i think this might be the last straw with them. i鈥檓 gonna have to start setting my sights elsewhere. i鈥檒l be their friend, as usual, but if they can鈥檛 bother to show me any care? i need to have higher standards. waiting for them to be ready is silly. so i鈥檓 not gonna try to erase my feelings cause i know that鈥檚 no good, but i am going to keep myself open to other ppl
i literally reached out to all my close friends in california and all my close friends who live in the city, and even my mom & sister and not one could talk to me or help. like 10 ppl.
i know you can鈥檛 expect people to help you at any time. but it鈥檚 just hard having my negative thinking of how no ones really there for me reinforced by something that鈥檚 probably coincidence.
eventually a friend who i hadn鈥檛 spoken to for a while gave me a place to be and to talk to someone. thank god.
but now i just feel like shit. i still need help and i鈥檝e called my family several times throughout the day and no one has called me back & i鈥檝e texted. it鈥檚 not their problem, they have lives, but. idk i feel like whenever it鈥檚 the reverse for other ppl i find time to help even if it鈥檚 later? but i feel so alone. sometimes i feel like everyone else鈥檚 emotional support animal, and i feel like i don鈥檛 have that.
i think other people think i don鈥檛 need help because of how bottled up and private i am and so when i reach out maybe they just don鈥檛 take it seriously
tell me why i like this person so much?? they鈥檙e literally blowing me off as i type and yet i鈥檓 sitting here upset about it and wanting to reach out STOP
while i do feel like i鈥檝e been better this last semester i think feelings i鈥檝e not been able to name have been bubbling and i鈥檓 only starting to be able to fully articulate them but i have no one to express it to
i love to do intense research on things that have zero impact on my life and have no correlation whatsoever to my general interests. i know a lot about combustion engines聽
hm maybe i deserve more than to wait around for someone to be available. perhaps i can ask for more than being in for a long period of suffering before some imagined golden breakthrough. maybe i shouldn鈥檛 be waiting trying to prove myself and to earn their love while i give mine freely all the while they are completely unable to refocus
no one ever wants to mention that marsha p johnson was also a sex worker
no one ever wants to acknowledge that sex workers have always been on the frontline of most radical historical movements