. for example, if the moon has rulership over the 6H, there will be a shared emotional investment in the work that this couple does. this would intensify the way that their careers or public perception affects the way that they navigate their relationship, and can potentially impact their mental health as well. boundaries and healthy habits need to be implemented here, as the couple may grow overwhelmed when they feel can't reach the goals they've set in place. generally, this would be another placement that's indicative of working well as a team, as there's a strong, unshakeable sense of support between these two natives

─ chiron trine mercury in the composite chart can manifest as a pairing that finds healing and compassion through expressing themselves to one another

⋆.*:･☽ this couple may feel extremely comfortable opening up to one another about past hurt or strife in their lives. depending on the strength of this aspect, these natives tend to feel safe around one another and find that communication leads to personal and spiritual evolution for both of them. this doesn't mean that misunderstandings won't arise, just that when they do, there's usually an innate ease to working through that conflict, and therefore less of a likelihood for hard feelings to be harbored

⋆.*:･☽ this couple could also "share a brain" in a sense, and they're usually the type to finish each other's sentences and communicate with one another through body language and eye contact. they also could've faced similar challenges growing up in terms of insecurities surrounding their self-expression. this is an aspect that tends to be very wholesome and beneficial, as the innate, intellectual bond that these natives have typically makes for deeply empathetic, nourishing relationship

─ black moon lilith sextile venus in the composite chart can indicate a pairing that navigates their love for one another in an intense yet unconventional kind of way

⋆.*:･☽ with this aspect, the partners usually feel seen and understood for who they really are, and therefore find it easier to express the more raw, underlying parts of their psyche that they've grown used to suppressing for others. the parts of their identities that they feel ashamed of (or were shamed for), are the very traits and characteristics that their partner falls in love with. this can be a very creative connection, and the two may feel innately inspired by their relationship

⋆.*:･☽ this can also be a very sensual aspect, as the two may feel comfortable enough to explore intimacy and sex in a way that feels freeing and liberating to them. the two may have to practice reigning the energy of lilith in, as with this aspect they can grow "too comfortable" and over do it at times (not as much as with the challenging aspects though). ultimately, this is a pair that not only respects one another's independent nature, but encourage it. they both grant each other the freedom to express their individuality outside of the relationship, which is ultimately what's most important to the two of them

─ ruler of the 12H conjunct the ascendant in the composite chart may indicate a connection that is defined by it's deep spiritual nature

⋆.*:･☽ this is a relationship that the couple may keep private and to themselves, and typically has a significant impact on the psyches of both parties, for better or for worse. others may view the couple as very "secretive", and/or mischaracterize their relationship. these two could also bond with one another through their shared experiences of the "darker" aspects of life. they're also usually very protective of the bond they share, and view what they have with one another as sacred and worth safeguarding from others

⋆.*:･☽ with this aspect, there can be a tendency to over-idealize the connection at times, and both parties will have to work to view their relationship for what it actually is, not the romanticized version of it in their heads. the planet that has rulership over the 12H adds a significant amount of context as to how this energy will manifest. for example, if jupiter has rules the 12H and is conjunct the ascendant, this would intensify the spiritual nature of the relationship. the couple may be viewed as charitable, wise, and fortunate, and while they could struggle with practical matters, jupiter's cushioning may end up protecting them in the long run

─ jupiter opposite pluto in the composite chart can manifest as power struggles regarding one or both partners' resources

⋆.*:･☽ this is an aspect that can indicate fruitful abundance (material and/or spiritual) within a relationship. these two may also have a shared resistance towards authority, or have personal philosophies that go against the grain of societal norms. although, this can also indicate a struggle to express one's personal ideologies, or to pursue their aspirations, without the other feeling imposed upon. this feeling of constraint can lead the two to behaving in ways that are selfish or manipulative as a means to maintain a sense of authority

⋆.*:･☽ these natives may encounter conflict or challenges stemming from a need to control in every single aspect of the relationship, specifically when in it comes to finances. ultimately, this pair must put more effort towards finding and maintaining balance, and working with each other instead of against. when evolved, this is an aspect that can lead the natives to building a productive, bountiful life with one another through releasing the shared need for power and control in their connection

─ chiron square moon in the composite chart may indicate that past painful experiences have the potential to impact the couple's ability to connect with one another

⋆.*:･☽ with this aspect, the natives can encounter challenges regarding their emotional compatibility. this aspect is also indicative of both parties having some sort of wounding surrounding the mother or early childhood that negatively affects how they provide (or can’t provide) nourishment for one another. themes of emotional avoidance or co-dependency can show up in this connection as well

⋆.*:･☽ ultimately, this is a connection that can have a profound impact on both parties involved, and in the best case scenario will influence the two to work through the hurt and trauma that this connection triggers and brings up for them. with time and effort, they can work to show up for not only each other, but themselves as well, in a way that is healthy, honest, and validating

─ mars square saturn in the composite chart can manifest as a lack of security that evolves into themes of power and control

⋆.*:･☽ with this aspect, the natives both feel as though they know what is best not only for the relationship, but for their partners as well. this is another aspect that can indicate that the pair is extremely headstrong, and challenges may be frequent. they're both extremely passionate, and can assert themselves in ways that make the other feel anxious or insecure. independence can be something that these two inherently value, and they may struggle to express their autonomy without fearing retaliation or conflict from each other

⋆.*:･☽ this is another pair that will have to work towards seeing the value in what they can build together, instead of (purposefully or not) tearing each other down. there's a balance that needs to be implemented, which will require work on behalf of both of them as individuals. eventually, these two can evolve to the point of playing to one another's strengths, and in turn fortifying the strong, stable connection that both of them seek out of their relationship

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Astro Observations #29

• Virgo placements make good listers, hence why some may choose careers in neurology or some form of therapy. Especially hypnotherapy.

• Gemini placements on the other hand, tend to go for psychology. Some even opt for social workers/counselors.

• Aquarius placements tend to have a knack for criminology.

• Cardinal mars 🤝 always taking everybody else's pictures for them.

• I've noticed oftentimes, when you're in a relationship with your first love, you tend to have both your mercuries at the same degrees.

• Or you tend to have your mercury in the same modality. E.g. My first love had his mercury at the same degree as mine. Another ex of mine had their mercury in the same modality, squaring mine. And another, had their mercury's degree in the opposite sign of my mercury.

• Leo Mars men love complementing women, true sweethearts!

• 1H Venus synastry sometimes looks like, Venus person standing up for the house person. Venus person teases the 1H person and tries to make them laugh with mean jokes. Hehe.

• The house person can also be the Venus person's fav person to hang around and do things with.

• Your rising falling in someone's 8H could mean you find it hard to make eye contact or look at the house person for longer than 10 seconds, lol.

• Libra moons with Libra risings 🤝 Being nice so people don't think you're rude, lowkey being exhausted of putting up that front.

• Gemini suns with Cancer Venuses 🤝 Being very caring, nurturing and affectionate or manipulative and immature.

• Pisces suns with Aries and Aquarius placements 🤝 Being soft spoken and humorous when in a good mood vs explosive & arrogant when something or someone's gotten on their nerves.

• Also, Pisces Placements charm isn't talked about, why??

• Aries placements are the type to get irritated quick and explode. Sometimes they regret it later. But then again, maybe they don't. Ha!

• Also, Aries placements be so loyal?

• I swear Earth suns/moons gets so irritated when something's out of place or you forget to do something. Like, they won't rest until whatever has to be done, is done.

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one thing i will say about 12h synastry with friends that is neither positive nor negative is the fact that the planet person will see the house person as a totally new landscape to explore and discover basically. and the house person will feel it, and either feel unseen/“objectified” or appreciated and showered with attention.

i’ve realised depending on the planet person, they can either be totally delusional about this and project their own beliefs and assumptions onto the house person, or they can be endlessly curious and grateful to have the house person in their lives.

besides knowing this from experience, it’s because the 12th house is a very worldly, universal, yet unknown and subconscious house. it can be how the world seems like to you and also how the world projects its own beliefs onto you from young. having people with planets in your 12th house can either seem like they’re constantly getting things wrong about you and make you feel misunderstood, or make you feel appreciated, grateful and abundant. because the planet person will constantly be learning about you, and being grateful you’re a complex being while treasuring you in their lives.

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Solar Return Chart Notes

Indications

Being envied/gossiped about:

Aries/Scorpio/Leo/Aquarius Rising

1,13,8,20,5,17,11,23 degrees on rising or MC

Sun, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Neptune, Uranus, Pluto in the 1st or 10th house

Lilith in the 1st or 10th

Lilith harshly aspecting 1st house, 10th house, or personal planets

MC ruler in the 1st, 3rd, 6th, 10th or 11th (solar x return, return)

Sun aspecting Mercury, Mars, Uranus, Neptune

Mercury in harsh aspect to Sun, Mercury, Mars, Saturn, Pluto especially if planets are in the 1st, 10th or sometimes even 12th house (solar x return, return)

Chart ruler / MC Lord in 12th house = hidden, hidden enemies (or vice versa) 12th Sun = people could talk about your personality, ego, overall personality traits - 12th Venus = your relationship, love life, looks - 12th Mars = Your sex life, your attitude, your energy

Transforming in a major way:

Pluto conjunct personal planets

Pluto/Scorpio in the 1st, 8th, 10th house or ruling Profection year

Planets in the 8, 20 degree

Jupiter in the 1st, 8th, 10th house

Jupiter aspecting Sun, Moon, Rising, Mars

Jupiter aspecting Pluto

A lot of planets aspecting your 8th house ruler

Venus in the first or conjunct the asc

Chiron in the 1st, 8th, and 12th house

Capricorn Rising/Saturn ruled Profection Year

1st, 2nd, 5th, 8th, 10th, 12th Profection year

Finding Love:

Sun/Venus/POF/Vertex/Juno in the 1st, 5th, 7th, 10th house

Chart Ruler is Venus or in 2,14,7,19 degrees

7th house ruler in the 1st, 5th, or 7th house

5th house ruler in the 1st, 5th, or 7th

POF/Juno/Vertex in positive aspect to Venus and Mars especially conjunction

POF/Juno/Vertex aspecting POF/Juno/Vertex

Mars in the 5th or 5th house ruled by Mars

A lot of positive aspects to the 5th and 7th house

Jupiter in the 1st, 5th, 7th house

Jupiter aspecting Venus, Juno, POF, Mars, Vertex especially in 1st, 5th, 7th, or 10th house

Moon in positive aspect to Venus

Moon positively aspecting Vertex, POF, ASC, DSC, Juno

Im definitely forgetting a lot of aspects, these are just the ones I thought of first 💕

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MARS SIGN OBSERVATIONS pt. II

♂ Virgo Mars - It seems as though individuals with this placement are running off some sort of nervous energy. It is best if these types are kept busy. They feel a deep need to be productive and are constantly scrounging for something to do. Relaxing is not something that comes easy to them. Their body is always occupied with some sort of task, they always have something to do. People with a Virgo Mars make for excellent multi-taskers. They can take on multiple projects all at once without forsaking the quality of their work. Systems and routines keep these people in check. They wouldn't be able to carry out all their plans without being diligent and organized. Within the span of a single day, a Virgo Mars will carry out their work duties, participate in their favorite hobbies, run errands, and then socialize with friends. They can do it all. To others their life may seem rather hectic even if they personally feel like things are running smoothly.

♂ Leo Mars - This is a great position for mars. People with this placement are truly in charge of their own lives. They run off a lot of passion and vitality, they love life. These types display a sort of strength that never goes unnoticed. They are incredibly ambitious and set big goals for themselves. Confidence and strong convictions will help them carry out their endeavors. They step into the role of a leader without thinking and have no problem dictating the actions of others. More often than not, these types tend to act on their ego. A Leo Mars carries everything out in a manner that is dramatic or grand. They have big hearts. Disloyalty and betrayal anger them the most. They seek admiration through their actions, and if this isn’t given to them, they will freak out. They are also more easily embarrassed in comparison to other placements. Humiliation is something they fear.

♂ Cancer Mars - The actions of a Cancer Mars are directly tied to their emotional state. The same can be said for the level of energy that they display. They frequently go through highs and lows. They will feel ready to take on the world and then a couple weeks later they’ll feel a need to hide from the world. If they are in a bad mood, nothing is going to get done. However, they are still helpful. They don’t want to let people down and will still lend a hand if needed. Although there are times in which these types choose to be passive, they also have the ability to be direct and authoritative. When faced with injustice or the hurt feelings of others, they will stand up for what they believe is right with conviction. They are protective over people, and they express aggression in a way that is covert and manipulative.

♂ Gemini Mars - People with this placement are forever outrunning boredom. They stretch themselves thin when it comes to being busy and taking on plans. A Gemini Mars is incredibly restless, these people are always on edge. When irritated, their words are cutting. Their nervousness may be mistaken for anger by others. They use a lot of sarcasm and love to stir up verbal debates. People with this placement might struggle with maintaining focus. They are great at starting projects but lack follow through. They become distracted easily, or even worse, they might become bored. Discovering the newness of life is what makes these types feel passionate. They live on the edge of their seats and their actions are driven by curiosity. A Gemini Mars needs to be doing something interesting everyday to feel satisfied. Quiet routines and the methodical process of everyday life drain people with this placement.

♂ Taurus Mars - Those with a Taurus mars have a stubborn streak that surprises others. These types are calm and take life slow. For the most part, they live life in peace. They stick to themselves and aren’t ones to get involved in conflict or drama. Their goals are important to them, and they are methodical in their approach to success. People with this placement have an unwavering sense of determination. They don’t define themselves through their setbacks and failures. They understand the value of being still. Once they’ve set their mind on something, there is no turning back for them. Other people might mistake them for passive. However, they have no problem saying no and will put up a fight if their decision is pushed. They might become provoked if people unexpectedly change plans. These types are driven by stability and struggle with being adaptable.

♂ Aries Mars - Impulsive, reckless, and flashy are just a few words that come to mind when thinking about this placement. People who have an Aries Mars are driven by instinct and tend to lead exciting lives. They’re not afraid to take action and are always ready for what's coming next. They move through life quickly. These types are competitive and like the idea of being the first to do something. They want to be number one, or the best, in whatever it is that they do. They’re quick to make decisions and love to take on a challenge. They lack patience and are angered by passive aggressiveness. This placement is famous for displaying a quick temper. But, they are also quick to get over conflict and don’t hold grudges.

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Pluto in the 1st house ⁺‧₊˚ ཐི⋆♱⋆ཋྀ ˚₊‧⁺

˖°🦇ִ ࣪ indicates problematic childhood - even you having to learn how to stand up for yourself very early

˖°🦇ִ ࣪ most noticeable in any room

˖°🦇ִ ࣪ even if you have pure intentions, people might be suspicious due to your intimidating raw aura. atp, you might just say okay whatever and stop trying to overly convince them

˖°🦇ִ ࣪ similar to lilith 1st house, people may get mad at you for simply existing, your shadow makes them uncomfortable, the difference between u and them is that while they are trying to hide their dark/shadow side, you whole self is emitting the darkness

˖°🦇ִ ࣪ extreme beauty, especially the eye gaze, its ultimately magnetizing and alluring

˖°🦇ִ ࣪ it wouldn't be surprising for u to have interest in death, magic, sex, psychology, paranormal horror or fiction (actually, Stephen King has Pluto 1h) - topics people don't normally talk about / are ashamed to talk about

˖°🦇ִ ࣪ because pluto is all about death and rebirth, when u are hurt - mind or body - you always come back stronger. it might have to do something with the difficulties in ur childhood, when u learned it's the only way the survive

˖°🦇ִ ࣪ trust issues. because the pluto gives you detective-like skills, it's easy for you to read people and u know when they aren't authentic, but that also means you are scared when someone is being honest, you might feel like they are gonna show their true face soon. you are very independent. but there are people that are true to you and you deserve it

˖°🦇ִ ࣪ extremes are unfortunately common in your life. love life, career, education. sometimes it all just falls apart, or takes a tragic turn. just take a look at celebs who have Pluto 1h - Johnny Depp, Amy Winehouse, Britney Spears. they all also share that intense dark eyes

˖°🦇ִ ࣪ people might not really know what is actually going on with you, you hold a lot of secrets

˖°🦇ִ ࣪ you naturally possess power

˖°🦇ִ ࣪ you can be into goth fashion

˖°🦇ִ ࣪ someone can say “UGH istg i wanna st@b that person” and you might genuinely understand them on the deepest level hhhh

˖°🦇ִ ࣪ you miiiiiiiight be dark empath - meaning you pretend empathy but its all manipulation

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⏳️🪐 12th House and How Your Mental Anguish Affects You 🪐⏳️

Exchange readings: Open: You (Tarot) x Me (Astrology)

12H ruler in 1H

Imma give you a hug first, okay. What you have gone through, like the experiences that you have had with the world at large, all that you have seen in your life, you internalized it all. You have sort of taken it upon you to be the witness of the suffering around you. Because you feel it all so personally. The person you have become, the thoughts and beliefs you carry are the way they are because of the absurdity of life that you have felt so deeply. It has shaped you, a lot. Next time, try to detach. It is not about you, it was never about you, it about them. You are observing, not absorbing.

12H ruler in 2H

When you are at that lowest point, second guessing everything, it really does affect your ability to manage your resources. And more often than not it can make you feel like you are not worth-it, or that you simply do not deserve to be happy. Especially if you have Chiron in the 2H too, it can feel suffocating because you keep on doing thing, trying to make it work, but you never feel like you did enough. Affirm to yourself about your successes, keep a gratitude journal and remind yourself that your need/wants are all valid.

12H ruler in 3H

You can completely obsess over finding out the reasoning behind why certain things happen the way it did. It's like you want to understand, you want to make actual sense out of it, why your problems are causing you the things that are happening. This can lead to a detachment from actually allowing yourself to feel things out and like emotionally get in a better shape first. You can get stressed out about the facts, a lot of the times. Perhpas communication is something you truly struggle with. Talk it out with someone, understand your feelings first and then a lot of the facts will start to make sense too.

12H ruler in 4H

A lot of your turbulent thoughts and experiences affect you very deeply, like the depth which can make you question your entire existence. Now, I gotta be honest with this one, you are clearing up a lot of karma from your family lineage. You are going to the very root of the issues. Because these mental anguishes aren't surface level for you, they are seated very deeply within your psyche. You have to face these deep seated demons, otherwise you can keep them shoving them down, till it becomes completely unbearable to face yourself. On the positive note, learn to be vulnerable with yourself, learn to be more accepting of what you are going through.

12H ruler in 5H

When you are at the low point in your life, you start to put a great distance between enjoying yourself and becoming completely oblivious to your childlike nature. You need to embrace your inner child. Do what you want, but do not do it because you feel like you can't do anything else with your life. There needs to be like a balance here, between enjoying yourself and knowing when it can get destructive. Too much of anything never did good. You can struggle with finding that simplistic joy in life. So try and spend time alone for a while, maybe get a coloring book or just try and bake cookies. You don't have to be good at something to enjoy it. Even if it's loving yourself.

12H ruler in 6H

You can neglect your health like nobody's business. These thoughts, stress and anguish can manifest directly in your body. That's what it is. When you are not in a good energy, you know you need to reconnect with your body. This may come initially as a bit challenging to truly get yourself to do, but, once you build that habit over time, you will realise how much you have mastered yourself. Focus on your physical well-being. This placement is very simple. You don't need to spend time spaced out and in another world. Get down and strengthen your body, you will notice that you will start to feel much more better in your mind.

12H ruler in 7H

When you get to a low point in life, the point where you are confronted with your old habits, fears and challenging emotions, it highly reflects in your relationships (more so the romantic kind). You can easily slip into unhealthy patterns with your partners, like seeing them with rose colored glasses or not having a proper sense of boundary with them. And you may even fear that true vulnerability with them. So when that happens, seek to be honest by being polite. You are not for everyone, and the ones that are for you will always understand this. Relationship can either make you or break you, choose the people wisely.

12H ruler in 8H

At the lowest points in your life, the people who aren't by your side intentionally, remember them because they are not supposed to be a part of your life. A healthy bond is where both people are there for each other, and that's exactly what life keeps teaching you over and over again. Your biggest anguishes are be caused because of the way certain people treat you and use you for their own benefit. When that happens, remember your biggest enemy is what you do not choose to see within those who take advantage of your kind nature. Yes, we can witness everybody's suffering, but at the end of the day everybody is responsible for themselves.

12H ruler in 9H

When you are at that low point in your life, you can question your faith a lot. There is a feeling where trusting your morals can become really hard. It's like when you know you truly love something, but the mere beliefs that everybody has instilled within you from birth hold you back. And you may even be the type who rebels often because of this thing. Create your own beliefs. That will require you to question what you have always been taught, don't be afraid to question it. You need let yourself see thing. At your lowest you can really see in black and white. Take a step back and observe. Read and learn.

12H ruler in 10H

Many of your mental anguishes come from you struggling with what kind of image you want to uphold between other people. You may struggle a lot with showing up between people or excessively thinking of what other people may think of you when you are at the low points in your life. You can often feel like other people look so deep within you, within the things you want to hide from everybody. When that happens, remember that what others think of you is absolutely none of your business. As long as you know that you are on the right track, you don't need anyone to tell you otherwise.

12H ruler in 11H

You are learning to trust in your dream and not hold yourself back from achievement. You know when you are at those low points in your life, there could be a deep seated fear of missing out on opportunities. You can start to second guess your own hopes, uncertain if you even deserve to have what you want or not. There could also be this sense of feeling like there is no hope left for you, like there is nothing anymore you want to have. When that happens, try to remain grateful, look at all the cool things you have achieved till now, appriciate yourself, open yourself up to something new.

12H ruler in 12H

When you hit rock bottom, it's like plunging into the deepest recesses of your mind, where you confront your fears and doubts about existence. It's a heavy burden, carrying the weight of your own struggles and the suffering of the world within you. At times, it feels suffocating, like you're lost in a maze of your own thoughts, trying to make sense of it all. But amidst the darkness, there is also potential for a lot of spiritual growth. Your journey through the depths of your psyche can lead to a greater understanding of yourself and the universe. Meditate often, and write your thoughts, talk to someone like-minded. Do not isolate yourself either.

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Composite Chart: Ruler of the 1st in the houses

🥧Ruler of the 1st in the 1st: An overlay that can easily indicate a strong and compatible couple. Since the 1st house is such a personal house, it can can indicate the typical "we understand each other without speaking", it is very common in couples who know each other perfectly and are able to drive and motivate themselves to achieve what they want, either individually or between you. This couple is not just a romantic couple, it is a team, it is oneself. A relationship with this overlay may indicate that both natives want to include the other in their plans or in their life as soon as possible. Being with the other not only causes butterflies in the stomach, it causes motivation, happiness and adrenaline, it makes you want to show your best side. Being with the other makes you light a flame that is difficult to extinguish, a flame that you will never want to extinguish. And the attraction here ... is a surprising level of fascination with the body of the other, the personality of the other amazes you in many ways and their mind is able to constantly intrigue you, since even though they know each other, they will always find a way. to be surprised. The simple idea of thinking about the other makes them smile. The natives can have similar personalities and they may understand the other really well.

🥧Ruler of the 1st house in the 2nd house or Ruler of the 2nd in the 1st: These couples are often very protective of each other and always have a long-term future in mind where the two of you are holding hands. This couple takes their time to get to know each other, understand each other and love each other more every day. This placement tells us about a constant couple, very romantic and thoughtful. Another classic placement for power couples. People outside the relationship can see the natives as quite elegant, practical, hard-working and quite attractive, this placement usually indicates couples with an attractive appearance. A sensual couple, whose love language can be quality time, buying gifts for the other and physical touch. Many of these couples tend to be long-lasting and are individuals who both internally and externally of the relationship seek work progress and feel stable in all areas of their life. They tend to make themselves feel valued, appreciated and as the best that could come in both of their lives. There may be either some jealousy or overprotectiveness.

🥧Ruler of the 1st house in the 3rd house or Ruler of the 3rd in the 1st: This couple is able to talk for hours. Communication between them is quite a strong and positive point. They are very likely to understand each other perfectly even if they have differing ways of thinking. This couple is characterized by being playing around, very active, friendly and charming. Both see the other as a person with whom life is fun, as the perfect companion for their day to day. Something very tender that I have noticed is the fact that these natives tend to constantly talk about each other, and they tend to think a lot about the other. There is an intense intellectual and maturity affinity between the two, regardless of age. Many people may mention that these natives get younger by spending time with each other, this due to the freshness of the relationship and the fact that the natives feel free to be themselves uninhibitedly. Both of them can treat each other as a couple even before formalizing and they can decide to move in together even before getting married.

🥧Ruler of the 1st house in the 4th house or Ruler of the 4th in the 1st: This overlay is without a doubt my favorite, since it gives an essence of protection, emotional devotion and a lot of trust in the couple. The love language of this couple is physical touch, quality time and affirmation words. Both parties are expressive and open with their emotions, coming to feel that the other always understands perfectly what they are feeling. They become counselors, lovers, companionship, and one of the priorities for the other. They both become each other's soft spot and being with each other feels like a warm blanket on a rainy day. This placement gives the natives involved a feeling of emotional fulfillment, constant and loyal support and a lot of affinity in the romantic field. If one of the parties is very romantic but fears being seen as cheesy or dependent, in this relationship it will not be the case, since this placement speaks to us of reciprocity and the possibility of expressing those sides of us that we usually hide with our special person.

🥧Ruler of the 1st house in the 5th house or Ruler of the 5th in the 1st: This couple is characterized by being fun and full of light. Between them there is an almost magical ability to put a smile on each other's faces for the simple fact that they see each other, they easily brighten the day and are able to see the most beautiful side of life if they are together. A relationship full of fun, teasing, adventure and a lot of romance. Both parties have no problem taking the initiative, and one (or both) may play hard to get, creating an atmosphere of particularly fun and intriguing tension for those around them. There is a lot of attraction between the two and they are usually very open about it, they tend to give power couple vibes and people can see them as people who shine a lot individually. Despite all the romanticism that may exist between them, they are very independent people who constantly need their space. Something that I have noticed is that these couples are usually prone to jealousy, so they are required to constantly converse in a calm way, which could seem somewhat difficult, since normally this Stellium speaks of individuals with a strong temperament and strong convictions.

🥧Ruler of the 1st in the 6th or Ruler of the 6th in the 1st: This overlay indicates a lot of devotion and interest in the welfare of the other. It is very likely that this couple was somewhat shy at the beginning of their interactions, this overlay undoubtedly indicates a relationship that is developing little by little. Both may seek to support each other but hide their wounds or discomforts from the other so as not to worry him, however they can finally discover it. Trust is a very favorable point in this couple and they can see their confidante in the other. This overlay is quite common in couples who are together for a long time. Both will always be ready to do it all for their lover; there is a strong desire to have their relationship forever, to be there for each other through good and bad. This couple will always know how to be there for each other, and they are able to give up their ego for the improvement of the relationship. They will always remember the small details of the other and they will feel very in love and fascinated by the small details of the other. Both can develop the same behaviors or routines of the other even before being a formal couple.

🥧Ruler of the 1st house in the 7th house or Ruler of the 7th in the 1st: This placement introduces us to individuals who might seem very different from each other, but who actually have many similarities, and it is for this very reason that they are often intrigued by the other. They are capable of teaching each other to discover hidden sides of themselves. Despite being somewhat different, they can become quite compatible and encourage each other to be a new and improved version of the other. Something that I have noticed in these couples is that there is one who is particularly focused on his personal development, while the other is very focused on integrating himself with others. Both are capable of showing each other their true potential, and not only that, as they can experience a wonderful and lasting relationship. This placement is characterized by offering the thought of "yes, you are the partner I want and need", between both there is that fascination, that need to commit (whether it is marriage or not) and that desire to be physically and emotionally close to the other. Excellent placement for a long, romantic relationship with many positive teachings, particularly regarding self-discovery.

🥧Ruler of the 1st in the 8th or Ruler of the 8th in the 1st: This is one of the most intense relationships that there can be and it requires a great level of maturity, since without a doubt the emotional intensity is very high. Leaving aside the incredible physical attraction between the two, there is also an enormous desire to fully know the other. Both will experience intense emotions with the other that they never experienced with other people. There will be a lot of protection and mutual attention, both can become a very attractive dilemma for the other. There will be a lot of teasing, and maybe even a little jealousy, however, emotions will abound and it will be a difficult relationship to forget that it has the possibility of lasting a long time. There may be some kind of karma between the couple (not necessarily bad). Both can make the other discover things about themselves that they did not know and can help each other to get out and feel comfortable with their dark side.

🥧Ruler of the 1st in the 9th, Ruler of the 9th in the 1st: The relationship becomes a journey that both do not want to end, there is a happy and positive quality in this relationship and people can notice them much happier, with a more fixed path and with a more positive presence. Both can teach each other a lot of things, they will learn a lot about each other and the relationship. It is very likely that that touch of friendship will never be lost and that they have started as friends. Both can consider themselves really lucky to have the other's presence, they can feel capable of doing many things. This placement usually indicates trips with the couple, and not only on a physical level, but also internally. They can be people who differ from each other and understand each other perfectly. With the other they may discover new passions and interests, but also, they feel comfortable enough to share their ideals, points of view and craziest dreams, since they no longer feel discriminated or pointed out.

🥧Ruler of the 1st in the 10th, Ruler of the 10th in the 1st: This relationship may take some time to develop, in the same way, once formalized, people can perceive that both are quite serious. They are both people who see each other long-term and may have big plans that include the other. Both will see the relationship as something that they need to keep stable, as something that has to be constantly improved. Another classic overlay of a power couple. They may have job improvements after being with the other or being with the other. An age difference may be possible. Both natives can motivate the other to achieve their goals and it is quite common to see this overlay in people who "finally settle down". It is distinguished by the fact that it is a duo with the possibility to last for several years, a couple composed of independent persons that are more than willing to include each other into their schedules and spend lots of time with the other. A connection that has the potential to be highly successful.

🥧Ruler of the 1st house in the 11th house or Ruler of the 11th in the 1st: A couple that might seem complex in the eyes of others or that is not usually one that the friends or acquaintances of those involved are used to seeing, but a couple that accepts themselves as they are, a couple that respects each other and that is almost understood perfectly. The natives see in the other a loyal and admirable companion, someone who accepts them and makes them feel that they belong or that they have finally found the place where they belong. They have the facility to make the other feel full and proud of who they are. Both make each other feel inspired, both to go after what they are most passionate about, until they come to consider the other a muse. They are able to motivate each other and make them believe that anything is possible. Without a doubt, a couple that no matter how different they are, are capable of understanding each other quite well.

🥧Ruler of the 1st in the 12th, Ruler of the 12th in the 1st: This relationship takes on melancholic tones, since there is a feeling of having known this person before. A feeling of oasis and deep tranquility that worries them, since while they feel like this, at other times they can feel a whirlwind of emotions towards the other person. There is a lot of idealization between the two and they can be very forgiving of the other. Being with each other can help them heal their wounds or motivate them to heal on their own. Being with the other feels safe, but too much. Another possible indicator of a karmic relationship (again, not necessarily bad karma), and there are huge chances of knowing this person since past lives. They are capable of feeling exactly what the other feels, there is a need to help, heal or save the other from something, someone or themselves. Both can constantly dream of the other, both at night and literally dreaming a life with the other. Being with the other can help them understand themselves and accept some personality traits that they avoid.

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