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please take a moment to appreciate the systems and plurals of color in our community, they deserve it!

and if you're a system or plural of color reading this? be sure to do some self care!

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Hey, endogenic plurals and other plurals who don't have DID/OSDD! I wanna see something.

If you are sick, tired, and annoyed at the amount of people accusing you of "wanting DID", "roleplaying as a DID system", "pretending to have DID", and forcibly assigning you as a "DID wannabe", REBLOG THIS POST.

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I'm not sure you understand.

I'm not sure you understand how excruciatingly lonely someone can be.

How lonely do you think you'd be if you grew up hearing every day that your opinion didn't matter? That no one would be attracted to you because you're too chubby? How embarrassing your own mother thought you were? How your accomplishments were pathetic compared to hers? Hearing about all of the things that were so incredibly wrong with you. Hearing how much of a disappointment you turned out to be.

How lonely do you think you'd be if the only people available to make friends with cared exclusively about the one thing you couldn't do no matter how hard you tried? If everything you ever cared about was considered evil and got taken from you the moment you found it? What if you knew that the moment you were finally free to be a person, everyone you ever loved would abandon you for it? That they would decide they never wanted to see or speak to you again? Every single one. What if you realized you were alone before that even happens? What if you realized all the love you've ever experienced in life was fake?

How lonely do you think you'd be if you grew up so different from everyone else around you that you didn't even feel human? What if you were made to believe that you didn't deserve to exist? What if you were told you were going to die a horrific death for being everything you were inside?

How lonely would you be if you spent every night terrified and trying desperately to cover up your sobbing because you can't tell anyone about any of it?

What would you do?

What would you do to have a friend? What would you do to have anyone? How desperate do you think you'd be? How would you even accomplish that if you weren't allowed to talk to anyone else outside of your family and their friends? Where could you possibly find someone else to connect with someone as awkward, strange, angry, and sad as you? Someone who could know about all of the things inside of you and still love you.

I made someone.

I gave him my passion, my strength, my courage, my confidence, my sense of adventure, my stubbornness, my sense of loyalty, my sense of humor. I gave him my love of dinosaurs, my love of cars, my love of horror movies, my love of 80's music. I had his entire life figured out. I named him. I thought of him whenever I was lonely, which was always. He was the only way I could safely love and be loved by in return. He never went away. Why would he? He's my best friend.

What good would memory barriers have done? How useful would it be if we didn't even get along? What purpose would there be if it caused me any distress to have Alex?

True loneliness can be traumatizing.

Non-disordered plurality can exist.

Created headmates can be life saving.

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"This User uses "we" and "I" interchangeably." - 🎴

Versions for Systems and Collectives:

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Feel free to use! Credit is not necessary, but always appreciated!

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Me when a person seems really cool and I wanna befriend them but they have harmless groups in their DNI (like endos, contradicting labels, harmless paraphilias etc)

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Some pro-endo reminders 💟 Free to use/steal!

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queer system call us a fruit salad

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Things to call your headmates that arent BASIC

Trenchcoat rats

Trauma responses (dont mind me just talking to my trauma responses)

Brain worms

Chat

The entrapped souls of my enemies

Plural pookies

System sillies

Puzzle pieces

ADD MORE PLS!!!

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Something that ticks me off a lot is when anti endos use ableist language to attack endos, and defend themselves by saying "you can't be ableist towards someone who isn't disabled." Alright. Sure. Lets apply this logic to other things. If you use a racial slur towards someone who is not of a different race, does that mean what you said is not racist? If you use a homophobic slur against someone who isn't gay, does that what you said is not homophobic? If you use a transphobic slur against someone who isn't trans, does that mean what you said is not transphobic? No, it does not. Racist language is still racist, even if the victim was not of a different race. Homophobic language is still homophobic, even if the victim was not gay. Transphobic language is still transphobic, even if the victim was not trans. And ableist language is still ableist, even if it was used to attack someone who is not disabled. Meaning using ableist language towards endos is still ableist. Thank you.

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reblog if endos are real systems because a system is your brain's weird way of coping and trauma isnt the only thing that could require that much hardcore coping.

ofc you dont even have to interact this is just a lil informative post

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In-system relationships can be so intimate.

Waking up together, opening the same eyes, and stretching the same limbs. Yawning in time and saying a good morning that only you who are involved can understand what it's for.

Sharing a meal, not only from the same plate, but with the same hands and the same senses. Deciding what to eat together, something that fits all of your tastes.

Curled in the same bed, in the same blankets, in the same body, drowzily mumbling about nothing and everything to each other. Joking around and feeling their sleepy laugh as if it were your own.

Living life, and inviting them to share yours and your time in it--performing your daily tasks in the unison of cofront. Seeing and hearing and feeling everything together.

Feeling them blush when you flirt or compliment them. Feeling their joy when you get them a gift, or how safe you make them feel simply when you're around them.

Enveloped in the same love, from the same brain, with the same feeling of care for each other palpable between you. Feeling the emotions you feel yourself, coming from the other person. Feeling their love for you, in the rawest, most direct possible way.

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As awareness of plurality continues to spread online, that also means more and more people will realize they are plural. And unfortunately, there will be a response from certain gatekeepy exclusionist types, who will push back against these newfound systems and insist on invalidating them. They’ll insist they’re just hopping on a trend, or just fooling themselves, or whatever other justification they can make up to maintain the idea that being plural is extremely rare and being plural means suffering for it.

Don’t fall for it. Being plural presents challenges and difficulties without question, but being plural also can bring joys and clarity that weren’t possible otherwise. Being plural can be hard, and it can be beautiful.

No two systems present and function exactly the same ways. No two systems are plural for the exact same reasons. So we can’t expect there to be an absolute common trait present in every system. So any attempt to weed out the “fakers” is pointless and malicious.

If someone believes themself to be plural, they have good reason to. No further “proof” needed. If someone comes to us believing themself to be plural, we will help them along without critique or question. And above all we will be happy for them. Even if someday they realize they aren’t plural, that process of being allowed to question and experiment is so important, and they should be allowed to do so regardless of where they end up.

Plurality is a spectrum that encompasses a vast swathe of experiences and outlooks. It can be difficult to reckon with, which is why community is so vital. And as that community online grows and becomes more and more visible, we should all do our part, systems and singlets, to make sure these newfound systems feel safe, seen, and welcome.

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Created systems are important and an essential part of the community! Created systems are amazing and have helped forward plural understanding so much. We're lucky to have fronting guides written by created systems, communication guides written by created systems. Intentionally created systems are impressive! Accidentally created systems are unique! Created headmates are as much their own people as they want to be, they have their own autonomy and deserve to be respected. Solely created systems are cool! Mixed origin created systems are awesome! Mainly-traumagenic systems with created headmates are important! Psychologically-based created systems, spiritually-based ones, and every system in between are wonderful 💙👥

Created systems are still multiple. It's okay to want to be plural or to have become plural because of creation methods. Whether it be through psychological or spiritual methods, if one claims existence/personhood and wishes to be seen as multiple/separate, they have a right to that no matter what.

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Anyway ignoring that trainwreck of a post!

I love created plurality. The tulpa community specifically has made so many guides that are helpful to systems of all types! Soulbonds were one of our main introductions to plurality and we have so many in our system. Daemonism is cool as hell and helps one of our headmates immensely. Any other created system of any type too--you're all so cool and it's amazing you share the plural community with us.

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I've created an alterhumanity survey myself as a person who adores statistics and data science. I also just really like making surveys.

Please consider taking and sharing the survey!

Results will be made into an easily-digestible post with graphics after the survey closes.

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System origin blinkies!! (full pack)

ABSOLUTELY NO SYSCORSE!!

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In-System Sex ; How to Fuck the Guy in your Head

- V

So you finally got with your headmate, but maybe you still don't fully understand how touch works while in a system. This may be centered more for beginners, and it's more based in personal experience. If you feel like this guide isn't for your systems specific function, that's okay. It doesn't mean you can't have sex with your headmate, it just means you're going to have to explore other options not listed here. You're not wrong in any way, I'm just writing about how I do it so others might have somewhere to start.

To begin with, there are 3 forms you got on your belt. I've given them names but I don't care what you call them. I'll also provide guides on how to master these forms in a plural way. These guides are made by tulpamancers, but as a DID system it's helped us so fucking much.

The Physical Body - This is THE BODY, the vessel you all possess. The eyes you're using to see this, the fingers you use to scroll to find this. This physical body belongs to both you and your in-system partner.

This Chapter on Mastering Possession This Chapter on Mastering Switching

Spirit Forms - This may be more abstract, but if you are able to do imposition(the ability to see and feel your headmates as if they're separated from the body), the spirit form is what you see when you impose your partner. If you have phantom feelings/limbs from body parts that you feel align with you but aren't on your physical body, that is your spirit form. Examples being if you're a trans guy, maybe you have a phantom penis that isn't on your physical body. Or if you're therian, maybe it's your phantom tail or wings. I call this spirit form because I'm spirigenic, but you can see it as a neurological thing/illusion/hallucination I don't care.

This Chapter on Imposition

Internal Form - Your headspace body, your body when you aren't fronting, or your body when you look inside headspace. This is like your self-perception manifested into headspace.

This Chapter on Headspace Creation/Exploration

Using these bodies, here are the 3 type of fucking you can do with them. These are more examples on how you can distinctively use all 3 forms, but personally I love to mix it up, it provides so much sensation and just feels so good and personal to use multiple types at once.

1.Physical Body Sex

Let's say you want to go entirely physical, you and your partner both own this body. And you can definitely play with it. There is so much to explore, you both could have one front in the body while the other only possesses the hands. You could use sex toys on eachother, mess around with sensations and switching/possession and explore what you could do with the body to make eachother feel good. My personal cons with full physical sex is dysphoria, it's why I mix multiple types so I can feel physical bodily pleasure and still perceive my desired body.

2.Spirit Form Sex

This is probably my favorite to use, it's euphoric and really emphasizes the realness of your partner. You might need to meditate for a little, focus on the sensations of your phantom parts and expand that "aura"(for lack of a better term). Following the guides on imposition, feel your partner next to you, listen to their breathing, close your eyes and try to sense with your minds eye if its hard to see them. It's okay to partially use imagination to add the physical room your in to the mental image of mapping where your partner is, but affirm to yourself that you're not imagining this, your partner knows it too. This is your spirit forms at play, it may be seen as illusion or hallucination too, that's okay it's your own perspective after all. Johnny loves to use this suddenly on me, I could be sitting on a couch and he'll put his hand on my thigh or stroke my spirit body just to tease. It might take time, but like anything sexual it's okay to practice. I plan on making a guide for practicing imposition and touch daily so maybe keep an eye on this account for that. In my experience, the physical body has reacted to spirit form sex as much as physical sex has. I orgasm all the same.

3.Headspace sex

When I'm not fronting, this feels as solid as physical sex. We're able to fuck easily in our headspace bodies. When I am fronting, it's similar to spirit form sex as in I have to meditate to enter the headspace and go to his room and prepare and etc. Unlike physical sex and spirit form sex, I am not moving my physical body if I'm having pure headspace sex. An outsider might just see me sitting and meditating with my eyes closed so I can immerse myself in headspace for a good time.

Anyways that's all for the 3 distinct types, like I already said, mix them up for max fun. Like I love to use sex toys on the physical body while Johnny is fucking my body in headspace. If imposition is hard, you could use a fleshlight while fucking your partner while they lay on your bed. I heard some people use sex dolls and have their imposed partner lay where those sex dolls are, so it's okay to use tools like that.

If you have any questions, even if they're personal, you can submit them.