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YURI COMIC NEW RELEASE!

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イースターの撮影をするナンジャモちゃん🌼 | はる🧊🐧

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縦巻きロール🧡💜 | おこめ🍙

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about to say something mean but i feel like every "male-specific" issue is something that also happens to women its just that a lot of you dont seem to see women as people

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I've slept on it so I decided to hate anyway

Among the many reasons "male loneliness epidemic" is bullshit the one that pisses me off the most is the whole friendzone shit.

I don't even know when this was a thing, like 10+ years ago, but it was something that dudes believed. If you are nice to a woman but she doesn't want to fuck you then she intentionally put you on the friendzone. There are so many things wrong with this mentality.

Being nice to a woman means she has to reward you with sex.

Being on the frienzone (aka being friends with a woman) is something bad and to be avoided.

Women having sex with (percieved) assholes is a slight against (so called) nice guys.

If a woman doesn't want to have sex with you when you are nice to her (with the explicit goal of fucking her) then she's a bitch.

A woman's only important quality is providing sex.

Women choosing who they have sex with is bad actually, and men know better.

Like I could go on but I'd rather not get any more upset. This shit was so prevalent, so "common sense" in the early 2000s that you were expected to agree that it was a major societal problem. So now whenever I see articles about "male loneliness epidemic" (<- lol 🤏 cry about it) my blood boils because it feels like a repeat of the whole friendzone shit but somehow worse, because at least it was something most people (that I know <- biased) grew out of it or didn't like, evolve into some more fucked up belief system for them.

Anyway, the it's misogyny sword is quite heavy so I'm gonna put it aside for now.

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Day 59: I can't believe it took me 9 wednesdays to think of doing this

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注意！！！abo设定发情期

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Lady of the Darkling

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i think that such results of transgender people sexuality kind of raise questions about how much of them are just born in the wrong body. like the data should be more or less like that of cis people, and of cis people 40% or so are kind of bisexual

but also the poll is heavily biased by being posted on tumblr, and majority of people on that blog are gay or bi so it's not really proper science.

(and conversion theory doesn't account for the ammount of t4t partnerships)

Trans people have a higher chance of being gay because being gay makes you better than other people and being trans also makes you better than other people

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my latest gamedev idea is "guy on the corner of the screen who gives you personalized tips when you die". original idea do not steal

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I was going to hate but then I said no, I am going to bed,

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person who has only watched one anime: what i really love about dungeon meshi is how it subverts our expectations of a typical anime by not sexualising women and having a good plot!

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To avoid getting spoiled (don't even care that much) on things that I might be interested in I will check out series if I see funny panels, cool characters or perhaps someone pouring out their heart to recommend some barely above average manga (<- positive).

This comes with a few downsides, notably that I read a lot of things that are just not good. I don't have like any sort of system (strikes or tropes that I dislike or whatever). There comes a point where I pull out the metaphorical scales and weight how far it feels until it reaches a conclusion (even bad ones) versus whatever good points it might have. If it has good points I'll keep going, if it's close to finishing most likely too, if it's just super bad I'll drop it.

But. I'll get some amazing hits every so often. Like a handful per year. Really good series that then I get to reminisce about. Kaguya-sama comes to mind, I remember the first few chapters. Some others, I don't really want to go over my completed list.

Anyway I was going a bit off topic. People getting spoiled about Dunmeshi? Skill issue. (<- 30% joking 70% serious)

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Asking for advice, which I realize now I should have done at a more reasonable hour:

So I'm talking to my endo this week and there's a high change I can finally get free(!) HRT (<- we remain optimistic).

I'm putting together a list of questions since ideally I won't need another appointment until sometime at the end of the year and let's just say that mistakes can and do happen.

They are like, specific to the area I'm in. Related to the pharmacies I can go to, how do I get my refills, what to do when I move(!), etcetera. From what I've been told and seen it works differently depending on what province you're at, so just to have a solid grasp on what I'll be dealing with the next months.

The thing is, what other questions could I ask? What can I possibly need to know? I'd appreciate any pointers since I can't come up with anything else myself.

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When you feel like the world is cruel, cold and uncaring, when you feel you're not doing enough to be genuinely kind, when you feel you're not having a positive effect on the life of your trans siblings, sisters and brothers, just go and text one of them

Ask them how they're doing, and listen. Let them know that you don't take them for granted, let them know they're not alone, let them know that you appreciate them

Verbalize your feelings. Let them know that they're cool, or that they're funny, knowledgeable, attentive, thoughtful, mindful, kind, sweet, supportive, reliable, and so on

And let them know that you notice their efforts and struggles, that you see them, and that you appreciate being a part of their life. Tell them and show them that you care