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i love being called baby

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“You must learn to let go. Release the stress. You were never in control anyway.”

— (via minuty)

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I can feel that 2020 is going to change my life for the better and that i’m going to be in a new direction. I can’t even describe it, I just have a gut feeling that i’m going to meet people and be in the right place at the right time for the circumstances that are divinely timed just for me. overwhelmed with good thoughts and hopes for what is to come 

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breaking news: ur actually gonna make it through and everything will turn out just fine

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“To love at all is to be vulnerable.”

— C. S. Lewis, The Four Loves (via philosophybits)

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Reblog if you are a woman and pro-life

To show that we aren’t a bunch of old white men

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I know October is going to be good to me cause I’m going to make it good.

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All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary.

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pray even when the waters are calm

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Yeah bro hit me up we’ll cancel some plans sometime

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I luuuh this

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The most powerful thing you can do right now is to be patient while things are unfolding for you.

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It’s so healing to wake up in a silent house and silently make your own coffee or tea and enjoy the beautifully intricate fullness of the morning silence while remaining calm and collected and unbothered by all outer and inner noise and it’s so low-key elevating and pacifying to rejoice in the silent atmosphere of your own house and just silently block the rest of the world…it’s a slice of heaven

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“When you feel like you’re not getting anywhere in a conflict with someone you love, the best way to bypass that verbal roadblock is to take an internal path instead of the cognitive one. You can shift the conversation not by going deeper into the details, but deeper into the feelings attached to the details. Like this–“when [blank] happened, I felt [blank].” This shift is important because it changes the goal from being more right, to being more understood. When you move out of content and into feeling, your brain shifts from protecting against a threat, and into a mode that bids for connection.”

— L, thoughts of a therapist

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One of the prettiest moments in winter is when the sun starts to come out again in like february/march but it’s still cold but that doesn’t matter because everything feels light and fresh and you walk outside without freezing because the sunshine is warming your face and everything is starting to wake up