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hey this is the worst thing. ive ever seen,

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they fantasize about being oppressed. next question

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@ all girls coming to terms w not being straight: i love u, i am proud of u, there is nothing gross or wrong about liking/loving other girls and u are brave and valid and good

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who else is gayer than anticipated

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tbh ace discourse is so distressing to me bc like. i highly doubt inclusionists even understand what the lgbt community is all about? 

like ive seen inclusionists legit ask what resources cishet aro/ace people and cis aroace people could ~~supposedly~~ steal and like. do you know why there are lgbt homeless shelters? like has it even crossed your mind why lgbt people cant go to standard shelters? its bc wed get kicked out in the best case scenario and get assaulted or murdered in the worst case. who is gonna kick someone out of an homeless shelter bc they dont feel sexual attraction?

the same goes for lgbt scholarships, hotlines and so on. we need these resources bc cishets either dont give a shit about us or they want us dead.

and the lgbt community and the ace community also have extremely different goals. i support the ace community. i think we should make people aware of informed consent, we should talk about the sexualization found in our society, about how sex and romance arent the only things that make us human and people can live a happy life without them. but the lgbt community isnt the place where to do it.

listen. for lgbt people sex is often a demonized aspect of their lifes. homophobic sexual jokes; ‘predatory gay man/lesbian/trans person’ stereotypes;  equating gay relationships with sexual intercourse;  sexual harassment suffered especially by wlw’ the slut shaming suffered by bi, pan and poly people; corrective rape; ‘love the sinner hate the sin’ mentality, are all things the lgbt community is supposed to be free of. now i hope you understand why, for someone struggling to see their sexual attraction as something good and normal, in the only safe haven they have, having somebody preach that ‘not feeling sexual attraction is ok!’, is downright disrespectful and hurtful, even tho its a valid statement.

the lgbt community and the ace community can be allied, but we cannot be united, and thats not hate speech, thats just me caring for my own.

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this is from 2011 but i dont think ive EVER seen something more emblematic of the ace community than this comment.

someone’s literally HOPING that people come up with a violent slur that (somehow) hurts aces in a way that’s comparable to the n or f slur…… just so they can eventually reclaim it. like literally fantasizing about being oppressed JUST so they can have a cool and edgy word to use for themselves….. incredible?

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holy fucking shit ???¿¿¿

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imagine being. this stupid.

Full offense but if you think aces are just celibate heterosexuals, have low libido, or are just trying to sound cool online, please go away forever and don’t follow this blog. They’re in the LGBTQA, that’s…. Literally what the A is for.

Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Questioning Asexual

Like. That’s literally what the full acronym is.

And it’s so wild that I actually had to physically watch this site switch from “the A is for asexual! Keep straights out of our spaces!” to “the A is for ally! No cishets allowed!” like that doesn’t even make sense what do they think allies are????

It’s also really sick that they literally use the same arguments as biphobes and TERFs with their whole “straight passing” and “AS AN LGBT PERSON I THINK-” thing they have going on there. So yeah, aphobes can kiss my ass, especially the ones who act like they speak for all LGBT people and claim aces benefit from straight privilege despite living in a very sex-driven society where you’re seen as broken if you aren’t sexually attracted to anyone.

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if this ace bitch in my friend group doesnt shut the fuck up about being ace, i will scream. nobody cares, debra.

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voidfire i fucking hate you dont touch my shit

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hey ackee if u ever feel like picking i wanna know what ur top 3 to 5 WORST acecourse posts are

(in no particular order)

5) “mike pence is gonna put all the aces, aros and demisexuals in concentration camps!”

4) all those posts comparing petty internet discourse to groups that actually go out of their way to kill and oppress marginalized communities (aka “aphobes are just like terfs/nazis/donald trump supporters”)

3) AIDs jokes in general

2) “allo/ace kids are valid”

1) “i can understand why people are afraid of gay people, since they’re more likely to rape others than aces”

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don’t ever let someone tell you that you’re less of your identity because you’re also asexual. being asexual doesn’t change the attraction you do feel.

being bi and ace doesn’t make you any less bi

being gay and ace doesn’t make you any less gay

being straight and ace doesn’t make you any less straight

don’t let anyone tell you that your identity is just a “watered down” version of someone who’s non-ace. you’re just as bi, gay, or straight as any other bi, gay, or straight person

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abrosexual- attracted sexually to a bro. just one. a single bro. The Bro.

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green olives...are the best....tf

Food discourse: All olives are bad

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also its ""racist"" because women of color are always coddling and woobying at dainty white girls but u never see white girls doin the same to women of color..

how is the drawing of a trans man fetishizing??? trans men with large chests exist lmao. also how is it racist. for fareeha. to give mercy.. a compliment on her beret????? how much did you have to warm up those muscles before you reached that far

*rubs eyebrows* if you actually knew the artist who drew the trans man you would that they are OBSESSED with his boobs, talks about them nonstop and constantly draws him into in skimpy outfits and topless. Plus his proportions are ridiculously exaggerated despite yah know, being a fucking human being. No one else has this problem except another character whom the artist headcanons as a trans woman and she’s drawn and huge and ape-ish

And really? You think my biggest problem with the pharah drawing is that she complimented mercy? DO YOU NOT SEE HER FUCKED UP PROPORTIONS?????????? Mercy has her regular body type and pharah (despite being shown to be around mercy’s height and thin) is drawn to be a head taller with wide shoulders and huge muscles.

God anon you’re one hell of a dumbass

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I love it when people say some things are “just tumblr discourse” when they’re irl problems