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What do you do for a living

i try my best

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Are you talking to anyone?

about what ?

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good things will happen 🧿

things that are meant to be will fall into place 🧿

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When I don’t like someone I don’t follow them or interact w them or even remember they exist. I recommend trying that sometime

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I feel like asian people are constantly limited (esp. in western cultures) because a lot of us cannot be ourselves without nonasian people either fetishizing us or making fun of us. Asian teenagers, and mainly asian girls, can’t wear their fucking school uniform without western people thinking it’s “sexy” when those people are usually underage. Asian people can’t enjoy cultural foods without condesending people making rude comments like “omg is it dog meat?!?!?!” Asian people’s hard work is brushed off almost always. We can’t even play the characters made to represent us, the roles are always given to a white actor. Don’t get me started on how our languages are always seen as just some cutesy lines and squiggles that are “aesthetic. And people who are Indian, Syrian, Malaysian, Arab, Russian, or from a country that isn’t China/Japan/Korea are ALWAYS excluded when people talk about Asia. I’m sick of that. Asian people deserve to exist without being fetishized or mocked. 

If you’re not asian you can reblog

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It’s ridiculous that I am still single 🥲

Just want a big titties gf, actually you know what any titty size would work 😌 just want a gf life is rlly unfair

the fact that we're still single during pride month.... homophobia strikes again

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Just because Tiktok pissed me off. Unpopular opinion: Blacks, Latinas, and Asians are unattractive 🙂

TikTok pissed you off so you decided to be a racist piece of shit and send this fuckery? Choke and die honestly, your spirit is ugly

The internet makes you racists so comfortable but if you said this shit irl you’d get your ass beat

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!!!!

one day the internet rly should talk abt how (white) fandom’s “anything goes” mentality enables a ridiculous amount of racism & racist harassment in fic/fandom spaces/etc, & how cries of “censorship” are often weaponized against fans of color (esp Black fans) who call this out

lack of accountability & moderation in online spaces (regardless of the nature of said space) will always, always lead to marginalized communities getting hurt. most especially people of color. if you hold some lofty ideals of pleasure & ~freedom of expression~ above the tangible safety of people of color then you seriously seriously need to reexamine your priorities. paradox of tolerance and all that. if you tolerate everything then you are not only leaving room for rampant harassment and racism to occur, but you are enabling it. when simple safety measures and moderation are absent, the first people to get hurt will always be communities of color. 

it is actually possible to have a world in which creative freedom is encouraged and also we are able to protect marginalized communities from harassment. white people just don’t have any imagination lmao

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when u catch urself thinking wistfully about dating and being in love and being c*ddled and how nice that would be

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I’M SO UNSATISFIED BY LIFE!!! I WANT TO DO SOMETHING THAT BRINGS ME IMMENSE AMOUNTS OF JOY BUT ALL THE THINGS I THOUGHT DID THAT, NO LONGER DO!!! I’M SO INCREDIBLY STUCK AND DESPERATELY NEED MY BRAIN TO BE STIMULATED!!!!

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romanticize your life. i cannot stress this enough. use scented shower gel and shampoo, so you look forward to showers. go on walks and see how pretty the sky looks. notice the wildflowers on the roadside as you drive. light a candle when you get home to make your room smell good. notice & appreciate the little things in life. it won't cure your mental illness, but it'll make it easier to exist in this world.

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i like being bisexual. but i do not like being mentally ill

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do you know what’s really weird? the number of non-black people who follow black people, particularly black women, on here just waiting to say something racist or anti-black at the drop of a hat. like if you are following black bloggers so you can see what they’re posting and antagonize them with racist anons at a moment’s notice, you should probably go sort that out lol

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edit: some of yall in the tags have said some stuff, and i just wanted to say, i might not know you, but im always here to talk. if you need it. ive been told im a good listener? idk if you ever feel alone, my messages are open and ill do my best to listen, help, just chill, whatever you need.... im here ❤️

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And he’s dating a white woman in media pls

not a day goes by where I don’t think of that article that absolutely destroyed Harry’s performative literacy image

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As horny as I am, I’m not at all interested in sex without a deep connection. I refuse to share my body with someone who is anything less than obsessed with me.

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White person on tiktok: Hey my partner is a poc who I love dearly. I participate in their culture and heritage out of respect. My in laws are supportive of me dressing in their clothes and participating in holidays with them, in fact they insist I do so.

Person with a white savior complex: OMG THATS NOT OK YOU ARENT SUPPOSED TO DO THAT ITS NOT YOUR CULTURE YOU VULTURE THATS NOT OK EVEN IF ITS YOUR PARTNERS CULTURE ITS APPROPRIATION