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Being dependent is not a good thing

Why being dependent to anyone or anything for happiness is not a good thing? Because when the time comes that this person, thing, food or whatever is no longer there it will kill you more than you are prepared for. It will be hard for you to move forward and be happy because you were so used to them that you can no longer feel the same level of happiness without them. Aside from that is the fact that you know whether we like it or not things change, people leave, people disappoints us and people die. Even food places, cafe shops and tea shops may not be there for the rest of our lives.

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Just Live Life the way you want to:

Just Live Life the way you want to: You see people doesn't really need to know every single thing about you. Sometimes we do share our stories thinking that it would help other people understand us or help us but you know its not true. No matter how much we share our stories it wouldn't change anything. They say give and give because it is better to give but nope! Those lines are the lines of people who wants you tp continue doing what you do for them but in a way is taking advantage of the kindness you have. Life isn't about giving..it is a give and take relationship. You can't keep on givinh because you will end up with nothing (Trust me, I know, been there a million times). To be continued :))

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Why I believe that somewhere, somehow I was meant to live in United States because of TIME

Well growing up my time was really different than what should be. It started when I was 3 that my sleep is usually around 5/6 am. (Although I think ever since I was a baby coz I remember when I'm looking around when I was still in a crib that everyone is sleeping so I guess because its already late?). Growing up my body clock didn't change. I use to sleep midnight to early morning and wake up usually around 10 am - 2 pm. I also love being out during night time and I'm not a fan of having so many people around so I would enjoy walking with few people. And I don't know but growing up I really have this feeling of wanting to be in the US or something...

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Bible Verse that Answers the Pain of Women

Gen 3:16 (Answers why woman are the one's who are in pain and who gets pregnant haha) To the woman he said: "I will greatly multiply your sorrow and your conception; In pain you shall bring forth children; Your desire shall be for your husband, And he shall rule over you."

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BE YOU!

You really don't have to live to the worlds standards. I mean not because people can't respect something means you shouldn't too. Not because for people it's weird for a girl to have a guy haircut means you cannot (I'm not saying that be a lesbian or something ha, There are a lot of straight girls who does have boy cuts!). I'm sorry to say but If you are not comfortable with yourself then how can you even learn how to actually live? You don't have to be like models to feel sexy. You don't need long hairs and be girly girly to prove sexuality. You don't have to be the person people think you are if you don't wanna be like that. In the end our life in this world is not going to last forever. BE YOU! =)

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Divorce: Irreconcilable Differences

I notice that a lot of people who files for divorce have this reason "Irreconcilable Differences" Well, people would usually say: "That's why before you get married know everything about him or her first". Well yes that should be what you are doing but then as time goes by people change and well you really can't know everything about someone unless you get to spend 24/7 with them. You really can't blame people for changing nor for not knowing everything. Well under the legal terms of irreconcilable differences (according to legal info by legal zoom). Irreconcilable differences generally means that there is no hope that the couple will be able to work out their problems and save the marriage or could also mean irretrievable breakdown of the marriage. It is a no-fault grounds for divorce, which means neither party committed any sort of extenuating act or in other words no single party is at fault for the breakdown of the marriage. I don't really know about how other people look at this but I believe that when two people can no longer be together it is better for them to be separated. Like I said earlier there are things that changes over time and we can never predict them. We can't really say that it is the fault of the other for changing nor a fault of the other for not knowing. Would you rather stay in a life that you can no longer take? Or be with someone who you no longer wanna be with?

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Rough Night Alice letter to jess:

Rough Night Alice letter to jess: Jess, When I was growing up, I didn't really had many friends. And when I went for college, my mom was worried about me. And so was I. But then we met and the first night we went out you didn't introduce me to people as your roommate, yiu introduced me as your friend. And I knew everything was going to be okay. When I went home that summer and I showed my mom the photos of us hanging out she was so happy she doesn't always recognized me anymore but when I showed her those old photos she says to me "that's my daughter with all her friends." That's how she remembers me, Thanks to you. I can't wait to show her all the photos from this weekend. You were there for me and I will always be there for you. Love Alice

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Bride Wars

Bride Wars: "Sometimes in life there really are bonds formed that can never be broken. Sometimes you really can find that one person who will stand by you no matter what. Maybe you'll find it in a spouse and celebrate it with your dream wedding. But there is also the chance that the one person you can count on for a life time. The one person who knows you. Sometimes better than you know yourself is the same person whose been standing beside you all along"

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My best friends girlfriend Tank to Alexis:

My best friends girlfriend Tank to Alexis: "I did it for you, I pushed you away because I thought I didn't deserve you. So I made a mistake, many. I need you in my life. And I wanna apologize. I wanna apologize to myself. I'm sorry tank that you blew it with Alexis. Yes, Because I thought that you deserved someone better than me. But when I'm with you it's like I'm better than me. You're the only person that can ever make me do cardio and I hate cardio I wanna faint, I wanna cigarette and I have masive cramp but I would run a marathon for you."

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Something Borrowed Darcy & Rachel Convo Best friend to best friend:

Something Borrowed Darcy & Rachel Convo Best friend to best friend: Darcy: People who are friends since kids almost always lose touch eventually. I'm glad we didn't Rachel: Me too Darcy: And we never will right? Rachel: No Darcy: I don't think anybody knows me like you. Not even dex does. Not like you do. It's like you totally accept me. Rachel: Dars why are you saying all these Darcy: I don't know. But when you're getting married you start thinking about all your big moments and your in all mine Rachel: Me too Rachel: Darcy, I have to tell you something. Something I've done. Darcy: Rach, I would never let anyone hurt you. Ever. And you wouldn't let anyone hurt me right? Rachel: No

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Something Borrowed Darcy to Rachel Best friend to best friend:

Something Borrowed Darcy to Rachel Best friend to best friend: "Rachel and I had been soulmates since the beginning. Like two piece in a pot we did everything together. We basically shared everything. And thru all the years rachel and I were unseparable. It was us against the world. After graduating indiana she ditch my ass for stupid law school. Despite the fact that I selflessly rejected my acceptance to notre dame because she wasn't let in but whatever it all worked out in the end because she went to NYU of law and met my future husband and introduce us. I will never forget when dex proposed. All I can think about when he was down in one knee that I wished rachel was here watching me in this moment to say you are my best friend is the under statement of the century. You're the sister I never had. You're sometimes the mother I often need. The reason why I can stumble fearlessly on adventures because she's always there. She is always always there. I love you rachel."

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Divorce Invitation Divorce Letter if Mike to Dylan

Divorce Invitation Mike's Email Letter to Dylan for divorce: Dearest Dylan, I'm sorry I didn't had the guts to tell you this in person. I have so much gratitude for you in my heart for all the love and everything you and your family have done for me. but I haven't live up to your love. I have a confession. I have fallen inlove with alex. Perhaps I've been inlove with her my entire life she was my childhood sweetheart until the past few months to me she was a dream unfulfilled recently I found out that I was her dream too. When we reconnected after such a long time we instantly felt that nothing between us has changed over time. Infact our love has grown the past few weeks. If I deny these feelings I'll be a lousy husband cheating on a loyal wonderful wife like you. You deserve more. You deserve better. It is with sorrow that i'm writing this to you to request a divorce. Hopefully one without too much animosity.... Mike

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Things you will see in my Ref years from now

Did you ever picture "THE DREAM HOUSE" , the dream life etc etc... Well part of that imagination of mine is my dream Ref...and what's in it. (Aside from the necessary foods). So what are the things I want to put in my future ref? And have a storage of? Aside from the daily foods I need to take? Hahahaha well: 8 things. 1. Ice cream (I super love ice creams, although I'm a picky eater and I only eat certain ice cream flavors... I wanna have ice cream) 2. Chocolates (Well, what can I say... Milk Chocolate & Mint Chocolate are my best friend. Hahaha. Cadbury and Andes Mint Chocolates are the best) 3. Alcohol (hahaha, not that I always drink... but just in case I need to at least I'm prepared Hahaha) 4. Eggs (Since I love eggs so much) 5. Chicken Tocino & Hotdog 6. Cake Hahahaha. I really don't mind whether it's a slice of Chocolate Mousse from Red Ribbon, New York Cheese Cake from Starbucks or Cheese Cake from Becky's Hahaha. It's already Heaven lol. 7. Fit n Right four seasons 8. Cold water

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The struggles and worries of a person with knee injury

Do you know how hard it is to stop every now and then with whatever it is you are doing because you feel something?

Well I do. That I cannot play basketball, volleyball, badminton or even go for a run without worrying about my knee. Worst is sometimes you really can feel the pain and feel it like as if it’s trying to remind you of all the stupidness you did that caused the injury.

Aside from the struggles you’ll have along the way and the pain you get to feel at times… is also the worries you get to have along the way… those what if it gets worst, how will the knee be years from now, what will happen if you do this and that…and so on…

I had my knee injuries because of my constant and several accidents on school stairs together with constant knee bumps, hard falls and etc etc etc.

So guys, Let me tell you this Take care of every single part of our body, because it’s hard to have an injury and every part of our body has it’s functions don’t under estimate it.

Take Care!

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College life, You'll miss it! True to life: I never thought I will miss school. Even in college I was dying to graduate already. First year pa lang hinihintay ko na matapos lahat... (Don't get me wrong ah, unlike my elem & high school life... College was the best part of my life even until now).. My graduate friends used to tell me "Enjoy college, you'll miss it" and I was like "Nope, I won't miss school, Gusto ko na nga mag law school so I can get over all the school shit" but when I got there and I graduated nope, hell do I miss college and same as to what my friends used to tell me "Enjoy College! You'll miss it!" I miss my college life, my profs, my activities, my activeness, my classes, my friends and every single thing about it! Actually even when I was already working there were times where I would go to Benilde just to pass by our chapel and walk around the campus to remember my laughters and memories there. Tbh, same as in La Salle, I miss it too. I used to hate studying, the person who hates going to school... but now, if only I can study everything particularly the things that I really want to study aside from law which is psychology and sports most likely I would... Just like everyone else, my mind setting was "money, money, money" I wanted tp graduate already to have a job and work my way to be rich and all that. But you know what the sad truth is all about? It's not easy to live life after college. Graduate school is not as fun as college life (believe me it's not, before I went to law school, I was excited and I thought that when I get there it's fun to say I'm a law student but when I got there it wasn't, actually ayaw na ayaw kong sinasabi na law student ako coz I know then wala akong napatunayan at wala akong kwentang law student. Contrary from what and how I felt during my college years..in law school I felt I was nothing and I wasn't good). Work life is not as fun as we think when we were in college... that "pag nag wowork na ko may pera na ko and freedom" well yes at some point it has a point but not really. The moment we graduate college the expectation of people about us is higher, the level of responsibility we have now is higher, the level of maturity must be higher and we support ourselves in all aspects (Not that I'm not used to it, since ever since I was a kid I buy my own things already that I needed to work or save for them but trust me work life is different than that). And the expectation that life will be easier and less stress is actually untrue. College life is easier, happier and less stressful than the real world. (By real world I'm not just talking about the working part but the real world you actually face after college. The world that won't pamper you anymore in anyway, the world that you have no one but yourself, etc). During our time and our experience looking for a job wasn't that hard because of our college & our personality, (well that was at least based on my experience but in reality it is hard to find a job). However the realization along the way that a job that you are not passionate about and that you don't actually love doing won't make you enjoy it. That part in life when money won't motivate you anymore and you would love to have a job that you would enjoy doing. And well the money, actually most jobs you will find now it's "Break-Even" in short money in-money out. That 10k-15k Salary is the same amount you need to pay for daily expense, allowance to yourself and weekly groceries (Take note yourself). So Enjoy college guys... Enjoy school! You'll miss it someday! :)

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"The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. -Eleanor Roosevelt"

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"Music expresses my inner thoughts and deep emotions, planner gives my life a sense of direction, readings help me with further learning's and Starbucks is my comfort zone!"