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STATISTICS

FULL NAME : Deepti Bhandari ALIAS : AGE : 34 DATE  OF  BIRTH : January 5th, 1989 HOMETOWN : Dehli, India TIME IN EAST HAVEN : Since 2005 RESIDENCE : Claret Park FACECLAIM : Deepika Padukone trigger warning: huntington disorder, bullying

EDUCATION : Business and Management OCCUPATION : Co-Owner and Manager at House of Dehlicasies GENDER : Cis-Female PRONOUNS : She/Her SEXUALITY : Bisexual RELATIONSHIP STATUS: Single HAIR COLOUR : Brown/Black EYE  COLOUR : Hazel brown HEIGHT : 5'7" /171 cm BUILD : Slim ACCENT : American with a hint of Indian LANGUAGES : Hindi, English, Punjabi Urdu TATTOOS : Butterfly tattoo on her neck SCENT: Olympea by Paco Rabanne. ZODIAC : Capricorn LOVE LANGUAGE : Words of affirmation, quality time. CLOTHING: Classy, Business Chique HAIR STYLE:  ( x )

CONDITIONS : Huntington Syndrome ALLERGIES : Strawberries EXERCISE HABITS : Yoga and Pilates SLEEPING HABITS : Uses two pillows and a side pilow, side sleeper. ADDICTIONS : None DRUG  USE : None ALCOHOL USE : Occasionally

POSITIVE  TRAITS : Clever, Hard-working, mature NEGATIVE TRAITS : Resentful, blunt, distant PHOBIAS : Athazagoraphobia FEARS : Starting to forget HOBBIES : knitting, puzzles, pilates HABITS : mimicks sounds on the radio or tv. USUAL DEMEANOUR : Composed.

FATHER : Zahir Bhandari MOTHER : Jiya Bhandari SIBLINGS : four siblings. PARTNERS : None CHILDREN : None PETS : None.

BIOGRAPHY

Deepti was born in a loving family back in busy Dehli. Her father Zahir, took over the reins of his family restaurant that he ran with his wife, Jiya. Her parents were barely in their twenties when Deepti was born, bringing much joy and happiness to their family, which only grew from that point. Deepti is able to say she counts four siblings, which made for a crowded and very crowded household. In Dehli, Deepti remembers having been the most happy. Looking back fondly to the festivals, the temples she visited with her family. The community and way of life was one she thought she would never have to miss. But when she was sixteen, Deepti’s parents decided to move out of the country for political reasons, and she had to say goodbye to her dear Dehli.

They settled down in Providence Peak, Colorado. A place that barely resembled her old neighbourhood, her own home. Her father had made enough with his restaurant that they were able to settle in a house large enough for the seven of them, even starting a new restaurant within the town’s center: the House of Dehlicasies, a name chosen by her brother who always did love a good pun. Having to finish ‘high school’ in the USA was strange to say the least, and after discussion between her parents and the school she, along with her other siblings, would have to redo a whole year to acclimatize to their new surroundings. Deepti didn’t mind, feeling rather overwhelmed by everything and everyone. Having to survive in the American system definitely hardened Deepti, who along with her siblings were often the target for bullying due to their accents, the fact they had their father’s homemade cooking to school and the fact they weren’t as sharp to American customs and sayings as their peers were. Going to college, Deepti definitely adjusted, standing her ground and not letting anything drag her down. She didn’t have a lot of friends but the few she did create are ones to last a lifetime.  

Deepti graduated college in a degree for business and management, always having been great with schedules and numbers. She worked for numerous of companies through her life; ranging from law firms to an accountant firm and even for the government at some point, which is where she met Lewis Negan, a gallant officer in the U.S. Army who swept Deepti off her feet. Out of the flings and short relationships she had, she never pictured herself to be able to fall as hard as this. It didn’t take them long to get engaged, getting him as far as to want to settle in Providence Peak so she could be close with her family, which was a good call.

Her mother began to forget things, and not in a way where she couldn’t find her keys or mixed up the names of her children, but important chunks of information. When the twitching in her hand started, Zahir took her to the hospital where she was diagnosed with Huntington’s disease. This being an inherited disorder, Zahir and Jiya brought their children up to speed as soon as possible, leaving it to each of them to get tested or not. Deepti decided to do so, and was faced with the horrible truth that she was indeed a carrier of the mutation, meaning that she would start showing symptoms between 35 and 55 years old. Being thirty-four, Deepti felt her clock had begun to ran out at a rapid pace. She hoped for the support of her Lewis, but not being able to deal with the idea of having to take care of his wife at an early age, Lewis decided to end their engagement and left Providence Peak.

For the last year, Deepti has put her energy into renovating her home that she now inhabits alone. She’s also quit her job so that she can help her father run the restaurant and is working there fulltime so he can spend time with his wife. Deepti has definitely become bitter about the newfound information of her health and the inevitable ending of her life. Why make memories when in the end she will forget them after after all? With her 35th birthday coming closer, Deepti definitely feels like she is spiraling.

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