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K, i have a series of random questions, sana masagot mo :) Which do u prefer: maiwan or mang iwan? San ka mas naniniwala: "kung tayo, tayo talaga" or "kung mahal mo ipaglaban mo"? Lastly, bakit kaya may mga taong bigla nalang nang iiwan sa ere? For once kaya, minahal din nila ung naiwan nila? Hope you'll answer.. Thanks! 💕

Maiwan or mang iwan? Di ko alam eh. I can’t choose. Parehong masakit.

Yes, naniniwala ako sa “kung tayo, tayo talaga” but it doesn’t mean you should leave it all to fate, it means if you love someone and they love you back, you two needs to work on it instead of just waiting around.

And yes, naniniwala rin ko sa “kung mahal mo, ipaglaban mo” but this applies to certain situations. Like what if the person you love is already happy with someone else? Ipaglalaban mo pa ba? You just let them be happy because love sometimes means letting them go.

Bakit may mga taong nang-iiwan sa ere? Daming possible reasons yan, like baka di sila ready, di ka talaga nila nagustuhan, bored na sila, di ka worth it for them or di sila worthy of you and they know it, etc.

And did they at least love the person they left? Maybe? But one thing is for sure, their love isn’t enough for them to stay and the silver lining in that is there’s finally a room for someone else who deserve you instead of them staying anyway and you have to put up with every bare minimum and less they do because they’re too coward to leave.

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Aqua!

what the signs want you to understand

aries: they are not emotionless, they are just so used to having to be the strong one in every situation. they are surprised when someone genuinely asks how they’re doing, so it takes them a while to respond when having to gather their emotions and explain them to another human. 

taurus: just because they are stubborn, does not mean that they don’t care. they usually can come to their senses if someone is patient and understanding towards why they may be reluctant to compromise. it usually has to do with something else, like being afraid.

gemini: they are not two-faced, they just are able to see both sides of a situation and react accordingly to both. they aren’t deceitful in this way, they simply just know how to empathize with almost every person they encounter.

cancer: just because they are very generous with love, does not mean you should take advantage. they can easily cut people off if it means it is for their well-being, and especially if they come to the realization that you don’t love them, you just love what they do for you.

leo: they shut themselves away because they do not want to bring anyone else down with them. it does not mean that they do not care about you, it means that they actually care about you more than you know. they only want the best for you.

virgo: they need to be with people the most when they act like they don’t need anyone. a virgo likes to act as if all they need is themselves, but they crave love just like any other individual and they need someone who cares enough to break their walls down.

libra: they need to express themselves. and sometimes when they are quiet, it simply means that their brain is moving too fast with new ideas and new things to say that they can’t slow down and express it all to you at this moment, but something great will come out of the silence.

scorpio: they need to know how you feel. a scorpio wants to know everything, and that’s why they openly show you everything about them with the passion and intensity that they do. they want the same energy back from you, and everything that may come with it.

sagittarius: being listened to is the best thing you can do for a sagittarius. sometimes the things going on inside their head are too deep to bare alone, and all they really need is for someone to show that they care. 

capricorn: a capricorn has enough ambition for the whole world, however, they do get tired just like everyone else. they are scared of disappointment to the point where they push themselves too hard, and need to be reminded to slow down sometimes.

aquarius: they are loyal enough to the point where they will not ever let you believe that you are alone. they will do this to a fault. but they need you to understand that underneath all of this, it is because they do not want to be left alone by you, either. they want the same amount of effort from you that they put in. 

pisces: a pisces has to be alone more than the average individual, because they soak in everyone else’s emotions. it does not mean they are tired of you, it simply means that they need to rest and take time to understand everything that they are feeling.

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Honestly, i want a real thing with someone

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Im so fucking tired dealing my own shits😑

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“Vodka was easier to swallow than the fact that you weren’t coming back.”

— everythingfadedaway

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“The person you’re meant to be with will never have to be chased, begged or given an ultimatum.”

— Mandy Hale

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You can discover your favourite band when you’re in your late twenties. You can meet your best friend when you’re in your thirties. You can finally accomplish a life goal when you’re in your fifties. Your youth isn’t the only time frame where amazing, life-changing things can happen.

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“We need people in our lives with whom we can be as open as possible. To have real conversations with people may seem like such a simple, obvious suggestion, but it involves courage and risk.”

— Thomas Moore

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Gusto kong ma-inlove sa tamang tao, tamang panahon at tamang uri ng pag-ibig.

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“Every word has consequences. Every silence, too.”

— Jean-Paul Sartre, The Selected Essays

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This is the main reason why I find it hard to keep up with a special conversation - I want things to be reciprocated. I always look for signals when I shouldn’t so I always end up creating one for myself.

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Anon me a song to listen to

please

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F☻ck!

Why am I always being played!

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Tinanong kita

Mahal mo pa ba...

Hindi na sagot niya.

We both fall for this thing called love

Tapos nakita mo siya..

Tinananong kita

Ano naramdaman mo

Sabi mo ok ka lang

Nagdaan ang buwan

Na tayo'y masaya

Bigla ka nalang nanlamig

Sabi "miss ko siya"

You left me with a lot of questions in my head

Minahal mo ba talaga ako?