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The way a Bachelors degree is the equivalent to a written recommendation from a former store manager at a Circuit City now. Just nuke us already fuck.

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The way a Bachelors degree is the equivalent to a written recommendation from a former store manager at a Circuit City now. Just nuke us already fuck.

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I’d like to live through a week that’s not a whole new verse of “We Didn’t Start the Fire.”

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found this cool branch in the woods. i want to mount it but i need to make sure it's clean before i nail it anywhere.

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i hope luigi mangione is proven innocent & gets to sue a ton of companies for slander and win & i hope he gets enough money to rebuild his life and get any help for his chronic pain that he needs & i hope he’s able to disappear from the public eye entirely if that’s what he wants

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going forward i will only consume problematic media

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"the sex is binary, it's biological reality"

and then you need to enforce it's reality by mutilating infants' bodies without their knowledge and consent with mostly cosmetic goals*

and then you need to enforce it's reality by having gender mark in every possible document

and then you need to change this mark back and forth if the intersex person "falls away" of their assignment too much and it's more convenient to push them in other box

and then you need to enforce it reality by pushing childrens and adults on "treatments" of their intersex variations by fearmongering, coercion, and/or blatant lie (or without their knowledge at all)

and then you need to enforce it's reality by hiding their own medical history from intersex people

and then you need to enforce it's reality by artificially lowering the statistics of intersex variations' frequency

and then you need to enforce it's reality by selective abortions of intersex fetuses

and then you need to enforce it's reality by giving people no opt-out of it

and then you need to enforce it's reality by gatekeeping transition as much as possible

and then you need to enforce it's reality by refusing to add any way of opting-out a bit, like neutral gender marks, ban of unnecessary surgeries on infants and using active monitoring instead, etc.

if you need to ban back and forth to protect "reality," you aren't protecting reality. you're just trying to push people in your wrong narrative.

*some variations cause things that require immediate intervention, but 1) not all variations, only some; 2) immediate intervention should solve acute problem, and not focus on cosmetic part and tries to create binary-looking genitals

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A gentle reminder 🌈🤍

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If you think that transandrophobia popped up as a term because trans men didn’t like being called out for transmisogyny…

I think you’ve not read a damn thing we’ve been saying. You’re taking second-hand accounts of what we’re saying as fact.

Transandrophobia existing as a concept does not say that trans men cannot be transmisogynistic or cannot be misogynistic.

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"transmascs should be the protectors of the trans community" "transfems should be the mothers of the trans community" no we fucking shouldn't. stop trying to make extremely marginalized people responsible for your well-being. why should we be held responsible for protecting and nurturing others when we can barely keep ourselves alive

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You still deserve care, support, and respect - no matter where you are on your gender journey.

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something vindictive but ultimately harmless I do at work is that if you’re at my register and you’re rude to me and you pay with cash I am finding the most disgusting desolate fucked up unspeakable coin I can to give to you. oh you were mean to me? you’re getting the yucky nickel bitch

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people get mad at you for calling your experiences «transandrophobia», saying what it really is is «misdirected misogyny» or «lesbophobia» or just general transphobia.

but as soon as you say «I just experienced misogyny» they get mad, say you’re misgendering yourself to take advantage of being seen as a poor little girl

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still thinking about that r/hypotheticalsituation post where someone was like "what if a potato chip spawned somewhere randomly in the world. and every hour the number of potato chips at that location would double. and the only way to get rid of them for good would be to eat all of the potato chips before they doubled again." and someone calculated that it would only take like, 48 hours of people ignoring a weird pile of potato chips before an absolutely irreconcilable number of potato chips was blanketing a city.

and then people were like "no wait if it spawns randomly in the world, it's highly likely it would be in an ocean" and then people were debating whether there were enough small fish swimming at the surface in the open ocean that would be able to eat a potato chip and thus save humanity from the potato chip apocalypse.