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Ultimately, I really do believe that the whole “don’t try to be your friends’ therapist” mindset has done more harm than good. I understand and agree with the original premise behind it—codependency bad, enmeshment bad—but it has morphed into something godawful that I can barely even stomach to look at. Why the fuck are we encouraging people to outsource critical mental health support and genuine, vulnerable human connection to authority figures who don’t necessarily give a fuck about us as people, with whom we have a tenuous client/employee relationship that is ripe for abuse and held together only by the exchange of money??? If I have advice for my friends or am capable of helping them with their problems in other ways then why the fuck would I not just. Do it. Why are we limiting the boundaries of actual fucking human relationships by expecting that no one will ever ask anything of us and we should never ask anything of them in return!!!! Do you people not see how fucking miserable and lonely that is!?!?!?! How can you people say that you truly care about your friends when you care more about holding them at arms’ length and “encouraging them to seek help on their own” rather than actually fucking helping them yourself when they ask it of you!?!?!?!?!?!
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the problem with buying food is after you eat it you have to go buy more food
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the surgery mouse is a species of mouse or rat or bug or some shit known for its ability to amputate limbs due to its sharp blade
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it’s crazy how much you can read if you read
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Dogs will be like: you want my wetttt toy?
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you gotta watch out when theres an animal cause you literally might get sniffed
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no it is not enough for you to date a transfem to not be transmisoginyst, that's like saying heterosexual men cant be misogynists and they cant oppress their wives, like you are fucking stupid 😭
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observation: among a certain subset of tumblr users, the term “blorbo” has become unchic, but the concept it describes is still important; and so it has been replaced with “The Character”
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Disco Elysium (2019) - digital illustration.
“Golden brown, finer temptress Through the ages she's heading west From far away Stays for a day Never a frown with golden brown” - The Stranglers.
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Would you rather have a Phineas and Ferb summer or a Gravity Falls summer?
would you rather have endless fun forever or have satan attack you every day
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It is kitty time once again 🐈 ✨ Commission for @professorjordan
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