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something i’ve kind of noticed with the surfacing of this whole “the best smut is a character study” kind of mindset is the pipeline to a borderline “when i write porn i do it intellectually unlike some of you SICKOS” type of mindset and i just wanted to remind you especially in our current political atmosphere that writing porn doesn’t have to be intellectual to have value. it can be just horny. thanks

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before modern surgical and chemical abortion methods were pioneered, one older method of abortion was sticking a foreign object (such as bark) into the vaginal cavity and leaving it there until it caused an infection that hopefully aborted the pregnancy. this often resolute in complications such as sepsis, permanent reproductive harm and death for the individual seeking the abortion. that is why people saying things like “well, they had abortion back then too” on my post about historical infanticide is irritating me. they did. the abortion methods were often horrendously dangerous or ineffective. limiting abortion access only limits safe abortions.

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Dudes will be like “50/50 custody should be automatic” solely because they don’t want to pay child support and then they get 50/50 custody and HAVE to take care of their kids 50% of the time AND pay child support because they made their ex be a SAHM and then they’re sobbing and crying and throwing up about that too. It is just bizarre to me how many of these anti-child support crusaders have no idea how child support works. Know your enemy. Dudes who have never done the bulk of the child care going for primary custody out of spite and a desire to pay no child support and then immediately regretting it always cracks me up too. Primary custody is more labor intensive and financially draining than just paying the goddamn child support but they’ll do anything to avoid coughing up $100 a week so their kid has shoes.

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people interrupting me while i talk and yell about overthrowing the government is one of my triggers. can we not do that #thanks

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The thing about growing up with undiagnosed autism is that you’re a bad kid. And you don’t know how to stop being a bad kid. But you’re pedantic, you hate hugs, you’d rather be alone than attend a family gathering, you play by yourself instead of with friends or family, you make mealtime impossible, you can’t even look your parents in the face, you lie to get out of going to school and when you’re there you complete your assignments correctly but in a way that is somehow inherently wrong. You’re wrong. There is something wrong with you and you can’t identify it or fix it. You can’t begin to explain it. You pull for justifications and apologies. You were a bad kid and there was nothing you could do to be better.

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Grantaire-core

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Heterosexual relationship culture is so alien to me and I don’t know if it’s the fact I’m not cishet or the fact I’m autistic but I hear so many things that make me go “Am I insane or are they?”

There’s a lot of hate on widowers and I saw a woman say “You cannot compete with a dead woman.” which is perhaps a reasonable statement to say if he’s constantly comparing you to his dead partner but that wasn’t what the post was about. And I realized “Oh my God, these people genuinely feel like they’re constantly in competition with their spouse’s exes and the ex being dead makes them feel insecure that they cannot best her.”

There’s also been an uptick in the ‘men and women cannot be ‘just’ friends’ rhetoric which I feel like is extremely dangerous and reflects the rise of fascism and sexism. Some of these stories of women feeling threatened by their husband’s female best friend have some merit and others are like “I feel angry that my husband still talks to the girl he grew up next door to and she and her wife are invited to family gatherings and included in family photos sometimes. Am I right to be suspicious?” No. No you’re not. I cannot imagine being you and living with that high level of stress and paranoia and constant torment and jealousy about your husband having a positive relationship with anyone who isn’t you.

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for anyone in the UK, needing to access discord and unable or unwilling to provide an ID:

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Disney Hades: I have literally nothing in common with the god I’m based on, I’m a sassy villain OC

PJO Hades: I’m evil edgy bad guy oooo scary and I’m a terrible husband to Persephone and a terrible father to my illegitimate demigod children

Hadestown Hades: My wife is mad because I did a capitalism

Kaos Hades: I’m an old British man who’s drowning in paperwork. My wife is the only thing keeping me afloat

Stories From Styx Hades: I’m a chill guy who gets on with his job and loves his wife

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every time I post about how much I hate my period some dumbass terf gets mad about my "internalized misogyny" for "hating my natural woman body" so periodic reminder that I'm a cis woman and I hate my period, my uterus can eat shit, and I'd flush my ovaries down the toilet given half an opportunity fuck this shit 🖕🖕🖕

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“my teenage child is so selfish” is an interesting thing I only see online moms say about their daughters. I’ve never seen one say it about their son. I think it’s because daughters enter the teenage years and begin developing critical thinking skills and independence and it enrages these parents who were using their kids as their own little therapists and unpaid domestic laborers.

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@milkieeteaa

dont tell any of my friends or mutuals but....their ocs are really cool.................