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~ Whitney Hanson

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Someone who loves and respects you will not make you feel ashamed for struggling.

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the thing that i love so much about my relationship is that i feel absolutely zero pressure for us to be in eachother's pockets constantly. not just in the way that we like to have our own space sometimes but that i don't feel guilty for getting fixated on a project and not texting him or leaving him on read for a few hours. we have a system where i just say "i'm so sorry, i fell down the Art Hole again" and he says "that's ok, was the art hole fun, can i see what you did in there?". or if i have a feeling i'm going to draw until late at night i'll be like "pre warning, i might be in the art hole this evening" and when i'm done he's texted me goodnight anyway.

tldr: find someone who doesn't get mad at you for crawling into a hole and instead helps you out of the hole and asks what you saw down there

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@thoughtstherapy

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You can leave a toxic relationship but if you don’t heal what attracted you to them, you will meet them again — the same demon in a different person.

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Which one is your favourite? @thoughtstherapy

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“Why do you beat yourself up so much over little mistakes?”

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being with someone that heals your inner child >>

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An important message to heterosexuals, listen carefully: you do not, and I repeat do NOT, have to marry someone you actively dislike, don't enjoy spending time with and/or whose hobbies you despise. You do not have to do that!! stop doing that!!!