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Can't you also feel anything but your own only pulse right now?

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Reblog if you’re polyamorous, support polyamorous people, or think polyamorous people and relationships are valid

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Our queer expeince is veing very gay and homoplatonic and aroace about our partner sys because lemme tell ylu he is amazing guys i have the best husband ever didya know. We called and talked and then j read nimona and he did work and its awesome and even if we gotta deal with bullshit everyday my qpp is ther and im there for it i just spent 10 min rambleing about him to it after is fell asleep in messages but then i finished and decided more people have to knoe its cool which is a 2 am decistion and im not the alter who should be fronting alone late at night but him <3

Our queer expeince is community and having each other back in hard times and learning more to support each other

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be kinder to each other this pride month. remember that while we must remember why we need to stay vigilant and protect ourselves from queerphobia, and to remind people of the violence and hatred has happened in our past, we also have to show support for one another, and be kind and accepting, even if we don't understand each other. there is never a time to hate on your queer siblings, but especially not during pride month. this is the time where we are meant to band together the most, and share happiness, joy and understanding alongside remembering the hurt we've experienced.

get over yourself and stop the trans infighting. trans men and women are never enemies, especially not during pride month. drop your hatred for queer people you don't like or understand, like nonbinary people, intersex people, """tmes""", afab queer people, queer cis women and men, straight trans people, male lesbians and female gays, bi and pan lesbians and gays, he/him lesbians and she/her gays, bi and pan people in general, aros and aces, genderfluid and bigender people, and anyone else you feel animosity toward. there is never a time for that, but especially not now.

expressing and experiencing pride together is what makes us strong, and helps us understand one another, and that the barriers between us do not exist like we think they do. band together. experience pride together. it's not just for you- it's for every queer person, and that deserves to be celebrated together. if you don't like that, you're missing the entire point of pride and you need to reflect on this before you even attempt to celebrate this month. pride isn't for you and you alone, it's for everyone, and that includes the queers you don't like and don't accept. they're queer, they're here, and they're not going anywhere. accept it.

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Can't express how stress free being open minded is.

Some lesbians use he/him? Oh cool.

Some people have people inside their head and sometimes it's fictional chars? Sick your brains like a pirate ship they're all working to run.

Some people like being treated like a pet dog? Bark bark bro.

Being fat isn't unhealthy but a perfectly normal type of body to have? Kinda beautiful how different we can all be.

Something doesn't make any fucking sense? Cool an opportunity to learn. And even if I can't figure it out it's cool we still have mysteries today.

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i feel like a lot of anti transandrophobia posts just dont listen to any complex definitions or discussions about the word, just the handful of posts that spam tags about personal experiences or whatever that get thousands of notes. and dont get me wrong those are important but when thats all you engage with you dont see anything beyond “men cannot be oppressed for being men”

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i do think its funny how my recent posts are about how we should be calling out intracommunity issues, something i think is very important, but we should be careful how we do it. very much in relation to transmisogyny. but if i recognize the reverse is also happening, im dumb and need to be educated or something

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also: there is very rarely, if ever, a situation where you can or should state that you would never date a transgender person. if you feel that way, you can turn down a trans person if they ask you out, for whatever reason. but i cant find one where you would need to announce how unappealing you find us as partners. yes this applies to trans people who exclusively date cis people

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cjdjckkdkdkdk the reason the term queerbait is in circulation “again” isnt because of your stupid cop show its because of the harassment of real life people. be so fucking for real

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Just letting you know if you’re in an argument with a trans man and you call him “dramatic”, “hysterical”, “girl”, “bitch”, “cunt”, etc. you’re actually not subtle with your misogyny

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I will continue being mean to thin people because the entire world is made for you but people like me can't get a diagnosis without threatening to sue the doctor <3

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2 weeks (ish) into my self imposed banishment and I wanted to make a more positive post to leave things on. Getting yourself out of the habit of using social media obsessively is hard! But very rewarding. Ive been finding ways to spend my time that don't make me feel angry and exhausted and it's been lovely. Ive packed quite a bit into 2 weeks (ISH) and im excited to do more! What I've done (so far) instead of being on this website:

Put over 20 gigglebites of music on my phone via soulseek (wow!)

Organize my desktop and files (so clean! so much space on my drives!)

Actually finished two video games! Klonoa: Door to Phantomile and a replay of Black Mesa. (Enjoying my hobbies is fun!)

Go to my local library to check out books and actually read them! (So fun! Go check out YOUR local library! Ive been getting graphic novels and comics made by queer authors/artists!)

Hang out with my friends more! (This one is up and down, we all live together so its kind of a "doing more social things in my house" type beat.)

Done an art trade! (shoutout to @cintailed for doodlin' up my now renamed fursona, Catherine!)

Here's my half of that btw!

Speaking of art! I've been doing art!

Look at this Tanuki version of my sona I made!

CUT MY OWN HAIR! (With the help of a friend but still!!)

Short hair Clair returns for fat girl spring!!!

Went to an overlook with my wife and friends! (We were doing some light rock climbing/hiking!)

We have another hike planned this week! We're gonna be at the bottom of a canyon!

There's some things I'm probably forgetting here and there, but I my point in posting this at all is to say, I'm okay! I'm doing good, I feel good most days, and I'm enjoying my newfound time. Who knows, maybe in a month or so I'll feel like coming back in moderation, but I've set up my itinerary to at least let me be gone for the spring and summer. I know I know, big shocker, logging off the hellsite gives you time to do other things. But it really has kind of surprised me how much more I feel like doing now that I've given myself the chance. Can't recommend it enough. You don't have to swear off the computer forever or anything, but for real, maybe give tumblr a break for a while.

See you when I see you! Go enjoy the spring every once and a while, for me, okay?

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Im not gonna stop yelling about it until people remember that fat trans women exist. And I mean actual fat trans women. Not the trans girl you know with a little bit of a tummy who had to start buying medium sized shorts after being on HRT for a year I mean women who've had problems finding clothes that fit since before we started transitioning. Women who's "flat as a board" moments were having C cups before E even kicked in. Women who are often made the face of offensive stereotypes aimed at the entire transfem community. Women who's weight hasn't started with a 1 since they were 13. You have to remember we exist. You have to know that we're here. You have to hype us up just like all the girls with more palatable physiques that you wanna fuck.

Fuck with all of us or fuck off.

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