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FALLING IN LUST AT CLUB MOONLIGHT’S GRAND OPENING

By Chance Dreamscape

 Well, It’s been a really great Sunday for me.  I got to attend the Grand Opening of Club Moonlight here on the Wilde Campus. Under the care of its new Manager Sponks, Club Moonlight, DJ Arc, Dancers Micah, Noah, Zhayklan and Jayce put on an amazing and fun Striptease, Dance and Grand Opening Celebration.  I definitely fell in lust with all four of the dancers, who tuned out to be some of the hottest, sexiest and most professional dancers I’ve seen on the grid in quite some time.

 All four of the dancers were sultry, masculine, sensual, playful and seemed to be having a blast performing and giving up their clothing for the crowd.  They had obviously been preparing for this event, or they all have experience at other clubs.   Between the dancers and all of the hot-ass eye-candy in the building I was all sorts of confused, turned on, and just generally hot and bothered as I was trying to decide where to aim my camera. I ended up with 170 photos from this event to wade through and edit for this review.  I have included a bevy of the best ones for you to lust over.  

 This two and a half hour set seemed more like half an hour as it ended.  It was so well executed, the music was sassy and fun, everyone was having a blast and the time just flew by.  Going into this event, I really didn’t know what to expect.  But, having been there, I can honestly say that if the quality level of the music and dancers remains at this level or better, Club Moonlight has a real shot at being among the premier Gay Strip Clubs in Second Life.  Not a bad achievement for a bunch of college guys and a stray professor.

 Sponks, Arc, the Moonlight Dancers, Lukos, Paulu and whoever else was involved in planning and pulling off this opening, KUDOS to everyone guys.  This was an impressive event and one that was VERY WELL DONE!  

 And now for the photo parade. I  only posted a few here as you can find more than 30 of them at the college news paper URL https://thewildetimesinquirer.tumblr.com/.  If you want to see the whole batch of 95 processed and edited photos you can check out my last planned new blog. They will be there in a day or two at this URL…. https://chancedreamscapeshotguyindex.tumblr.com/  For all to enjoy!!!  

Club Moonlight Staff, thanks for a really fun, engaging time.  I look forward to the next event in about two weeks. 

 Hope to see you there too!

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 Your buddy, Chance Dreamscape

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We had a lot of really hot, sexy fun college guys show up to dance, party, cruise, and enjoy the Grand opening of Club Moonlight.  Hope to see you there soon too!

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This Hottie Is Zhayklan.  I call him Zhay.  I managed to get a lot of great photos of this guy and I’ve been talking with him already about doing a photo shoot to get more pix too.

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Noah Sydney is the youngest of the Club Moonlight Dancers, but don’t mistake his hot, lean, youthful appearance for innocence.  This guy knows how to taunt, tease and move!

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Lukos, Dj Arc, Chance Dreamscape and Sponks dancing and watching the hot action out on the main nightlcub floor

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I sure hope this hottie shows up at Art Class today!

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RELATIONSHIPS 101:  HOW TO START RIGHT AND WORK TOWARDS MAKING THEM LAST

By Chance Dreamscape

09-30-2017

Over the course of the past several weeks I’ve had several people come to me seeking relationship advice.  In some cases, it was simply a notice of circumstance, “Hey Chance, this has happened.  Just so you know.”….. Or it was “Well he did this and I did this, now it’s broken.  What “glue” do I use to patch it up and put it back together?”…..  In one of my “more memorable” instances “He disappeared for over 9 months, not a single word from him in all that time. I waited patiently, I remained true and loyal to him the entire time.  Not once did I stray since we agreed to an exclusive relationship.  And when he finally came back he says.  “Oh I found someone in real life.  You and I are done.  I thought you would have moved on or figured it out on your own.”  Lesson learned.  I’ve never been in an exclusive relationship since then.

  Let me continue by saying, I am no expert at any of this.  I can only convey to you what works for me reasonably well and what works for myself and my partner most of the time.  By most, I mean the vast majority of the time, by the way.

  Before you even start thinking seriously about anyone, spend a lot of time with the guy.  Make sure there is more between the two of you than lust, sex, dancing and repeating.  Can you carry on a conversation together?   Do you like the same things, or is he just saying that to appease you?  Is he really a nice guy or Flaming Psycho who just hasn’t been set off yet to hit full-burn.  Issues like this are investigated and resolved over the course of weeks if not months and through spending a lot of time together.  Do your due diligence now or pay the price later.  Take your time.  Get to know each other then consider the following… 

  Lesson One- The foundation of any lasting relationship is a strong loving, intellectual, physical and spiritual bond that lasts over time.  Your relationship must be sound, stable, reliable, and trusting in order for any other aspects of your life together to work to their full interpersonal potential.  Settle for nothing less.  If you do, you will surely be disappointed.  Your connection should be about more than sex, or liking clubbing together, or playing together.  You should connect deeply on as many interpersonal levels as possible.  Preferably on all of the big ones listed above.  If you achieve this level of connection, mutual interest, mutual respect, mutual love and mutual attraction are natural and wholesome outcomes of everything that follows.

  Lesson Two- Establish common understandings and common boundaries early on.  My experience is simple, the relationships that flourish are fostered in an environment where both parties have a mutually agreed upon understanding and commitment to a few basic guiding principles.  These principles do not need to numerous, lengthy or complicated.  In fact, It’s probably better if there are only a few, they ae short and easy to remember.  An example of what I am talking about follows:

  1 Always be open, communicating all issues with your partner.

2 Never go to bed Mad

3 Never Lie

4 Never say the relationship is done unless you mean it.   Once said and confirmed it's dead. Period.

5 The relationship is open

6 Avoid having sex with someone if the your partner is supposed to come online, or invite him to join ;)

7 Don't make the other partner feel bad because he fucked someone and it pissed you off.

8 Always put your partner's interests and values at the same level of importance as your own.

9 Tell your man you love him, at least once, every single day.

  These “rules of the road” are not meant to penalize one member of the relationship to give one party what he wants and compromise the desires of the other.  Both parties must benefit equally, both must agree to understand and value these guidelines equally for them work quietly in the background and to not become wedge issues in the long-term.

  A couple things to note at this point.  While these guidelines are numbered, there is no hierarchy.  They all equally important to keeping two people on the same page.  I already know many people will take exception to items five through seven.  If those don't work for you, replace them with items that work for you and your partner.  However, I will say that by maintaining an open relationship between two, men who are truly committed to each other and who fully trust each other, eliminates all of the lying and skulking around, feeling guilty etc. if one of the two is away from Second Life for a prolonged period of time.

  Also, a lot of people fall into the trap of thinking relationships in Second Life need to parallel relationships in real life.  Nothing is further from the truth.  Nothing in Second Life needs to resemble what one knows or experiences in real life.  Our Second Lifes are meant to be platforms for experimentation, creativity, new experiences and different forms of growth than we know, can imagine or even realize in Real Life.  Don’t enslave yourselves to the conventions and expectations of the world you come here to escape.  Unless of course that is what you and your partner both desire.  In that case go for it.

  Now that you’ve found a guy that you connect with on every level, and you have agreed to your set of “rules for the road”, what next?  Go about living your daily lives in this world together.  Always find something new and fun to do together as often as you can.  Enjoy every moment of every experience together.

  If things have sputtered, crashed and burned for you at various points in the past, you might check to see if you were frequently doing these things… Always make time for each other. Always respect each other.  Always make the other guy feels important, valued and loved.  Never ever ever ever let him feel as though “he is being taken for granted.”  If he does feel this way and feels thus often, things will begin to degrade fast most times.  When things do get heated, and they will, for a whole host of reasons no one expected, know when to step back.  Know when to tell your man you’re sorry because you didn’t intend to make him feel that way.  Always strive to seek agreement instead of striving to just being confirmed as being right.  None of this is rocket science.  It’s all about respecting the guy you love and keeping him engaged in the relationship.

  The bottom line is Second Life Relationships are a lot of hard work, just like the ones in the real world.   But having someone at your side to love and to hold, to cuddle and be sexy with to go see things with, to be seen with, and to enjoy your Second life together with makes the effort all worthwhile.  Because if you are really with the right guy your bond will just continue growing deeper, your love for each other will continue growing stronger your respect for each other will become so deeply entrenched you would never think of violating it for any reason.  If you should ever reach this point in your relationship you will realize that you have found your Second Life Soul Mate and you have found a bond that is very rare in either world.  And now you know exactly how I feel about my partner, my confidant, my better half - Gab Minotaur and why I say every single day to anyone who will listen that I, Chance Dreamscape am the luckiest man in all of Second Life.  I love you Gab and I want the whole world to know.

  Your Buddy, Now As Always, Chance Dreamscape

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Fun Things Happen Underwater at the Beach Too !!!

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WET N WILDE AQUATIC CENTER OPENS IN DESERT HARBOR

09-28-2017

 It’s been a well-known fact for quite some time now that our swimming pool at the Waddell Fitness Center is just not big enough to toss ten swimmers into and to have a meaningful swimming practice.  And while Val and I would really love to remedy that situation, there is just no room for a 20meter by 50meter Olympic size pool anywhere on the Wilde Campus at this time.

Enter Gab Minotaur, my lover, my partner and my best friend in Second Life and at the Wilde Campus. I met Gab at Wilde College, got to know him here and fell deeply in love with him here.  Gab has always been a quiet supporter of the Wet N Wilde Swim Team. And he has witnessed the struggles Team Captain Fraser has gone through in keeping the team fit, engaged and ready for competition with the competing College Campuses in our conference.

And out of the goodness of his heart and an avid interest in supporting our campus, Gab has kindly dedicated a plot of his personal land to the Wet N Wilde Swim Team.  Gab, Suly, Tosh and I all worked on the property to get it ready for the guys.  Tosh and Fraser had an Open House at the all new Wet N Wilde Aquatic Center on Thursday 09-28-2017.  The guys held several rounds of Bumper Boat Competitions.  And I must say that Suly, who was also there is just an utter madman when it comes to competing in Bumper boat Rallies. He relentlessly rams, slams and thrusts at the other competitors, at the buoy, always determined to work his way into a leading position.  I have to respect his competitive drive.  

A lot of guys showed up, including Paul Sexias, Judas, Tate Theorem, Biskuit and Reese to name a few. We all hung out for a while to get a peek at the bumper boats, to enjoy the beach, and to get a look at the new five lane 50 meter long competition and practice pool.  Fraser had no idea this facility was designed and built with his team in mind and as a place for him to run some proper swim practices and competitions.  It was a complete pleasure to be able to surprise him with this news.

I hung out in the background and got some pretty good pictures for you to enjoy.  Everyone really seemed to love the area and I for one really look forward to hanging out there with my campus buddies again really soon. I also hope to see all of the guys who are interested in joining the Wet N Wilde Swim team at this new facility in the future as well.

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 -Your Buddy, Chance Dreamscape

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It was a beautiful day At the Wet N Wilde Aquatic Center for our opening gathering.

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Tate Therom (on the right) and a friend he brought along, get their first look at the all new Wet N Wilde Aquatic Center, Located at Desert Harbor

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Another View of the new Wet N Wilde Beach, Located at Desert Harbor.  Just a short drive from the Wilde College Campus.

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Suly and I Cuddling at the Wet N Wilde Beach as the day winds down.  Man what fun we had here! Big thanks to Gab for building this place for the Wet N Wilde Swim team and the Wilde College Campus!

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Relaxing On the Wet N Wilde Beach

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The teams battle it out as the Blue Team tries to maneuver in close to the Buoy and score a point!