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I love this so much.

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why is everyone I know lowkey transphobic

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This should’ve been my gender reveal

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I hate that trans allies are told that asking someone what their pronouns are, or having people state their pronouns in a group, is a good way to be an ally. If you aren’t 100% certain that you’re in a trans-inclusive space, then don’t ask. It forces trans people to do one of two things: 1) out themselves, which can potentially be life-threatening or 2) force themselves to lie about what their actual pronouns are + what they’re actually comfortable with is. Forcing trans people to choose between those two things is not what an ally should ever do.

If you want to be certain that you’re using the right pronouns for someone, the very least you should do is ask them in private and ask them what pronouns you should use around other people, in case they’re not out to everyone. Additionally, if trans people don’t tell you their pronouns for whatever reason, you should never try to force them to tell you or get offended when they don’t.

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When I went to get a flu shot, Jill Stein burst into the room and slapped the needle out of the doctor’s hand

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When your unfunny transphobic bullshit gets zero notes like all your other posts.

Triggersexual: Freedom From Rational Philosophies

Someone hit me up! I’m not sure who saw, but I actually came out as triggersexual tonight, so I’m looking for more people to talk to that might be interested in learning about what I am, what I like, and who might interest me. I really would like to make some new friends in the trans community!

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some fucker: the down with cis meme brings only more negativity!!!!!!1 dont fight fire with fier!!!11 uwu

me,internally: the dwc meme is not as much aimed towards cis people as it is a coping mechanism. the dwc meme is the way of coping of the trans community on tumblr after someone attempted to further demonize trans people by making a post that was borderline ridiculous and senseless,the meme helps trans people by letting them release the builded up frustration from living in transphobic society in a way that can be understood and sympathized with while not making them state person details as well as hel-

me,externally: i literally didnt ask???

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when people laugh at transphobic jokes

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them: are you a boy or a girl????

me: i'm rick harrison, and this is my pawn shop

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Give her an inch, she’ll take a foot. Give her a foot, she’ll take a yard. Give her a yard and she’ll make milkshakes for all the boys.

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Theres nothing wrong with being cis, you're doing exactly what transphobic people do to transgenderd people

Oh shit I’ve created a whole society that allows the systematic oppression of cis people to exist? That leads to cis people conatntly being murdered and abused into suicide, just for being cis?

I’ve created a medical hellscape of gatekeeping that keeps life-saving treatments away from cis people, just because I don’t think cis people should be trusted with the power to define themselves and know what is best for themselves - and they should instead only be defined and “diagnosed” by me and people like me and only be approved for treatments if they are cis in the way we think they should be?

Did I literally just create a whole social norm of coercively misgendering cis people from the day they are born, consatntly and consistently putting them through emotional trauma that will give them issues for the rest of their lives?

Have I really treated cis people the same way that they treat trans people?

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I am weak and I will not survive the winter. by Luke Berti

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UK Train Company Customer Support Twitter Responds to Customer Transmisogyny