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Diaper Punishment, Diaper Discipline & Diaper Training: A Short History (3/3)

For more than two thousand years, various forms of diapers have been used on infants with the sole purpose of catching urine and feces excreted in an uncontrolled manner. Up to the 19th century, diapers were barely comparable to the well-known modern versions and were rather made provisionally from wool or linen yarn instead. In the 19th century, the terry towelling diapers appeared, which were later often combined with rubber pants to increase their effectiveness. The first disposable diapers came up after World War II, and due to the convenience they offered for busy parents they displaced cloth diapers more and more in the following decades.

However, in each generation, mothers and fathers, wifes and husbands, girlfriends and boyfriends existed who were able to see the potential of diapers far beyond their practical function. Those few discovered their usefulness for educational purposes and learned to appreciate their correctional influences on the behavior of young adults and partners.

This post is part of a series of illustrated articles intended to show the evolution of diaper punishment into diaper discipline and, eventually, diaper training.

Part 3: 2010 - today

By 2010, diaper discipline had substantially grown in both notability and popularity, and diapers had become an integral part of daily life in many private households and facilities all around the globe. New impulses came in particular from the Generation Y (also known as the Pampers Generation because most of them were put in disposable diapers as babies and toddlers). Consequently, the further development of diaper discipline was majorly driven by two dominant traits, which is …

the continous search for entertainment and input, and …

the question “Why?”, i.e., the enduring tendency to question existing principles or concepts: Why should diaper discipline solely be done for a purpose without any fun? Why should we not take advantage of our knowledge in psychology and physiology when it comes to diaper discipline?

As a result, the ‘game with the mind‘ became a central aspect of diaper discipline, leading to the exploitation of (forced) regression and conditioning in the scope of diaper discipline, which is then usually summarized by the term diaper training. While the general goal did not change by any means, for instance diaper dependency, inducing bedwetting etc., the methods in achieving that goal changed significantly. Two main approaches can be distinguished (there is, however, a broad spectrum of intermediate concepts, using aspects from both approaches to various degrees):

The strict, forced approach: Diapers and training concepts are introduced abruptly, and compliance is enforced by punishments (humiliation, spankings, corner time, delayed diaper changes, enemas) until the client has become accustomed to the new regimen and diapers become a natural part of daily life.

The gentle, manipulative approach: Diapers and training concepts are introduced step-by-step, and compliance is ensured by conditioning and positive reinforcement (giving orgasms once the diaper has been used properly, sweet talk, diaper pats, loving attention) until the client has developed a strong desire to be in diapers (or any form of dependency) and external forcing is not necessary anymore.

In both approaches, the same tools (medical or printed diapers, locking plastic pants, restraints, onesies, enemas and suppositories etc.) are used consistently and without exception, however, the difference consists in the way they are introduced, i.e., either in form of a caring or a punitive way, while the outcome remains of course the same. The right approach in a given situation depends on individual factors, but mostly on the preferences of the caregiver. In the following, you will find several examples of modern diaper training.

Figure 1. A young woman is severly tied up to a bed in a correctional facility using a strict approach, suggesting that she is fairly new to diaper training. Regular fluid intake makes sure her diaper does not stay dry for long and that she gets used to using her diaper frequently. The restraints allow easy access to her diaper area, either for a change or for further diaper training reinforcement means like forced orgasms etc., and the locking mittens ensure that she has no ability to fight those procedures. The chances of her keeping any part of her bladder control for longer than 8 weeks is basically zero by now (ca. 2011).

Figure 2. A young, happy woman standing in front of a huge pile of her own diaper supply, which is openly stored in her house. The smile on her face suggests that she has been in a gentle form of diaper training (including some regression aspects, as indicated by the stuffie she hugs tightly) for quite some time. Her attire, attitude as well as the diaper packages in the background suggest that she has fully accpeted being back in diapers, and it can be assumed that her diaper dependency was irreversible by the time she put on the very last diaper from the pile behind her (ca. 2012).

Figure 3. Tied to her bed and being deprived of any hearing, seeing or speaking, this young woman has no choice but to focus on the thick padding between her legs. After a while, the only stimulant becomes the warmth frequently spreading throughout her triple-boosted diaper, and her desire for any sensory input leads to a increased wetting frequency, which in turn erodes her bladder control all the quicker (ca. 2015).

Figure 4. A very effective and technologized form of diaper training is shown in this picture, which has been taken in one of the most modern diaper training facilities in the world. Various sensors record continously several physical and physiological parameters of this young woman, for instance the wetting frequency, body and diaper temperature, electrical brain activity, and electrodes can be used to stimulize specific nerves. This method allows, for example, to decide with scientific precision whether bedwetting has already set in. To that end, statistical algorithms evaluate the recorded time series’ of electrical brain activity and diaper wetting events. Once the diaper wetting events fall together with low-frequency delta waves, which indicates a phase of deep sleep, diaper training scientist can conclude that bedwetting has been induced permanently (ca. 2018).

Figure 5. A gentle diaper training approach by conditioning with elements of regression is illustrated in this picture. A vibrator is pressed into the clearly wet (and most likely messy) diaper of the young woman bound to the chair, and despite her fighting against the upcoming orgasm, her face reveals that her mind has already given in and she has already passed the point-of-no-return. Understandably, the lady on the left side obviously enjoys enforcing a mental diaper dependency on her young client, giving her mind no other choice than to learn to thoroughly enjoy cumming in a soggy diaper (ca. 2017).

Figure 6. This picture is a perfect example of a strict, but gentle and caring diaper training approach with dominating regressive elements. The strongly feminine dresscode of the lady on the right side is supposed to emphasize the contrast between the mature caregiver on the one side and the young, diaper-filling woman on the other side. Although the atmosphere is kept loving and caring, the situation is certainly handled with consistency and without any exceptions. The young woman on the left side receives an enema, which indicates that she is still new to diaper training and regression and still has trouble (or refuses) to use her diaper for its intended purpose. Since toilets are definitely not a part of the training, the experience of releasing the enema into a diaper certainly fosters future compliance when it comes to using her diaper, along with praising words once she has thoroughly filled it (ca. 2016).

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AB/DL Caretaker Contract

I have designed the following contract to provide some basic ground rules that may be used in an AB-Caretaker relationship. Though this contract may not be legally enforceable, it contains sufficient provisions of semi-binding nature to show how to deal with any conflict that may arise within the course of such relationship. You may adapt it to your wishes and use it as guidelines for your own relationship, if you so wish. Have fun!

AB/DL Caretaker Contract

between __________________________________________

(hereinafter: “the charge”)

and _____________________________________________

(hereinafter: “the caretaker”)

Preamble

The following is an agreement between consenting adults who wish to engage in a long-term relationship based on mutual trust and common interests. The parties of this agreement hereby acknowledge and declare that they enter into this agreement of their own volition and free from any undue influence or force. The parties further acknowledge and accept that this agreement contains a long-term commitment which may only be resolved under certain conditions in accordance with the legitimate interests of the respective other party. With regard to the nature of this agreement, the parties further declare to be aware that its execution may lead to long-term or even permanent physical and/or mental changes which will affect inter alia the charge´s continence and his/her ability to control his/her bladder and bowels. The parties hereby confirm that it is indeed their will to bring about these changes with all their ramifications and consequences, knowing that they may prove to be irreversible and permanent. In full knowledge of these consequences and their possible impact on his/her future life and living conditions, the charge hereby confirms that it is indeed his/her genuine and most sincere wish to be rendered incontinent and diaper dependent as a result of the unpotty training regimen set out in this agreement, knowing that these effects may prove to be irreversible and permanent.

§ 1 – General Provisions, Objective of this agreement

By virtue of this agreement the parties establish a long-term relationship governed by a mutually accepted set of rules and obligations, in which they will adopt the roles of (dominant) caretaker and (submissive) charge to fulfill their mutual desires.

§ 2 – Roles and Obligations of the Parties

(1) Throughout the period of validity of this agreement, from its entry into force till its termination, the parties adopt the following roles and responsibilities:

- caretaker:

The caretaker is responsible for the care and well-being of his/her charge and is inter alia in charge of the charge´s education, discipline and diaper training. He/she enforces the rules set out in this agreement and ensures that the charge´s every need is met so that he/she may thrive and become a healthy and well-behaved adult baby.

- charge:

The charge is obligated to submit to the care provided by the caretaker in accordance with this agreement and the rules set out therein. He/she will discard all his/her former adult responsibilities, with the exception of those explicitly specified in this agreement, and will let the caretaker take care of things in his/her stead. In particular, he/she will give up control over his/her bladder and bowels and will submit to the agreed upon unpotty training regimen until full diaper dependency is achieved.

(2) The caretaker may appoint representatives (e.g. baby sitters) to fulfill his/her responsibilities under this agreement in his/her stead whenever the need arises, provided that these representatives are open towards the AB/DL lifestyle and respect the limits and obligations under this agreement. The caretaker is responsible for any violation or lack of care that may result from the appointment of these representatives and is obligated to ensure that this agreement is abided by at all times. The charge may oppose the appointment of any representative only insofar as he/she is able to raise legitimate concerns in this regard.

§ 3 - Duration and Conditions for Termination

(1) This agreement shall be valid and in full effect until it is terminated by one of the parties.

(2) This agreement may be terminated by the charge only under the following conditions:

- in case of severe and/or persistent violations of rules or limits set out in this agreement by caretaker or representative, immediately without having to comply with any cancellation period

- in case of serious lack of care by caretaker or representative, if no remedy is provided within two weeks after a substantiated complaint or if the breach of duty continues to persist even after such remedy has been provided, immediately without having to comply with any cancellation period

- in case of other compelling reasons of such importance that the party giving notice cannot reasonably be expected to continue the relationship established under this agreement, after taking all circumstances of the individual case into account and after weighing the interests of both parties to the contract, immediately without having to comply with any cancellation period.

- without any particular reason with effect to the end of the year, after at least one full year has passed since the beginning of care, provided that notice is given at least three months prior.

(3) This agreement may be terminated by the caretaker only under the following conditions:

- in case of severe and/or persistent violations of rules or limits set out in this agreement committed by the charge, if these violations pose a serious threat to the caretaker´s health or his/her reputation, immediately without having to comply with any cancellation period

- in case of other persistent violations of rules or limits set out in this agreement committed by the charge, if they persist even after all other means of discipline provided under this agreement have been exhausted or proven to be ineffective, immediately without having to comply with any cancellation period

- in case other compelling reasons of such importance that the party giving notice cannot reasonably be expected to continue the relationship established under this agreement, after taking all circumstances of the individual case into account and after weighing the interests of both parties to the contract, immediately without having to comply with any cancellation period

- without any particular reason at the end of year with at least 6 months of prior notification, provided that a proper replacement is found that meets the charge´s needs and is willing to continue the care in the caretaker´s stead according to the provisions of this agreement (possible candidates are to be discussed with the charge beforehand).

§ 4 – Limits and Restrictions

(1) Insofar as the charge is employed or pursuing a career, none of the provisions of this agreement may be interpreted in any manner that would affect these undertakings. In particular, the caretaker may not interfere with the charge´s professional obligations and has to allow the charge to maintain a professional appearance in all work-related matters. The rules set out in this agreement, in particular the ones in regard to bedtime, appearance, conditions for diaper changes, diaper type and diaper usage, are to be adjusted accordingly.

(2) The general goal of training the charge to become diaper dependent, however, has to be pursued at all times and may not interfered with for any reason whatsoever. This precludes any concessions that would allow the charge to use the toilet or to stop wearing and using diapers, even if it were only for a short while.

(3) None of the provisions of this agreement may be interpreted in any manner that would be contrary to public policy or the law applicable where the charge is habitually resident or habitant.

§ 5 – Safeguards for Public Exposure

To avoid legal ramifications or detrimental effects for the charge´s social standing, the charge must be dressed and treated in such manner when in public or in the presence of other people not being part of the AB/DL community, that public decency is adhered and that no other people are molested. If the charge´s diapers are to be exposed or changed in public, it has to be done in a socially acceptable manner. Appropriate safeguards need to be taken to ensure that the charge´s identity is protected.

§ 6 – Rules to be enforced by the Caretaker

(1) The caretaker is responsible for the enforcement of the following rules the charge has to abide by, for as long as this agreement is in force:

1. Diapers are to be worn 24/7, no exceptions.

2. The toilet is off limits. Diapers are to be used at all times.

3. All potty privileges are revoked. Diapers are to be used as soon as the need arises.

4. Diapers may only be changed/removed by caretaker, his/her representatives or with their explicit permission.

5. To ensure proper diaper usage, diapers are only to be changed, if they are either messy or filled to the point of leaking. No diaper changes may be requested before then.

6. Random diaper checks may be performed at all times to avoid leakage and to ensure proper diaper usage. The charge may not interfere with these regardless of the circumstances.

7. To keep the charge regular, the following rules apply:

- The charge has to drink at least 3 liters per day.

- The charge may not eat any salty or unhealthy food, unless with explicit permission of caretaker or representative.

- At least one of the charge´s daily meals has to consist only of baby food.

- If the charge has no proper bowel movement within 24 hours, suppositories, enemas or laxatives are used to relieve the constipation.

- The charge has to consume every meal/drink it is given by caretaker or representative regardless of its taste or its ingredients, unless it conflicts with the dietary requirements or limits established beforehand (e.g. to avoid allergic reactions).

- The caretaker may decide at any time that the charge is not ready to feed himself/herself and may take it upon himself/herself to feed him/her instead. The charge has to submit and may not interfere or protest.

8. Unless otherwise specified, all drinks are to be consumed from baby bottles or sippy cups.

9. Bedtime is at 8 pm, unless otherwise specified. Once put to bed, the charge may not leave it until 6 am the next day unless with explicit permission of caretaker or representative. Noncompliance may be sanctioned with spankings and additional restraints.

10.Whenever the caretaker or a representative is present, the charge may not adjust his/her appearance in any way without explicit permission of caretaker or representative. This includes covering or hiding worn diapers or any other accessories indicating the charge´s babyhood.

(2) Unless otherwise specified, these rules may only be altered or amended by agreement of all parties involved.

§ 7 – Enforced Diaper Training

(1) The caretaker may take appropriate steps to ensure that the charge fully commits to his/her diaper training and gives up any remaining resistance against becoming diaper dependent.

(2) The goal of achieving diaper dependence is to be achieved primary by means of natural unpotty training. Long-term treatment with invasive measures (e.g. catheters, stents, plugs) may only be used as means of last resort, if natural unpotty training has failed due to the charge´s continuing resistance.

§ 8 – Curative Measures

The caretaker may take appropriate steps to keep the charge clean and healthy.

He/she may in particular:

- remove the charge´s pubic hair and excess body hair and take appropriate steps to hinder its regrowth

- prevent masturbation (either by restraints or use of chastity devices)

- administer enemas, prostate massages and other curative measures

- ensure good hygiene (by force if necessary)

- determine the charge´s haircut and hair style

- adjust the charge´s diet to ensure optimal weight and healthy digestion

- take steps to ensure the charge´s physical fitness

§ 9 - Disciplinary Measures

The following punishments may be administered by the caretaker or his/her representatives at their discretion in accordance with the principle of proportionality and the limits set out in this section and in the rest of the agreement:

- Spanking (e.g.: hand, hairbrush, paddle)

> only on bare/diapered bottom and thighs

> no open wounds, no lasting bruises, no long-term harm

- Reflective Punishments, such as

corner time, time out, being send to bed early, writing lines, temporary crib confinement, etc.

- Enemas, Suppositories and Laxatives

> medical limits need to be observed

> goal is to enforce natural bowel movements, not to rely on forced ones

- Bondage, Restraints and Restrictive Clothing, such as

lockable plastic pants/onesies, padded mittens, spreader bars/pants, pacifier gags, cuffs, crib restraints, etc.

- Stricter Rules (temporary)

> This may not alter the nature of the rules set out in this agreement and may only affect their severity (e.g. earlier bedtime, more baby food, less big kid privileges)

> Even this may not interfere with the charge´s professional obligations or other limits set out in this agreement

- Enforced Chastity

> in case of prolonged chastity, prostate massages are to be given when advisable

- Anal Stretching (e.g. buttplugs, stretching rings)

> Bodily damage must be avoided (e.g. caution required in case of hemorrhoids)

> Long-term stretching only if natural unpotty training has failed

- Catheterization

> Bodily damage must be avoided; proper hygiene required

> Long-term catheterization only if natural unpotty training has failed

- Humiliation

> This may not be applied in any manner that would affect the charge´s career or its social standing and has to be done in socially acceptable manner

> possible scenarios (non-exhaustive):

- forced to use diaper in presence of other people

- forced to buy diapers in person while in used diaper

- forced to publish pictures / videos / reports of punishments (without revealing identity or showing name and face)

- forced to announce diaper usage in public

- public outings with diaper partly exposed

- public outings in diaper with punctured outer layer

- public outings while holding enema / after taking laxative

> to minimize risk of detrimental consequences, most scenarios have to take place in locations where the charge is not known

- Prolonged time without diaper changes

> Layers may be added to avoid leaks

> Bodily harm needs to be avoided; proper use of lotions, creams, etc. required

- Other Discomfort Punishments, such as

mouth soaping, diaper fillings (e.g. ice, oatmeal, nettles, etc.), uncomfortable clothes, forced masturbation, etc.

§ 10 – Assessment of Progress

The caretaker may take appropriate steps to assess the progress of the charge´s education and diaper training. At the end of each month, the results and their consequences are to be discussed with the charge, followed by a talk about the plans and milestones set out for the following month. The charge may oppose these only insofar as he/she has legitimate concerns regarding the compliance with the limits set out in this agreement.

§ 11 – Closing provisions

If a provision of this agreement is or becomes legally invalid or if there is any gap that needs to be filled, the validity of the remainder of the agreement shall not be affected thereby. Invalid provisions shall be replaced by common consent with such provisions which come as close as possible to the intended result of the invalid provision. In the event of gaps such provision shall come into force by common consent which comes as close as possible to the intended result of the agreement, should the matter have been considered in advance. Any changes of or amendments to this agreement must be in writing to become effective.

______________________

Charge

______________________

Caretaker

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