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The truth is that it’s been possible to prove they’ve been stalking me since 2015. People helping them for years have been trying to do things to suggest it’s me, and a lot of people having been trying to make it look true in various ways, but I have never stalked them, and I can prove that it was them based on things that were happening very early into it all. so why haven’t I gone to police? because the information needed to prove it is locked behind privacy barriers that I can’t access, and I couldn’t get near them because they were defaming me that it was me stalking them. Which in case people act like I’m lying, the one person said something to me in direct conversation in 2015 that suggested they were definitely trying to make me think that one of them thought I was stalking them. They moved from different parts of another country together and they moved within several blocks of my house, and I had never told any of them where I lived, as in my exact address. They could have had a general idea, the country where I lived, the province and the city, and maybe even a general area, but that general area would have been too vague and would have spanned a long distance, and they “guessed” exactly where I was. A handful of them were living near my house in 2015. Why is this important? Because they didn’t come from the same exact place, it meant they had to coordinate to all end up in the same place together, which meant that it was pre-planned, which meant it was definitely them stalking me. They also knew who I was before they moved near me, and they moved very close to MY house in the country, province, and city that I lived in. They could have moved anywhere else in the entire country and yet somehow ended up right next to me. My family had been shopping regularly at a store since I was 6 years old. We still went shopping together every month. One of the people who were stalking me, since it was a group of people and not just one person, followed a family member and I to that grocery store with one of their other friends, and I saw both of them. I had never seen them there before, and that one person had told me they were from another country and which part of that country they were from. I couldn’t have been stalking them there, since my family had been shopping at that grocery store since before that person would have even been in our country. That person is younger than I am, so they have lied about their age to me in direct conversation and to other people before. I saw them say their actual age in 2013 or 2014 online. There was more than just their age they’ve lied about. They’ve lied about their family, where they lived, and what they looked like, too. They told me they were moving within their own country, not to my own, so they lied to me in a direct conversation about where they were living. They also lied about their boyfriend’s real name, and because they didn’t lie to me about their own name I was able to figure out who they were and that they were stalking me. I never once lied to them or hid who I was, and I had no idea they were people I already knew until after we all stopped talking. They could have recognized my name when I told them and not once did they ever say anything about knowing who I was already. The reality is that, I only got to know them because they were already stalking me, and I had met some of them elsewhere, and if they hadn’t been stalking me, than I never would have gotten to know and met 3 of their friends, all three of which I have seen in my own country, and all three of which had all told me they were from another country. I saw pictures of all three of them, and one of them gave me their cellphone number when we were still friends. I never once called them, but I was able to look up the area code to prove that they, specifically, did not lie to me about where they were from. I can prove that one person followed me from another country. What about the others? Can I prove any of the others were truly from another country? Yes. One of them posted a news article they were in. The news article was not criminal in nature so the writer was able to truthfully write the person’s real legal name, which country and part of that country they were from, and their real age as of the date the article was posted. They posted that themselves and confirmed it was them by saying it was them, so that alone helped to prove they were not from my country. I had already learned their legal name from our mutual friend’s Facebook account and I had even messaged them since I suspected they had come to my house. Turns out they didn’t, but they were still here with the two people who did come to my house. One of which was the boyfriend of a person who was trying to prove I was stalking them and getting their police officer buddy to follow me around to do so. That person specifically bought a specific item with their credit or debit card when they stalked me and my family member, and then afterward they applied to a job there after they saw us there, and they got the job. They proceeded to come out of the back room to follow us onto the floor, and the police officer buddy they knew would follow us there as if we were the problem. My family had shopped there since I was little, and there are a handful of people who can say truthfully they knew we shopped there frequently before 2015. That’s relevant because I’m pretty sure that person was trying to convince their co-workers and other people that I was there stalking them. I was not. They told people and I got falsely accused of stalking them by what seemed to me to be total strangers for years. They would use words like “loner” to imply it was me since I have no friends like the people who stalked me did and do. Their boyfriend did the same thing, just for a different company, they did the same manipulative action, applying for a job at our bank and then trying to help their girlfriend convince people that we were stalking them. Another of their friends did the same thing with another place we frequented, and I never learned where that person lived as far as I’m aware. I only saw that last person there at that company once and never again. I wouldn’t have met 3 of them if they hadn’t already been stalking me online. In a game they made a guild and they invited me to it, and I had no idea they were people I already knew, and they never told me when I was still friends with them. They humiliated me by not telling me who they were, and I am convinced they lied about the one person I could identify so I wouldn’t know who they were to know they were stalking me. The problem was that I think they didn’t know I knew the names of two of them who were there, two people I didn’t get to know until after they started stalking me. I had met those people elsewhere, and they had gone by names that I saw people calling them publicly. The one person had that name in their Facebook page when I added them and they had been called that openly in a public forum where I had been part of the same public community, and the other I saw got called by their name one time by one of their friends in that forum when they were telling people in 2014 about how one of their parents died. I didn’t realize it was the same person, I had assumed it was just a coincidence that the name was the same, I didn’t really think about it until odd things kept happening to me all the time, and strangers were commenting toward me like they knew me even though I had never seen their usernames before. I had found that person whose boyfriend was also stalking me through their boyfriend’s Facebook before they started dating, since their boyfriend and I had been friends since 2012 or 2013. They told me themselves that they started dating for the first time on the first day they met in 2014, and that they moved in together immediately. That is what they told me, and I know they’ve tried to convince people they started dating “for the first time” years later, which wasn’t true. They have changed their legal names since 2015, but they are very distinct in appearance and are hard to mistake. They are also highly intelligent and are good at mimicking people. I have seen them play dumb before, and they’re very convincing at it. They moved close to me again and only in the past while moved away. I had seen her walking in front of my house, and I saw a detail about her appearance that can help to identify her. Another person said they were on a t.v show which had their face on it. That person said which country they were from and that person was also in my country. It’s been provable that they were and have been stalking me since 2015. Most of the times they’ve stalked me were cyberstalking, but the fact that they were ever in my country living here to begin with, which they still are living here, is proof that they were stalking me. That woman tried to lie years later in public that she went back to her home country, and she didn’t. she also lied about her age and eye color. I know she did because I had seen her picture from her Facebook in 2014 or 2015 and that was how I recognized her in person. she also lied about her age and I know that because she said it publicly in 2013 or 2014, and she said it in front of a bunch of other people in public, too, and not a single one of them at any point called her out for lying about herself. she even lied about her age directly in conversation to her boyfriend who was supposed to be my friend and he didn’t say anything about it. he’s known for years what she’s been doing and he’s at points helped her to do it and lied for her. I’m pretty sure he changed his legal name to a name that was the name of a person she mistook for him years ago, and that he did it because she assumed we were trying to meet up and we weren’t, and the person she assumed was him was genuinely someone else who didn’t even know him. so her and her friend stalked me across the city because of an assumption because she was jealous. this was a second incident, by the way, not the only one. two different friends. I saw her nametag at the grocery store she followed me to and her nametag said a name different from what she had told me online. I don’t think she thought to put a nickname or fake name since I didn’t think she thought I would read her nametag. I was only able to read it because she was trying to get close to us to eavesdrop so she made the mistake of walking near us and I turned and read her nametag. she was walking behind us right on our heels, and another time she tried to make it look like I was following her to part of the story by seeing where I was in the store and waiting until I left to make an announcement about a sale there. I had to go back because I was looking for something, and she was there when I got back, even though she wasn’t there the first time. her name may have been changed, but I recognized her based off of her appearance, because again, she has a very distinctive appearance.  Even with their names legally changed, police could still prove who they are by getting photo I.D from where they previously lived, tracking them down based on their original legal names within my country, finding proof they legally changed their names and what they changed them to, then finding any jobs or addresses they’ve had in my country under those names to confirm that they are the same people who I talked to online. so it is provable that they were stalking me, and that was not the only time that couple moved near me, and it was not the last time they had stalked me, since they kept stalking me online for years, more so than in person. They have been trying to fabricate proof that I was the one stalking them, getting other people to defame me by lying that I was the one stalking them, and it has been defamation the entire time because them stalking me to begin with has been provable since 2015. They’ve been maliciously trying to blame it on me for years while continuing to stalk me, and more recently I managed to get proof that she was still stalking me online. Her boyfriend got caught stalking me in his old truck from 2015 in 2019 by following me when I was on my way home from work. Two women saw him near me and had been recording him. He panicked and tried to make an illegal U-turn at a 4 way intersection. That was the truck he used to follow me in in 2015, the same one he drove by my house in alone in 2015, the same one he followed me in by watching me hug a total stranger while he sneakily went through the drive-thru near us to spy on me. He had his friend with him, the one who was in the news article, which I only know because I heard them talking about me hugging the stranger. the same stranger I told his girlfriend about, the same stranger they’ve been bullying and harassing me over for years online with their friends because I said they were being unsympathetic towards me. they tried to have a passive aggressive conversation to make something similar to be about her so that they could try and hide that they spent years harassing me over it and that others did, too, because of that, based on that one event. I told her in direct conversation I had trouble with eye contact, and someone I suspect to be her online made a defaming thread about people with poor eye contact. I told her I was an artist, I told her police officer friend I’m an atheist, I told her I like architecture, I told her other friend I wanted to be a parasitologist, I told her I’d never had sex before and my body hair shaving habits, she told me she lost her virginity to a guy she met before her boyfriend in 2015. she read my post history on the site where I met her, her boyfriend, and several of their other friends, and they have been making references to things I had said for years. she’s continuously made references to the names of my family, people literally outright try to implicitly inform people of information about me, like which country I live in and which characters in games I was playing. they have a ton of people who watch for me and help them to cyberstalk me because they’re trying to make me look like I stalk them, which I have video footage of. They spent years gas lighting me and in 2015 she tried to imply that the friend she brought with her to the grocery store when they stalked me might think I was stalking them because I ended up near them by coincidence at a place they told me was a good spot to get money in a game. they knew I was low on gold all the time. I thought she was joking until they did it more seriously later. so her getting the job there was to make people think I was stalking her, but in reality, it was her and her boyfriend and friends stalking me. she told other people who have bullied and harassed me for years, who help her to cyberstalk me, and they even started trying to record me to help her do so. so all in all I am only posting this because I saw something online that I believe to be someone trying to suggest that I was lying about them stalking me, and I was not. they continued trying to make me look like I was, but police can 100% prove to some extent that they were stalking me early on as early as 2015, and since that means they were gas lighting me and manipulating, it means the rest of the times I’ve “stalked” them were likely them just fabricating proof and lying about what as going on, and people likely just didn’t know how. I’ve had to put up with people defaming me for years that I’m a stalker when I wanted them out of my life and I kept sayin so over and over. I have screenshots of someone calling me a whore and telling me to kill myself from 2016, and from a normal perspective, I have no idea who that person was since I had never seen their username before. so yes that is direct proof of harassment, and I’ve had people telling me I’m delusional for thinking they stalk me for years, and they used to harass me by constantly gas lighting me by trying to lie I’m insane or crazy, and someone they likely knew tried to imply I was psychotic (not psychopathic) around a time they were gas lighting me as delusional. Well, them stalking me is 100% provable still, so there is a way to prove more effectively that they were gas lighting me by proving they were the people here, in the places I said, like I said they were. I already submitted all the information police needed to police as early as 2015, and reporting it to police first is what you’re supposed to do, not post about it online. I’m only doing so now because it didn’t work. They didn’t bother to in the first place and spent years publicly passive aggressively harassing me. I have never dated her boyfriend, by the way. I’ve never once accused her of stealing him from me. proving they stalked me early on disproves the rest of it. at no point have I ever tried to stalk them. they’re just really effective manipulators. also in 2017 one of my family members physically abused me by dragging me by my hair and legs across several rooms in our house, more than once. I only write this because I was publicly harassed by someone cyberstalking me who was trying to sneakily reveal information about my life to shame and humiliate me. the person shaming me neglected to mention that it happened because they were verbally abusing me until I’d freak out so badly I would get in my family members face in a desperate attempt to make them help me stop the people harassing and stalking me. I have received death threats people actually tried to act on, and they tried to play off what they did as just “criticism” and “a joke” for years. Yeah, a thread I made about myself in 2015 was a joke, to prove I had a sense of humor. Apparently I was white knighting myself. Also where I posted that thread: I have been on that site since I was at least 17 years old, before I ever met them. My presence there had nothing to do with them since I started going to it before I ever met any of them. I have acknowledged them at times because I personally know I’ve never stalked them. I’ve had to put up with people lying about me for years trying to imply I am and I’m tired of it. They make personal attacks towards me in a desperate attempt to “prove” it was me when they should know it wasn’t. I was never out for revenge. I only wrote to defend myself from their harassment and false claims about me, and people have bullied me even when I wasn’t doing anything to them online or in any public space. Because they’ve gotten so many people involved, I don’t get left alone. I can do nothing and spend all day playing games and someone will still be trying to talk badly about me online, and I can’t report it because they are sneaky about it. I still have managed to get a handful of them banned, across multiple sites and platforms. They like to make personal attacks at things they know apply to me and they’ll do it by making it about themselves or someone else. People were telling me to kill myself for years knowing I was suicidal. They’ll deny claims I’ve made, but I didn’t lie, and no I didn’t copy them at any point. If people refuse to believe that, find out the hard way when I disprove the malicious claims about me. I would not be shocked if they falsely reported posts I made, and I know that I did get banned once from a site because someone was gas lighting me and reported me for calling them out for making a thread cyberstalking me. I went to get a screenshot of their thread and they had deleted it. Which obviously developers designing their websites to allow people to delete their own content, and laws supporting such behavior, makes it impossible for people like me to prove that I’m being harassed, stalked and defamed. People have tried to gas light me into getting banned more than once, and I’ve been banned by moderators for rightfully asking their name because “I don’t have the right to do so” because apparently knowing who I’m talking to and asking politely is harassment. Also apparently knowing my rights and standing up for myself civilly without being verbally abusive is entitlement and being a “Karen” (meme).  I wear a mask, and I argue for wearing masks, I’ve never berated someone else for wearing one, and I’ve never put up a fight the few times I’ve forgotten mine. I’ve never raised a stink over being given the wrong order of food at a restaurant, and I’ve never had to ask for a manager. I don’t yell at staff at any place, restaurant or not. I’ve also never verbally abused staff at any place, restaurant or not. I try to be civil to people, even people I don’t like. Attributing aspects of me to the Karen meme can be considered mocking, abusive, harassing/bullying, and defamation. I was nothing like that personality type (which I think was partially the point, since they like to bait me into revealing my personality) and I personally don’t like accusing people of being a “Karen” since it’s rude and deters people from wanting to civilly make a complaint. Griefing me, especially over a long period, especially if I’m trying to not post about others and mind my own business in public, can be harassment. Especially over a long period, of which they haven’t left me alone since 2014. 7 years is way too long to be “joking” with someone in the malicious ways they’ve been doing. I am not a Karen, for example. Is hurting people funny to you? Because if not, than why say it? Because it hurts me to be compared constantly to things I am not, especially things that are viewed so negatively by so many people. so, yes, if you are going to lie about me and make personal attacks against who I am as a person, than I am allowed to tell the truth about what happened and explain how you are lying about me. so if you don’t want me to tell the truth, don’t make threads baiting that response. Also you’re not victims if you or people you told are making threads to bait information just so you can pretend I was bullying you. I never once faulted anyone for being rude to me in my own posts for things I said that instigated it. The only exception was because the person was deliberately making false accusations about me to my face even after I explained how they were wrong and refusing to quit when I told them it was hurting me. Otherwise people only got reported for saying things that suggested they were cyberstalking me based on information they should not have known about me, seeing as they shouldn’t have known who I was at all to know it was even me it applied to.  That’s all. This is the only post I’ll be making. I am not a stalker. They also like to lie I’m in love with people when I’m not and they try to convince every dude I talk to or get near that I’m in love with them even if I don’t say I even like them. I have been hopelessly single for years, well before anyone thought I was crazy. Their (supposedly) autistic friend outright admitted I was his “internet s.o”, though. To another person online, too, someone he supposedly knew. His other friend also openly acknowledged us as dating in a public conversation after they stalked me somewhere as a group online. I was trying to hide from them so yes it was creepy. Especially since I had dumped him twice and they kept refusing to acknowledge it. They shouldn’t have known who or where I was, either. He moved from another country, too. since they spent years gas lighting me that there was nothing between him and I just assumed that meant I shouldn’t waste my time. I found out where he lived by accident and when it became clear he was toying with me, which I’ve said he was since 2015, I didn’t bother trying to do anything with him like they were trying to act like. I don’t chase men who can’t be mature and who lie about me. I am too proud for that, since it’s degrading to me and if nothing else I cared how they made me look and how my actions looked to people. so, yes, references to “proud” and “pride” did refer to me. That is my reasoning even if they don’t believe it. I also used to go buy junk food at the same places since before 2015, every day. so no, it was not for them or any guy. It may not have been a necessity but that doesn’t mean I did it for them. I also drank acidic poison to try and kill myself before they went on about it being a coincidence, because they were bullying me, in case people want to argue my health issues have nothing to do with them. My health is much better though, thank you, since you never asked. There was a lot of information I just wrote to help to disprove a lot of things they were trying to prove. I have a lot of witnesses that can help to support that we were at these places first. We even knew someone who was working at one of those places before and during when one of them started working there after following us. I also opened my first bank account near one of those buildings years before they moved to my country. Most of them were not born here. tl;dr: they started going to places I already went to just so they could pretend I was stalking them. the information about myself I posted online disproves they didn’t know better. they are liars, and good ones. I had posted my location and games I played, games they stalked me into later. they’ve tried proving they were playing those games before they met me, but that doesn’t disprove they were stalking me because how did we end up on the same realm/server? in the same guild? it’s like finding a needle in a haystack. they also moved to my country after knowing me online and having a good idea of where I lived, which disproves they didn’t know better. they had the ability to reasonably know where I lived with the exception of my exact address and somehow they still knew exactly where I lived anyway. I had forgotten for years I had posted that information, and was just... kind of being dumb in other ways. so they are undeniably stalkers, group stalkers, and that couple are both stalkers. they are not loners, they have plenty of friends. I have had to put up with their verbally abusive friends or strangers gas lighting me that it’s me for years.