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PUNISHMENTS SHOULD NEVER BE SOMETHING THAT PUTS YOUR LIFE, HEALTH, OR WELLBEING AT RISK.

IF YOUR DOM/DOMME IS USING THINGS LIKE LOCKING YOU OUTSIDE IN FREEZING COLD TEMPERATURES, SLEEP DEPRIVATION, FOOD RESTRICTION, ETC. AS "PUNISHMENTS"...GET OUT.

YOUR PUNISHMENTS SHOULD NEVER BE SOMETHING YOU ARE UNCOMFORTABLE WITH.

IF YOUR DOM/DOMME IS USING "PUNISHMENTS" AS A WAY TO FORCE YOU INTO DOING THINGS YOU DON'T WANT TO DO...GET OUT

PUNISHMENTS SHOULD NEVER LEAVE YOU FEELING HURT OR CONFUSED.

IF YOUR DOM/DOMME IS USING TACTICS LIKE YELLING, IGNORING YOU, WITHHOLDING ATTENTION/AFFECTION, BELITTLING YOU, MAKING YOU "EARN" BASIC HUMAN KINDNESS, NOT EXPLAINING WHAT YOU DID AND WHY YOU ARE EVEN BEING PUNISHED IN THE FIRST PLACE, ETC....GET OUT

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“Red Fox And Magpie In Autumn” by Niko Pekonen

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banish the idea that platonic love is a lesser form of love

if you go through life not investing in your friendships the same way you invest in romantic relationships, you will always be looking for love, feeling lonely, completely blind to the love all around you

friendship is not a lower level relationship. it is not a lesser form of love.

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*~ 🍂🍁

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Cléo de 5 à 7 (1962) dir. Agnès Varda

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Hey all!

I need some advice. One of the students I work with at a Therapeutic Boarding school doesn’t understand why some cultures have celebrations as part of their mourning process.

I tried to let him know that it’s not that they are trying to be disrespectful and that only “recently” has it been more common to mourn solemnly and in dark, muted colors.  Funerals used to be a celebration of life and, if the person was suffering in life, that they are set free from worldly pains.

I definitely don’t want him to feel invalidated as to how he mourns but I just want to help him understand that others are different and it’s not disrespectful. If it helps he is on the approx 15 y/o and on the spectrum.

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“Heat of the Flame” Fire Jar Spell

A jar spell to empower your passion and motivation to reach for your goals and work on your talents.

You Will Need:

🔥 A Jar with a lid/cork 🔥 Cayenne Pepper Flakes 🔥 Cinnamn 🔥 Basil 🔥 Bay Leaf (crushed) 🔥 Rosemary 🔥 Red Glitter 🔥 Garnet (recommended to use chips) 🔥 Calcite (recommended to use chips) 🔥 Orange Glitter 🔥 Sigil for Passion 🔥 Sigil for Motivation 🔥 Red Candle 🔥 Fire Safe dish/bowl 🔥 Mortar and Pestle  🔥 Red Ribbon, String or Cord Steps:

🔥 Cleanse yourself and your space before beginning spell. Drink black tea or coffee to energize yourself before hand if needed. Prepare yourself however you like

🔥 In your mortar and pestle grind up all of your herbs especially your bay leaf until they are well mixed and fine. While grinding them up focus on your intent to motivate yourself and your passions

🔥 Add them to your jar

🔥 Draw your sigils onto paper, preferably with red ink if you can, and carefully light them on fire using a candle, matches, lighter etc. Place them in the fire safe bowl so they burn down to ash.

🔥 As they burn chant: “The burning strength of fire motivates my heart, motivates my soul, so I shall achieve my goal.”

🔥 Carefully add the ashes to the jar once no more smolders are left. On top of the ash add your crystals before sealing your jar tightly

🔥 Place your candle on top and light it and let it burn down until it properly seals the jar (don’t leave it unsupervised please)

🔥 Snuff or blow out your candle if needed then tie your red ribbon around the jar or the stub of the candle

🔥 Keep the jar in your favorite room or on your desk to help motivate you and keep your passions alive

Note: Recharge in the sun occasionally, cleanse with smoke or incense occasionally before charging. To break spell either break jar (safely) or break its seal.

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Harebells

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Spicebush swallowtail butterfly. The undersides of their wings are more colorful than the upper sides. If I can get a better picture of that, I’ll pass it along. 

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