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what ace positivity is: asexuality is real, valid, and you shouldn’t feel like it’s wrong or weird not to feel sexual attraction! you don’t owe anyone sex! loving romantic relationships don’t need sex!

what ace positivity isn’t: you’re lgbt! you’re oppressed! people want you dead! use slurs like queer, please!

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cry me a river, homophobe

people who flaunt their “gayness” or “trans identity” like its some kind of god given gift genuinely scare me

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as a lesbian i feel like i cant really have a say on pan discourse but as long as you arent shitty about being pan im chill w you iding that way? like i think its just bisexual without preferences, its like a specific kinda bi but i also think bi ppl should be the ones who debate it

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me during the day: discourse is dumb. Go outside

me at midnight lying in bed: and you know what ELSE Makes me angry!

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Promowo

- hi im ellie

- im 14 and my pronouns are she/her or they/them

- im a fuckin lesbian

- aces aren’t inherently lgbt

- mogai is bullshit

- pansexuality and bisexuality is the same

- pansexuality is transphobic too btw

- i personally don’t think you need dysphoria to be trans

- terfs are evil

- maps can rot in hell

pwease interact i want friends

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what ace positivity is: asexuality is real, valid, and you shouldn’t feel like it’s wrong or weird not to feel sexual attraction! you don’t owe anyone sex! loving romantic relationships don’t need sex!

what ace positivity isn’t: you’re lgbt! you’re oppressed! people want you dead! use slurs like queer, please!

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@mutuals stop and think before you reblog a post that has the word “lgbtia+” in it. advice from your friendly intersex mutual, archy: STOP dragging intersex ppl into the lgbt community. idc if you think aces/aros are lgbt just stop dragging other ppl into this. stop putting a fucking i in the acronym. intersex isn’t a gender OR a sexuality- it’s a medical condition. we have time and time again asked for you guys to recognize this, time and time again asked for you guys to stay out of our issues, but you continue to misgender us and use us as props for your arguments. your “lgbtia+ positivity” isn’t nice, it’s hurtful, it literally makes me so dysphoric because i’m basically being told that my genitals and chromosomes somehow make me inherently nonbinary. i’m not lgbt because i’m intersex, i’m lgbt because i’m trans and gay. y'all aren’t being “inclusive” or “recognizing our issues,” most of the time y'all don’t even know what intersex means and it’s obvious when you group it in with genders and sexualities. by dragging us into the lgbt community you are misgendering so many people and intersexist as fuck.

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can we stop saying that words like dumb and stupid are ableist slurs or ableist language please I’m autistic and that’s just… not what the fuck a slur is bye

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I feel like everyone no matter the side they’re in on the discourse needs to be better about not platforming shitty people and shutting down gross people that may be on your side of the argument like i’ve mostly seen people call out bad behavior if they’re not “on your side” and that’s not good enough 

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inclusionists be like

[lesbophobia noise]

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coming out: lesbian vs asexual

lesbian: “Mom, dad, I’m in love with a woman and I’m terrified of the social consequences and the homophobia I will face - even from members of our own family. I’m confiding this in you because I need support and want you to know my relationship is incredibly important to me, and I can’t change despite the oppression I will face for being who I am.”

asexual: “parental units I no do the Fucky pls validate”

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people with sjw in their urls are either antisjws or discourse bloggers who think stupid is a slur

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When someone on here says they’re gay, I’m not sure if they mean homosexual or 1 of 9986732 micro-labels that describe everything under the sun EXCEPT being homosexual.

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its funny how actual lesbians, gay men, bisexuals and transgender people get pushed out of our spaces and our community - that we still need - for cishets who just wanna be special, and literal furries and kinksters. and by funny i mean demoralising, dangerous and stupid

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Its utterly disgusting how ace tumblr steals “we are here we are queer”, a phrase used to combat the AIDS crisis, to defend their cishet bootlicker oppression fantasy while also being collectively repugnant serophobic and homophobic dumpster fire scum.