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[cffnsys]

Ough wait a second....you're..."photogenic"? You need trauma to be a system, dumbass.

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Whats up, systems😎😎😎?!?! It's ya boi♂️ I-THE-VEZZEL here and toDAY! I'm going to need YOUR🫵🧍‍♀️ help to spread the 💥ENDOGENIC PROPAGANDA 💥 so we can turn YOUR🫵🧍‍♀️mother into OUR 👉🧍‍♀️🧍‍♀️mother (we will introject her at the speed of light)

[cffnsys]

Seeing more and more pro endogenic folk being hateful to created systems, and I have one message;

DO NOT LET THEM DIVIDE US MORE

They already have us divided between traumagenic and endogenic, and I'm unsure if its just a pattern on our tumblr, or in the plural community, but i would hate to see us divided by whether you are a created system or not.

Every system is valid. We are stronger together then apart, and anti-plurals see us as all the same mind you. Do not let anyone tell you otherwise.

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Every time one of my friends explains something about Plurality to me I have to fight the urge to ask if they're "More people per people" cause of this fuck ass post

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it is genuinely the funniest fucking shit when a sysmed comes onto OUR posts, fakeclaiming us, being a giant piece of shit, and then we reply with literal PARAGRAPHS of proof that endogenic plurality is real, and then they block us 💀💀 like aww, did da wittle swysmwed weawize tat they hav no pwoof ?? awwwww 🥺🥺🥺

[plain text : aww, did the little sysmed realize that they have no proof ?? awwwww 🥺🥺]

like im sorry do NOT be commenting on our posts if you dont wanna catch these hands (and by hands, we mean peer reviewed, published papers about non disordered plurality from respected doctors that specialize in dissociation, OSDDID, and trauma)

so uhhh,,,, if you wanna get a sysmed to leave you alone, just tell them about dr. eric yarbrough, or dr's nijenhuis and van der hart, or the ICD-11, or the DSM-V-TR, or dr richard loewenstein, or a paper published by zarah eve, kim heyes, and sarah party called "Conceptualizing multiplicity spectrum experiences: A systematic review and thematic synthesis" ( https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/cpp.2910 ) or the acedemic article dating all the way back to 1991 that talks about non-disordered plurality (ross. 1991), or like. just reference the lived experiences of hundreds of people and ask them why they think their opinion is more valid then peoples lived experiences

if anyone wants us to make a post compiling all the sources we can find that prove endogenic plurality exists just let us know and we'll try !!! it'll definitely take us a while though lol

[cffnsys]

Here’s my metaphor for systemhood that I tell my singlet friends.

Imagine you’re playing a first person video game. You have the controller, you control your character. It’s a normal first person game. You are an alter, the character is the body. This is fronting.

Other people live with you. Sometimes, they come into the room and sit and watch while you play. They sometimes try to guide you, give you advice on what to do next. They don’t always agree, and they can argue with each other. Other times they scream at you that you’re doing everything wrong and you suck at this game. This is co-consciousness.

Imagine how distracting it would be for people around you to tell you what to do, or to scream at each other or at you, even if they have good intentions. It wouldn’t be easy to focus on your game, would it?

Then sometimes, something happens in the game that prompts you to hand off the controller to someone else so they can play and you get a break. This is (some types of) switching. This can be good.

Other times, someone rips the controller out of your hand or fights you for it. This is (other types of) switching. And sometimes, six other players hook up their controllers, but there’s only one character to play as. So all of you have your controllers, but you’re all trying to play the same character. This is cofronting.

Imagine how difficult that would be. Imagine how hard it would be to try and play a game while someone is trying to take the controller from you, or while six other people are trying to play too.

There are also times that nobody is playing, or you can’t decide who should play. What’s happening to the character in the game? What are they doing if no one is playing? This is dissociation. The character is doing nothing. They’re stuck.

This is the best metaphor I have come up with for being a system. It’s something a lot of people get because they’ve played games before.

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what if we just started treating fakeclaimers like creepy old men. how about that.

like helloooo why are you trying to figure out if bad things happened to me as a child??? why do you want to know about the results of how my childhood affected me???? ummmm that's kinda weird ngl.

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Anti endos are genuinely just the system equivalent of flat earthers.

Goes against the common scientific consensus

Asks for sources to debunk their bs

Refuse to provide sources themselves

When they do provide sources, it’s always directly incorrect ones, or ones that don’t prove their point.

When given sources, they just ignore them.

Literally the same thing.

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people forget that systems won’t ever have the same experience. one system may be happy to be a system, that’s normal. one system may not be happy to be one, that’s normal too.

saying you’re not allowed to feel a certain way about your system, is very controlling.

you can be happy or unhappy about your situation. don’t let people tell you otherwise

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A LOT OF THINGS CAN BE TRAUMATIC FOR CHILDREN UNDER THE AGE OF 10

I CAN'T STRESS THIS ENOUGH

WATCHING YOUR PARENTS FIGHT ALMOST EVERYDAY CAN BE TRAUMATIC

BULLYING CAN BE TRAUMATIC

BEING YELLED AT FOR DOING MINOR MISTAKE CAN BE TRAUMATIC

NOT GETTING PROPER ACCOMODATION AND COPING MECHANISM FOR YOUR MENTAL ILLNESS CAN BE TRAUMATIC

NEGLECT CAN BE TRAUMATIC

STRESSED OUT FROM BEING "GIFTED CHILD" CAN BE TRAUMATIC

YOU WERE A CHILD

[cffnsys]

You are not a fake system because you can't hear your alters, most of us can't! Most people with DID have very limited communication between alters in general.

You are not a fake system because you don't know your headcount, or you don't know your alters names. That can take years! For some people, they need a long time in treatment to even get that ball rolling.

You are not a fake system because you don't know what other alters are doing. You don't need to know who dressed you this morning or who bought the food you're allergic to, high amnesia is normal.

Don't feel like any less of a system because of expectations set by the internet. You don't need to present the same way as people on the internet. The presentation of DID on the internet can be pretty atypical, so don't spend your time comparing.

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NOT supportive to your system friends:

- "can you make [alter] front?"

- always asking who's fronting

- getting upset when they can't remember something

VERY supportive to your system friends:

- giving them money

- "here's $50 for you"

- relinquishing your money to them

- offering them money

[cffnsys]

being a "singlet very interested in systems" to finding out you ARE a system pipeline is real

[cffnsys]

the only real systems are the ones that *a gnome runs past me giggling* what the fuck? did you guys see that? what the fuck was that?

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[cffnsys]

Our parents blocked pluralpedia on the house's wifi??? Wtf???

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side note its extremely fucked up that people have taken my posts and made them "anti-endo". you're actively now stealing from inclusive people, i don't know how you don't see youre the issue here.

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Actually genuinely losing it why am I seeing anti-endos claim that polyfragmented is literally a DID exclusive term. If it matches a system's experiences they can use that term. It is literally a type of system structure that can happen in any system. Anti-endos need to stop policing terms all the time.