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Don’t Settle Just Because The Kinks Line Up

This is something I see on both sides of the slash, mostly from newcomers. You meet someone and start talking about kinks, fetishes, etc. and find out you and this person have almost exactly the same interests in the BDSM arena. The chemistry and excitement make you put up with things that you normally wouldn’t.

But the thing to remember is that first and foremost, a dynamic is a relationship. Take out the kink and look at how you’re being treated. Are you happy when you aren’t doing a scene or having sex? How well does your partner communicate with you? Do they show you they care about you? How do they treat you when an aspect of BDSM isn’t present? If you have to ask yourself how this person feels, then that’s a red flag.

I know some of you have searched for a while to find a person who matches up with your kinks, but there are plenty of people who are into the same things as you. Find someone who can treat you well. The kinks need to come in second place.

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I’d love to be a something to you

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Guess who’s feeling extra touch starved today?

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Okay, but

being called “good girl” after you cum is so fucking great because you get a compliment for literally just feeling amazing

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*clears throat to get everyone’s attention*

What I gotta do to get my tits sucked?!

That is all. Thank you.

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Kinda in the mood to be pulled back against someone’s chest and fingered so they can feel me squirm against them.

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based on your typing style, it's hard to believe you're a top

with my follower demographic, i have to be bottom-passing if i want my jokes to land. [through gritted fucking teeth] akjsbfskjglfk 

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cute things to call your girlfriend

demon queen

mythic bitch

the almighty

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Kind of wish I was smothering someone with my ass while I’m gaming currently.

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if we date, just know I’ll never stop touching you. I’ll play with your hair, your hands, scratch your back, rub your shoulders, your neck, grab your jaw, sit in your lap, hug you, kiss you, everything. all the time. affection is my favorite and I just like to touch you

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Gagging you, to keep you from getting too loud while I drag my knife across the soft flesh of your thigh. The other hand stroking you past the point of no return into where you are too sensitive even for the smallest touch. I lick the tears that run down your cheeks, enjoying every moment I torture you into another mind shattering orgasm. And then another and another, until you are spent and nothing but a shivering cum-covered mess before me. Oh so beautiful.

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Real good stuff: giving a submissive a handjob from behind, keeping them close against you as they wriggle and moan, maybe nibbling on their neck or their ear, whispering to them and telling them they did a good job after they cum

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I have a serious weakness for thigh grabbing and hickeys.

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