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“Also the man who left me in France.”

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MAL. *

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          “Oh my god.” She sighed. “Why?” 

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            ❛   'cause he was feelin’ kinda  C R U M M Y.   ❜                     & queue innocent giggles;; he actually                     found his own joke funny. really funny. 

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You took some of his pain away.

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??? *

​​                  ❛ I would say that L U C K is on your side today, love.                     Frankly –– I’m in a terrific mood today & would’ve                     shattered your heart to pieces if I weren’t. Tell me,                     what are you doing stranded among these streets?❜

             ❛   well, then THAT’S a first.    there was  n o t h i n g                   holding me ‘ home, ’ i guess.     i just needed to. . .                   leave. . . why do you want to know about my life??   ❜

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I’m really tired of seeing people broken up into labels of absolutes.

People are not just “good” or “bad”.

People are not a list of labels. 

People are complex, situations are complex.

I know, that makes it a lot harder when you want to just write off everything someone’s ever done as bad – but that’s not how people actually are, and it would do everyone good to stop pretending they are.

I am tired of hearing about the fear people have in putting themselves out there. And it is a scary thing! Putting yourself out there means subjecting yourself to people who want a really good reason to tear you down, who will jump at the first chance to feel “good” by labeling someone else as “bad”.

I reject this. I reject the idea that there should be fear in speaking up and talking about experiences and trying to reach an understanding of a situation.

I’m unhappy to see people spitefully urging others to cut off ties with their friends under the guise of “well, that person’s just inherently bad, so if you talk to them you’re bad too.” That is fucked up. You definitely have the right to let the friend know you don’t want to hear about whoever troubles you, but you do not at all have the right to decide who their friends should be. This includes guilt trips.

Anyway, just try to be more aware of others. Everyone else is a person like you. They might not have the same experiences as you. They might not understand how their words are harmful, or how what they’re doing is wrong. They certainly won’t if you never tell them.

Most people are trying to be good, but they’re going to mess it up sometimes. Try to keep that in mind. Even when people do really fucked up shit, sometimes they are trying to do good. “The road to hell is paved with good intentions” and all that.

Nothing gets solved, no growth happens when you put people into a box from which you’ll never let them escape.

Yes, you absolutely must be careful about people who have tendencies and patterns that are harmful to you. Sometimes people try to overcome those patterns and they fail, and you have to distance yourself from them: that is the sad reality of life. Sometimes though, they can overcome it. But they certainly won’t if the first thing you do is write them off after a fuck up. 

Be sincere. Use your best judgment. 

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                              so — i am a total idiot that forgot that i wanted to do a giveaway                               for   reaching    2,000+ followers.   but  YEAH here   it   is.  my                               wonderful giveaway for reaching  2,000+ followers and  this is                               how i want to thank everyone!!! i never expected to get this far.                               i have never had this many followers on any other blog i have                                               ever had. so THANK YOU ALL so much! 

                                    • you must be following me if you do wish to reblog this.                                                              • reblogs & likes do count.                                                                   • FOUR WINNERS.                                  • FIRST PLACE - 500 Icons.  SECOND PLACE - 400 Icons.                                    THIRD PLACE - 300 Icons.  FOURTH PLACE - 200 Icons.                   • giveaway ends on the 22nd april ( a day before i go see age of ultron. )

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Allisaac Week Day 3 - Allisaac + song lyrics/quotes

and it’s clear to me now i found a place, somewhere to fall  somewhere that i can belong when i see you, i see home

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teen wolf meme ➳ [4/8] relationships: lydia martin & isaac lahey

“If I hadn’t been there, then Lydia would be dead.”

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thinking about ur otps napping is SO IMPORTANT. Does one protectively shush anyone who comes near their sleeping partner. Does one come home to find the other sleeping on the floor under a table or curled in a corner. Does the partner wake them up and move them to some place more comfortable or do they roll their eyes and cover them with a blanket whatever weird place they are. Do their roommates come home to find them both tangled in impossible positions and marvel at how they are somehow asleep. Who gets really emotional the first time they fall asleep together. Who drools on the other one’s chest. Who wakes up with the other’s hair in their nose. these are the necessary questions. 

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you dangle on the leash of your own longing; your need grows teeth.

Margaret Atwood, from “Speeches for Dr Frankenstein,” The Animals In That Country (Oxford University Press, 1968)

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Hallway fight scene - Netflix’s Daredevil, season 1 episode 2