darkbetty98

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Lmao

It be the one who sleep without bed sheets and leftover plates and dirty cups in their rooms trying to give life and relationship lessons on Facebook. You just be looking at their live feed like “This woman is giving advice about keeping her coochie clean but the tempurpedic is brown.” That denotes the process homie. But guess what? She always got someone’s man laying down comfortably on that bed. Damn it lmao.

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Tips for Escorts: Backpage Outcall Dates

So if I’ve learned anything it’s to be very careful obviously, but there are a few tips and tricks I’ve learned doing while this.

#1. Carry a clutch, NOT a purse and ESPECIALLY NOT a cross-body bag. If you have a cross-body bag someone can grab the strap of it since it’s around your body.

#2. Have pepper spray or a taser in your clutch. Preferably pepper spray because that way you don’t have to get so close up on them. But I carried both. I also thought about getting my gun permit.

#3. Always have more than 3 condoms at least. You never wanna get too busy and have to stop and grab condoms. Being on time is important and can sometimes even ensure you get a decent tip.

#4. LUBE. Always have Lube. It’s just stupid not to. Your pussy will hurt if you don’t have it and if you try to give a hand job without it, it’s just bad. Lube makes everything better.

#5. Baby wipes, hand sanitizer, and mouthwash WITH ALCOHOL. Carry this stuff in your car for in between dates. Unscented baby wipes of course. Nothing scented should be down there.

#6. ALWAYS ASK if you’re going to a house, hotel or apartment. If house, ask what type of vehicle will be outside. If hotel, make sure you get the room number before you even start to make your way there (I always did this to make sure they were serious) and if it’s an apartment, get the apartment number. Do everything in advance.

#7. Parking. Once you get there, you gotta park somewhere… but my preference isn’t parking right in front of my clients house unless I have visited them before. I don’t like my first time clients to see what kind of car I drive. If they have a long driveway then that might be an exception, but usually I try to pop up on them. I like to see them before they see me or already be walking up as they open the door. Sometimes you will get those guys who stand outside and wait though. 😂

#8. MONEY UP FRONT. But do NOT call it money. I say something along the lines of “can you lay your donation down please, so we can move on?” Never agree to have sex for money. If it’s a REAL trick who just wants service, he’ll know what’s up and just lay his donation down and you’ll pick it up then proceed to the session. A cop will try to make you incriminate yourself by asking you things directly. If he asks you what you provide, I usually say “full service”.

#9. Protection always. No exceptions. Even with blowjobs! I don’t even feel like I need to elaborate on this one lol

#10. I feel like it’s better to talk on the phone and hear someone’s voice when scheduling a date/session. I always ask age and race. I usually don’t see anyone under 25. But I like to actually talk instead of text, it allows me to feel a person out better hearing their voice rather than just texting.

- might add more later… XOXO sicilianshawty

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This post is so important <3

Morality Issues

So of course, when you enter the sex industry, there are some personal morality issues you have to deal with. Before I ever started sex work, I always respected those in the industry. My mother brought me up teaching me to respect those in the sex industry because she said it was still an honest living. Those in the sex industry earn every dollar they get and it’s an honest living. We’re not stealing or doing bad shit. We earn what we get.

So I never had a negative perception of sex work, and when I was legal, I decided to try sugaring. I was all up for it, I was like Fuck yea, my pussy gon earn me hundreds.

Met my first POT who wanted intimacy on the first date and he said he’d pay 1k so I agreed. Why pass off a thousand? He was around 40 and pretty fat, and he had a really tiny dick. So we had sex, and once we were done, I went to the shower to wash up. I showered for 10mins, and spent another 10 crying. I told myself I couldn’t do it. I couldn’t sleep with such old, disgusting men. I was used to either making love with boys I was in love with or casual sex with hella hot boys who had great bods and pretty faces. I was not used to a fat, older man on top of me, practically crushing me under his belly.

I came out of the shower and he handed me my 1k and I put it away in my purse, kissed him goodbye and left. For 5mins I was happy because I had one fucking thousand bucks in my purse. But that was it. The whole ride back home I bawled my eyes out because I felt so disgusted. That week I got a huge bout of depression that lasted a few days ( I deal with clinical depression and I get episodes that last from a few days to a month and they get pretty scary at times ). 

I gave up sugaring for a month. End of the month I was broke and I told myself this is what I had to do to survive and I went back, this time with a huge pep talk and a stronger mindset, and I came out okay. I was okay.

Fast forward a few months now, and this doesn’t affect me at all anymore. I actually have fun with this and treat it as a little game. So don’t you worry if you feel like throwing up after you meet your very first SD. We’ve all been there. You’re gonna get over it and you’re gonna slay in your own time. Heads up babygirl and take your time to strengthten yourself so you can hustle and earn those big bucks you deserve :)

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