desirdog

[desirdog]

Who wants a confession time?

This was probably about a year ago now (Late 2023-Early 2024) so everything is a little messy.

There was an anti rq account called burning-radqueers. Their gimmick was people's favs burning radqueer flags.

In retaliation, a pro rq account was made called loving-radqueers or something similar. Their gimmick was people's favs loving radqueers.

Yeah, I was loving-radqueers.

[desirdog]

If your advocacy for truama/abuse survivors isn't inclusive of

Survivors who are not women

Survivors who developed hypersexuality

Survivors with personality disorders

Survivors with anger issues

Survivors with did/osdd

Survivors with substance abuse issues

Then maybe you should start making an effort to make it. I'm not asking anyone to shift focus to a topic they don't understand, but you dont have to become an expert in hypersexuality or personality disorders to not actively exclude or demonize them

[desirdog]

No harassing please : )

Xenosatanists founded the radqueer community* A Xenosatanist who thought babies could consent to sex.

A Xenosatanist created the radqueer community.

[desirdog]

I think one of the biggest things that made me radqueer was the fact I was dealing with morality OCD due to being a paraphile - one of the big three, none the less.

However, instead of lessening the OCD, it instead made it stronger. This was especially the case when transnazi came out. I felt sick and uncomfortable with this term and those who stood by it. However, if I wasn't accepting of all labels, how was I radqueer?

To this day, I still struggle with calling myself radically inclusive because I don't accept transhateful or transharmful labels, even though I'm moving past the community.

This is one of the long term effects of leaving the community. This is one of the effects being in the community happens.

[desirdog]

the thing is, if your younger self was a bigot or an abuser, u can't make people forgive you. but you still gotta forgive yourself, like that's non-negotiable, dude. that happens before u can even ask the question of earning forgiveness from anyone lese

[desirdog]

i don't know how many times this has been iterated, but I feel like it's worth saying to remind people.

people who are transxyz, usually want all of the parts of xyz. the good, bad, and the ugly.

I've been in spaces where people yearn for the parts of autism, PTSD, etc. that others struggle with and find difficult.

yes, some people only want the aesthetics of having these things, but many also want the bad.

take care in figuring out which one you're talking to; the more you stereotype a radqueer, the less they want to listen.

[desirdog]

you cannot ethically be transharmful.

you cannot ethically be trace.

you cannot ethically be pro-radpara

you cannot ethically have adult relationships with children

you cannot ethically have human relationships with animals

[desirdog]

Official (Anti) RQ Archive

[PT: Official (Anti) Radqueer Archive. END PT. ]

　Last Updated (DD/MM/YY): 08/01/24. This archive will be updated over time, so make sure to check back regularly if you can! If you have anxiety regarding opening links, no worries! All these posts are archived under our "archived" & resources tags.

Anti-RQ Terms/Flags

'PRAT' meaning

'Fluffy Para'

'Arissomei'/'Arissodic'

'Atypical Dysphoria Awareness' (Creator Boundary)

Reclaimed Transage, Transracial (Adoptee), Transspecies and Transabled Flags

Reclaimed Transabled Flag 2 + Symbol

BIID Flag + Symbol

Parahealth

RQ Terms/Flags

'Faux Cult'/'Fult' and Flags

Xenoanarchism

Other Terms

Doc

PSAs

Radparas

'Kandiqueer'

'Xenosatanism' and Xenosatanist Flags

'@//sophieinwonderland'

The Angel's Web "Fult"

'Not All Radqueers'

Initial 'Fult' PSA

"The Ezra Files" (Content/Trigger Warning: (Pro-C) Pedophilia, Incest, Bestiality, Zoosadism, Toddler/Baby Abuse, Grooming, CSEM Trading, Rape, Abduction, Admissions Of CSA, Admissions Of Incest, Admissions Of Bestiality…)

TransN*zi Symbols

Other Resources

What IS A Radqueer? Why Are They Bad?

RQ Original Coining Info

RQs are a Cult

RQs and Stochastic Terrorism

The Insult of 'Cisdisabled'

BIID and RQ Grooming

RQ '2024 Calendar'

Talk of Atypical Dysphoria

WHY Misuse of Transrace and the term 'Trace' are Bad

Talk of "Transautism"/being "Transautistic"

You Cannot 'Coin' A Medical Disorder/Talk of "MUDs"

Intrusive Thoughts About =/= Actually Believing in Them

'I have intrusive thoughts about ...' isn't a 'Valid' Excuse

Transitioning When It Comes To TransIDs and TransX Identities

Transethnic People Aren't Valid (Focuses on East Asians & Koreans)

There Are Better Ways to Cope with Atypical Dysphoria

Why Arissomei/Arissodic is its Own Term

Racial Hierarchy and Being "Trace"/"Transracial"

Blackface is Blackface — Your "Intent" Doesn't Matter

Alternative (Non-TERF Rhetoric) Anti-Radqueer Arguments

Suibaiting Radqueers ISN'T Okay

If You're Thinking of Leaving the RQ Community

'Cracker' is Not a Slur

Suibaiting RQs isn't Welcome Here

Radinclus does NOT Mean Radqueer

Misusage of Languages in RQ Spaces

How-To's

Reporting a RQ for Inciting Violence

(Fighting Against) RQs Rebranding Terms as 'RQ Terms'

Coping with Atypical Dysphoria

Getting Out and Staying Out Of the Community

General Tips

Reaffirmation

Reaffirmation of Why RQs are Bad (TWs included in the post)

BIID (Body Integrity Identity Disorder) =/= Radqueer (Affirmation)

[desirdog]

Hello. (Paws at your front door step) why are you letting those people and things get to you? You can filter your feed. Block people. Block tags. Be carefree. It’s your device. Doom scrolling isn’t good for you. Do whatever you want forever. Take care of yourself /gen.

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DESIRDOG THE RECOVERING RADQUEER

[pt: desirdog the recovering radqueer]

20 Bodily ! Mixed Race ; Latino + White

If you're mixed race, you're free to call us mutt.

Recovering Radqueer, please be patient with us&.

Autistic + Bipolar TraumaEndo system of too many.

no dni, we'll just block you.

DISCOURSE STANCES

pt: discourse stances

COMPLEX TRANSID - I 🩶 transspecies and transage folks

PRO PARA - ANTI CONTACT FOR PARAPHILIAS WOULD BRING HARM

RADICAL INCLUSIONIST

PRO ENDOGEN

NEUTRAL SHIP - LEAN PROSHIP

[desirdog]

duo teeth dividers!!! all handmade by me

works best with dark site themes!!

other colors:

please reblog if using and credit somewhere if possible!!

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