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CHEAP outfit ideas for dates (Part 1)

Well since I did start this blog solely for style for sugar babies, but I never did post anything. I was a stylist in my previous life and have been featured on a popular “Sartorialist-type” fashion blog so I feel highly qualified LOL

I like to keep it simple as old men tend to get distracted with trendy outfits. My old SD told me he and his colleagues (who were also SDs) hated when their SBs wore “those damn shoes that look like horse hooves” and I automatically knew what he was referring to: the Jeffrey Campbell Litas *cringe*. Just keep that in mind ladies. Doesn’t mean you have to change the way you dress, but keep in mind most of these men are old school. 

This ensemble is nice for a dinner date. This draped dress cinches in your waist creating an illusion of a smaller waist. Since this is a deep plunge dress I would avoid a necklace to bring any more attention to your bewbs. With the intense black it is a nice change to pair it with nude pumps and gold jewelry with a cute clutch. (IMO nude and gold accessories looks better than nude and silver accessories but that’s personal preference)

Dress: Draped Dress by H&M $17.95

Clutch: Faux Patent Box Clutch by Tasha $28.80

Earrings: Rose Studs (Set of 3 different earrings) By Claire’s $8.50

Shoes: Adeni pumps by Jessica Simpson $35.60

Cost of entire outfit: around $90

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I hate when all POTs do is text and text and text.

1) You are supposed to be a CEO/doctor/lawyer/hedge fund manager and somehow you still find time to text me as much as my broke ass unemployed friends do?

2) I have like 5 pictures up, you don’t need anymore old man.

3) Thanks for telling me how beautiful I am. I know. Compliments don’t pay my bills.

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Being a sugar baby is so glamorized on tumblr. The sex workers here on tumblr are so lovely and accepting but please understand that people in the real world fucking hate us. They think we are free loaders who only accept handouts and don’t work for shit. Don’t think for a second that people on the outside are as open minded as some~ of the people on here.

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Let's talk BUDGETING

Ah yes, the least glamorous part of being a sugar baby, the fiscal responsibility. When many of us get into this lifestyle, we picture living fancy, spending without a care, and getting everything we want. Well, welcome to the real world. My allowance is $5000 a month, and if I bought all of the shoes and bags and clothes my heart desired, I could spend all that money easily. But that would be silly, because as nice as shoes and bags and clothes are, they aren’t the main reason I got into this lifestyle and they certainly won’t pay the bills if I ever get desperate.

The thing is, I suck at budgeting and spending money. I tend to use it up to quickly and then I’m desperate for money around the end of the month. But a SD can drop you on a dime, so this is obviously not ideal. So I’m implementing a strict budget for myself for the year and here’s what I’m doing so you can too.

Set aside half of your allowances- I know, not fun at all. But it’s important to try to save at least half of your allowances. Buy a safe and stash half in there every month. For me, this is my “travel-car-life after college-rainy day” fund. I’m saving towards specific goals, but I also know that money is there should I ever need it.

Give yourself a “weekly allowance”- Take your monthly allowance and break it up into weekly increments, but not just for the month. Try to break it up into 4 months worth of weeks. For example, when I get my $5000, $3000 will go into savings. Then, I’m breaking up the money into 13 envelopes with $125 dollars in each of them, which will last me from now until May. This is my money I can use for groceries, booze, going out with friends, basically anything I need for the week. Is $125 a week glamorous? Not really, but I can comfortably live on it and it gives me 13 weeks to find a new SD if my currant one decides to dump me for whatever reason. I will then add to each weekly folder. So next month, I’ll put another $125 in each of the remaining envelopes, and I’ll have $250 to spend every week. My weekly “goal” is $300, so the month after that I’ll add another $50 to each remaining envelope, then I’ll put $100 in 15 new envelopes to save for summer and repeat.

Budget for Shopping and Big Purchases- If you were paying attention above, you may have realized that 3000+(13x125)=4625, not $5000. That’s because I budgeted $375 to go shopping for the month. Look, shopping is obviously super fun, but walking into a store with your full allowance in hand is just stupid and irresponsible. Bring the amount you budgeted with you and stick to it. Shopping is way more fun when you don’t have “oh no, I shouldn’t have bought all this stuff I wasted so much money” regret. I think ahead to any big purchases I need to make and plan for them. For example, I know I want to get my hair done in March, which is going to be expensive. So I budgeted extra money into March’s “spending” category for that expense.

Roll Your Weekly Money Over- So odds are I won’t be spending my entire weekly budget every single week. What shall one do with this left over money? I’m putting into my “roll-over” envelope, which I will let accumulate. I can do whatever I want with this money. I can add it to the shopping budget for the month, use it to save up for a big purchase, or draw from it (not my savings) if I need a little extra one week.

Get a “bonus” Sugar Daddy for Big Things- Well, technically I already have one, so this is more of a suggestion. To me, a bonus SD is a SD who you see very infrequently, generally due to travel or work. Mine gives me $1500 every time we see each other, which is rare, due to his travel for work, about every 2 months. I view this as “bonus money” and I would use it on a single, large purchase that my monthly budget doesn’t account for, such as a new laptop, phone, expensive bag, etc.

Get you SD to Pay for as Much as Possible- Fucking duh.

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Can we just take a moment to appreciate my humor no one can tell me I’m not funny because he literally called right after I sent that and laughed on the phone for a minute straight.

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With busy millionaires as sugar daddies, I can never ever ask for attention; I can only wait silently for their available timing. And when they show up, I am supposed to be happy and sweet and horny and show no sigh of annoyance, I am after all - their getaway. I am a flawless actress, this is why they want me. (I have like 4 now?) Such is the life of a sugar baby, thoroughly spoilt, privately adored, inconsistent happiness and mostly loneliness. I cannot complain though, I chose this, I wanted my lust and finances taken care of, I do not want love.

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Even though I just started sugaring a couple weeks ago, I’ve decided to give some of these books a read and honestly I feel more confident in my game and getting what I want!

1.) The Power of The Pussy (finished): this book is MANDATORY if you wanna the power that us…

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May our asses get fatter, and our stomachs get flatter.

Amen

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Blog stay lit but nobody fucks with my inbox.

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Not sure why no one likes black POT’s and SD’s. Frankly, I find the ones I have encountered are quite generous. The added plus is they understand why I need to wrap my hair at night and will even grease my scalp when needed. I don’t have to provide any reason for enjoying trap music either. But maybe that’s just me. I’m a spoiled gf of a black SD (although I still have Exec who is white) and my pots are all black and generous. *shrugs* 😎😎

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Mandatory Sugar Tool

For Fresstyling ESPECIALLY.

I’m not sure how many times I have to say this.

GET BUSINESS CARDS.

They’re inexpensive, chic and great supplements while freestyling.

I’ve received so many compliments by men when I tell them to take my business card. 

Tips:

1. Keep it simple.

2. Do not, I repeat DO NOT put your real occupation, address or phone number (you could put your real phone number, but I advise against it). 

3. Keep details to a minimum.

4. Thassit. It’s that simple.

You don’t have to make your cards exactly like mine, but after 5 variations of cards I feel like my most recent one is perfect. My business card lists me as a stylist (I’m not a damn stylist) but it makes men think I like to shop or that I could help them shop (and when you shop with men they usually buy you things too). I even added a quote by a designer to fill it in because it was so plain and empty at first. Like I said earlier, I would recommend keeping your personal life to a minimum on your card. My card lists my nickname (real nickname), my google voice phone number and a recently made up email address.

Here’s an example of what my business card looks like:

Line 1: My name (not my real name)

Line 2: A quote relating to fashion

Line 3: Designer’s name of quote

Line 4: Occupation

Line 5: Phone Number 

Line 6: Email Adress

Again, you do NOT have to make yours exactly like mine. I actually advise against it. 

I purchased my business cards from Staples. 

They have two options: You can have them sent to your home in 3 business days or have them ready at your local Staples store in a few hours to pick up. 

I chose the pick up option which includes 100 cards for $9.99 plus $4.99 for color, which comes out to around $15. 

You can order them here. 

You can also order FREE business cards from Vistaprint (w/out shipping) but I didn’t feel like waiting for shipping for a week or two. But it’s a better option for those on an extremely tight budget. You can order them here. 

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God (and duane reade) is seriously looking out for me rn …

#BLESSED

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