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Coming out story

My name is Sarah, but I go by Cobie now. When I was 14, I came out as bisexual. I first came out to my mom, and she supported me. I had told her I thought I liked girls, and she asked if I was gay, but I said to her "I think I'm bi?" We told my dad at dinner that night, who also supported me. I then decided to send an email to my brother, uncle on my dad's side, and both grandmothers. My grandmother on my dad's side was very supportive, along with my uncle and brother. However, my grandmother on my mom's side broke my heart. She told me she still loved me, but couldn't support me. She told me I didn't know what it meant to be bisexual. Around that time I also started self-harming. I developed anxiety and depression, mostly due to this new change and the negative feedback I received. I was eventually able to let it go, and moved on from the sensitive topic. I later realized I was actually pansexual, more interested in personalities than what someone looked like. Then, while in college, I discovered I didn't feel like I was all female, but not all male. I had made several friends within the LGBTQ+ community, and found a term that I felt fit me: gender fluid. I felt that some days I was more feminine, some days more masculine, and some just in between, not really one or the other. I started using they/them pronouns, and I really like it, but family still uses she/her, so I guess I tolerate that. I started going by my last name as I made this new change. I knew I didn't want to go by Sarah anymore, mostly because it was just so common and I was getting confused as to whether someone was calling my name or not. One of my coworkers then started calling me Cobie, a nickname he came up with from my last name, and I really liked the way it sounded as my name. So now, I'm just Cobie, a pansexual, gender fluid college student, trying to make my way through life.

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“I have new plans now, and you’re not included.”

— Viola CN

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how I'm feeling right now bc of him

“If I lost you a part of my soul would never be the same”

— kenzie lawson

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Staff: *bans female presenting nipples*

Me: goddamnit this is exactly how Japanese tentacle porn was created

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pansexual and gender fluid and hella proud of it! https://www.instagram.com/p/ByN7I12n6sm1upnkoIJ_-YJW8BNP26NBug05xU0/?igshid=13btryp377msj

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Reblog this if you support your fellow writers, even if they don’t get much attention

Gonna piss an anon off in my inbox who sent me ‘ Delete your tumblr. Its not worth posting your writing when nobody will see it or care about it ‘

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reblog if you’re a safe place for:

lesbian

gay

bisexual

transgender

queer

pansexual

demisexual

ace

hopeless romantics

cis-men

cis-women

non binary folks

the whole spectrum etc…

follow everyone who reblogs ;)

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Everyone: If you keep listening to your music so loudly you'll be deaf by the time you're 20

Me: What

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If people said “it’s okay to be nervous” instead of “don’t be nervous”, it might make things a little easier

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ANYONE WHO REBLOGS THIS WILL GET A FLOWER BASED ON THEIR BLOG!

I’m bored and everyone deserves a pretty flower!

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listen…..dark brown eyes,,, they are so good…100% of the time

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I’m screaming someone DMed me asking for me to help them with their homework

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This is an appreciation post for the fanfic authors who aren’t included on rec lists

For the fanfic authors who don’t get art of their fics

For the fanfic authors who can’t get to 1000/500/100 hits

For the fanfic authors who don’t get comments/reviews

For the fanfic authors who write for small fandoms

For the fanfic authors who write rarepairs or gen fics

For the fanfic authors who get hate for the ships/characters/fandoms they write

For the fanfic authors who write in English despite it not being their first language

For the fanfic authors who don’t write in English

For the fanfic authors who don’t think anyone reads or likes their work

For the fanfic authors who aren’t big name fans

For the fanfic authors who don’t get requests in their inboxes

For the fanfic authors who can’t write stories that are more than a thousand words

For the fanfic authors who only write one ship

For the fanfic authors who are just starting

For the fanfic authors who have been writing fic for years

For the fanfic authors who use fanfic to practice writing

For the fanfic authors who write self-insert fics

For the fanfic authors who write about their OCs

For the fanfic authors who write to vent or cope

For the fanfic authors who are just waiting for their big break

Keep creating, I love you ❤️

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reblog if ur bi, ur not biphobic, or ur best friend is a beautiful valid bisexual

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not to be needy but i want new heart emojis and i want them now