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I have a theory....

Most of the ABDL world is embarrassed about who we are, I mean, it's life. This isn't normal, but heck, it sure is fun not being normal, am I right?

My theory is pretty simple, we enjoy forced diapering because it makes what we do "ok." It's more satisfying because it comes from outside of us. Another making us wear a diaper or behave this way, or suck a pacifier is justifying ourselves. And why wouldnt it? If someone else is doing it, then it has to be good!

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Hey ho, let's take a look to my pup space:

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Don’t punish me like I’m a problem. Punish me like I’m precious. Like I need to be put in my place, not because I disobeyed, but because I crave the certainty of your control.

Hurt me with purpose.

Fuck me with meaning.

And when I’m broken open and grateful, tell me I’ve never looked more owned.

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Chilling with my lions after a long day at vacation

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‘Don’t think.’ and Other Bimbofication Mistakes (or 10 Tips on Dumbing Down hypnosis)

I recently saw a lovely post saying ’don’t tell me I’m getting hornier, make me hornier’.  That’s a good point. Saying ’you’re getting hornier’ is much lazier than actually doing the fun things that make someone hornier.

Same thing goes for being ‘dumb’.

If you are a Tist, try to imagine that someone gave you the instruction ‘be more dumb’.  How would you comply? What may have made sense to tell others to do suddenly becomes.. impossible? Think less? Think worse thoughts? How can you even begin to do that?

There’s an old quasi-hypnotic trick called ‘don’t think of an elephant’ to highlight the presence of the ‘think of an elephant’ suggestion but also the irony of telling someone not to think about something makes them think about it.   

So when someone tells you ‘don’t think’… how exactly is that supposed to work?

If you’re a sub, and you have ever been given that instruction (and you tried to comply) you’re very likely to have been sent into a bit of an anxious spiral; ‘don’t think about what? what was I thinking about? Does this count as thinking?’ and similar.  We are thinking animals.  Being told to stop thinking just makes us think about that. Like the elephant.

So if we do a little semantics, we can ask ‘what does dumb mean?’. We might find it is a collection of behaviours and kinds of behaviour.  Following is a few of the more specific behaviours that can be implemented hypnotically which result in dumb, but don’t demand it.

1. Broken concentration.  

The concept of intelligence is illusive but the ability to focus for extended periods of time is in the running. If you cannot do that, and keep losing your train of thought before it even made it all through

I had a very interesting trans sub once who responded beautifully to subtle cues that she would accidentally issue herself which broke her line of thought. 

2. Forgetfulness

Maybe the easiest to implement.  We are all capable of and familiar with the feeling of forgetting. That feeling that something was just there, and not it isn’t. That feeling of reaching for something inside your mind but not being able to find it.  That feeling of having just thought of something and now it’s gone…

Increase the frequency, increase the amplitude and normalise that sensation.

3. Embarrassment

It is embarrassing, isn’t it? When you are speaking to someone, especially if it’s in a public or professional setting and you forget what you are saying in the middle of it.  Embarrassment is a physical response that’s remarkably easy to stimulate (and so a good practice for new tists) and tie it to broken concentration. 

(By now, I hope you are imagining how these suggestions stack as beautifully as Russian dolls. Keep that in mind, as we go.)

4. Smiling

We all smile (or hopefully we do). Smiling isn’t a bimboesque activity in itself…

But.

Smiling as a response to any of the above.  Smiling when you are confused, smiling when you are lost, smiling when you have forgotten again. Smiling can be both the outcome and the trigger of any of these

Smiling is a defense mechanism. It can be what our faces go to do automatically and it’s so easily achieved, and can so accidentally happen, it can be very powerful to a competent tist.

5. Touch Self

I don’t mean like that. I mean in gentle ways.  We often intuitively, instinctively look for a distraction when are embarrassed, confused or otherwise uncomfortable.  People fidget when they’re nervous.  The body naturally wants to move to ‘escape’ difficult situations.

Use that in subtle ways. Touching arms, face and hair are good. Even directing eye movements downwards and encouraging a need to ‘stretch’ by arching her back and so on are all easily accessible, not very noticeable (from the subs perspective) and readily tied to other suggestions.

6. Arousal

Horny and drunk.. those are the two states we are all at our out-and-out dumbest. 

Those are the states where we absolutely cut off the blood supply to those critical faculties in the brain.  If you’re not going to trance her to be or feel drunk (though again, remarkably achievable to do) then use her arousal. 

Pairs well with ‘Touch self’

7. Confusion

Think of a time you didn’t understand something. Perhaps it was a conversatoin happening around you. Perhaps it was a maths equation from school.  Hone in on that moment of being exposed to information and the experience of not understanding it.  It is a specific kind of feeling, it’s tangible. 

Bringing a subject to recall such a time, capturing it in trance, and then attaching it to some of the others in this list, can work beautifully.

Confusion, as I’m sure you’re aware is also a naturally induced state of heightened suggestibility. Don’t forget that.

8. Thinking is Hard

Our brain is one of the most expensive organs in the human body to run, in terms of energy consumption.  Imagine trying to read a dense, small-text, archaic history book when you are up late at night after a hard day.

Feel how your mind just bounces off it. Thinking is hard. It’s weight lifting for your brain.  After a hard day people like to relax by watching television or something easy on youtube or twitch.. things where you can just stare and not think for a while.

Taking a situation that is easy, cognitively, and capturing (and attaching) the feeling of just not wanting to think is going to be useful. 

9. Gullibility 

The reason every stoner talks about recording their conversations and why every recording of stoners is the dullest dishwater of conversation you will ever hear is because getting stoned is very much a bimbofication process. 

Your critical faculties diminish to the point where absolutely every half-baked (pardon) idea feels like the deepest think you’ve ever said. It’s also why you will struggle to find a conspiracy theory a stoner won’t believe.

Gullibility, is a specific property of being without your critical mind.  WIthout your critical mind you are just more likely to believe… whatever you are told. It just seems plausible? Or possible? 

Stacks well with forgetfulness.

10. Low vocabulary

Like with ‘forgetfulness’, we often have that feeling of searching for a word and not being able to find it. It’s a familiar feeling and easy to replicate in trance.

Not being able to remember a word is easily extended to not being able to remember a specific word (probably one of the most basic hypnotic tests), and hence there’s nothing stopping you from suggesting a subject can’t remember a specific kind of word.. like a word with three syllables.

In Conclusion

You should be able to daisy chain any of these together in almost any order and be able to make some pretty patterns.

Forget a word –> Embarrassment –> Smile –> Touch self –> Arousal

Broken Concentration –> Confusion –> Embarrassment –> Gullibility

What you have here are lego-blocks of suggestions so I would just recommend building them together in whatever way you like and add in a few more interesting pieces as you go and build yourself a fun session.

(Note 1: Be ware. If you are going to do this work with a hypnotist you are necessarily handing them a considerable amount of power. There is no meaningful bimbofication that doesn’t make you vulnerable. Gullibility and an inability to think critically, for example, can be a dangerous cocktail to drink with a tist you don’t know very well. As always, you should be working with a tist you know and trust.

Note 2: On a point of clarity, there are many dimensions to people’s ‘bimbo’ kink. Sometime it centres around body modification. For other’s, it’s a financial-living arrangement, having an older person afford a lifestyle of leisure for the ‘bimbo’.  I want to say this post centres on the ‘hypnosis/ mental conditioning’ dimension of bimbofication but that itself has a number of aspects (behavioural, clothes selection, self-perception etc.).  This is a post on, what is commonly referred to as ‘bimbofication hypnosis’, but really means to say ‘dumbing down’ hypnosis. )

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Wet from the night, waiting for my owner

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Ive done my fair share of forced regression scenes where I break down a so called "adult" very quickly. But I have been thinking about doing it slowly recently. It just starts with a small change, I take away your cup and give you a sippy cup, I cut your food for you at dinner. Eventually your outfit gets changed, not quite in a diaper yet but your outfit is starting to resemble "awwww they're so cute" instead of "damn they're so hot", the door to the bathroom needs to be open at all times. Finally after a few long hours, the mittens come out and so does the diaper.

And I wonder, would it be a relief for someone who can make you compliant with just a look to treat you like this? Or will the anticipation of the end result of the night being you desperately humping in your wet diaper while I jerk off in front of you be absolute torture? Only one way to find out.

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Daddy Talk #4

Someone ask me a while back what it took to be a Daddy. I gave him a long response saying a lot of details that confuse the poor guy. Then afterwards I came up with a simpler way to explain how to be a Good Daddy. Here’s 6 things a Daddy must do/have to be a good Daddy.

1. Unconditional love&support; - Daddy’s are suppose to believe in their Littles more than they believe in themselves. Daddy’s are suppose to encourage their Littles and give them unconditional acceptance to be who they seek to be. Showing pride in their Littles for their accomplishments, as well as those things she attempts; While loving her for who she is as a person. All of this is a great way to support them with the love and compassion Daddy’s are suppose to have for their Littles.

2. Protector; -Daddy’s are the primary protector of his Little from both psychological and sociological stress, as well as physical or economic threats. Daddy’s are the Guardian Angels that watch her when she sleep, stands up to bullies, and is that strong figure in her life that won’t let any harm come to her. For this reason, most Daddy’s value the life of their Littles much more than their own.

3. Emotional Sanctuary; -Daddy’s are the ultimate confidant of their Little Girl. She is able to go deeper and fully open her heart to him in ways never possible with her friends or family. Their is nothing forbidden or taboo when she speaks to you. Because of this she is able to trust you and confine to you without holding anything back. She is free to call you 24/7 to reach out to you when she needs you for support and comfort. For this reason, you are not allow to choose anyone above her or hold anything her words against her. She is ultimately your number one person in your life that has given her heart to you.

4. Mentor and Teacher; -Daddy’s are suppose to demonstrate by example, explicit verbal communication and by perspective that help her better understand/learn. Guiding her, to her goals/wishes is a Daddy’s job. You are suppose to use her past and current life experiences to teach her new options, ideas or methods to handle any dilemma that may come her way. You must also motivate her to reach her full potential while keeping her in a safe path away from the distractions of this world.

5. Discipline; -When Littles act out of fears, behaves in ways that she knows are not in her best interest or may even try to sabotages her Daddy’s wishes. Daddy’s are suppose to discipline her. You must find ways to avoid this, because you are suppose to encourage your Little to be a good girl. Punishments don’t have to be sexual, cruel or hurtful. Punishments are suppose to be a last resort to repeating negative behavior that can harm her or the relationship. Wise Daddy’s will not be excessively strict and will generate punishments that are fair and appropriate with the given dilemma.

6. The Rock; -Finally. Daddy’s are the reliable and dependable person Littles go to when they are challenge or are moving through a dark time. You must be some one consistent, steady and available for when they are in doubt/fear. It is said that Good Daddy’s are the light in all the darkness called life. Meaning; depression, self-harming or life’s unexpected dark corners are when Littles rely on their Daddy’s the most. You must never question her or pressure her during this times. Do not leave her alone. You must support her, encourage her and love her while been reliable/dependent till the crisis is over.

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Things You Can Do With and For Your Little Girl. (The Non-Sexual Edition)

-Wake her up for school/work/breakfast (Waking up to a nudging Daddy is better than waking up to a noisy jump out of your skin alarm clock). 

-Make her breakfast.

-Know her health problems, issues and allergies. 

-Make sure she takes her medicine. 

-Draw her a bubble bath, lots of bubbles. LOTS of bubbles. 

-Wash her.

-Help her with any studying or classwork she may have. Midterms and finals suck. 

-Set up a rewards system with stickers or fake money to “cash in” for special things or an outing. 

-Know her favorite characters and cartoons. 

-Watch said favorite cartoons with her. 

-Let her crawl in your lap and snuggle.

-Snuggle her any and everywhere you can. 

-Build a blanket fort with her. 

-Color with her

-Print out coloring pages/ buy coloring books for her (Littles need variety!) 

-Talk to her. Ask her about her feelings, her day, all that. 

-Lay out her clothes for her. 

-Set up a bedtime that you BOTH can adhere to, no little should be going to bed alone if it’s preventable.

-Let her know that she can wake you up anytime during the night whether she can’t sleep, has a nightmare or just wakes up earlier than you. 

-Let her cry. It doesn’t matter if you don’t always understand her feelings and emotions, it matters that you be there for her when she needs it. 

-Spray her pillow with your cologne while you’re gone for the day. 

-Make/pack  her lunch how she likes it so she eats well when you’re working/adulting. 

-Pick her up. Littles love rides!

- Know her stuffies, her blankies and her binkies. 

-Keep her sippies clean and full. 

-Make her a physical little space where she can burrow up in when she’s in her mental little space. (under the table with pillows and stuffies, in the corner or a whole bedroom decorated in things she likes) 

-Keep them company when they’re sick. Watch their favorite movie with them and make them soup with fun shapes. 

-Let them be little! The world is hard on everyone. She goes to you for refuge. Remind her why she picked you to be her Daddy out of all the other Daddies in the world. 

-Love them. Whether they are whiny, bratty, or downright all out bitchy. Love them. They love you when you’re the same way. Yes, Daddies can be bitches. 

As you can see, there are plenty of things to do with your little girl that doesn’t require sex. Being intimate with your little is important, but sex isn’t the only intimacy out there. 

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Someone asked me what I know or have heard about bdsm, i like my answer so I want to share:

I have about 16 years of experience. As a Dom, as a sub or as a switch depending on the situation. I'm aware of SSC as RACK.

It's all about trust and shifting of power. The playing itself is only a flavor of that. The flavor depends on personal preferences and experiences in life. Maybe traumas, maybe experiences ones missed earlier. It's a play with the mind. The body therefore is a tool but never the target.