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Any tips on getting backstage passes to concerts? Usually going to see bands like Poison, Motley Crue etc

Slowly living my band aid life style, but need help with more connections (and if the bands enjoy fun in that way anymore)

Nothing specially for that age of bands but make connections with other girls, make friends with the crew, meet people in social situations and if you’re good at it manipulate the boys, they’ll do it with you anyway - K

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u havent been online in like 2 monthss....r u okay???

I am, lovely! I have just been so busy in my 9-5 and suffering some health issues - K

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I wish you’d be online more!!

I’m online now!! - K

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hellooo do not know if the acc is as active as it used to be! but i recently got a a band dude that i’ve been a fan of since they were only on soundcloud,,, they came to my country and we ended up running into e/o at the bar and im sure u kno the rest! anyways i wants to vent and kinda ask what you think since you’ve experienced this stuff. going in at it i didn’t expect much at all but the guy had been very attentive and consistent. even after he left my city to tour australia, he called me every night and kept me updated every day… its been three months and he’s back in the UK and we still talk and we have feelings for eachother but i’m kinda having a hard time. i don’t wanna expect anything and i don’t 100% trust him either. he has been nothing but sweet and we at every transparent with each other.. but i feel like getting emotionally involved w someone in a major record label doing international tours and stuff,,, i feel like he would have a roster (even tho he said he had only hooked up w two girls in his whole touring career and he “never really does it”)

i don’t want to cut him off obviously but idk what i’m getting myself into…. he wants me to visit him in london and i feel like if i did that it would became too real for me. i just don’t “know him” enough…. what would u do in this situation?

I’m around just super busy!! So anyone that says they don’t do that are lying. They do - I have seen them say this to girls and then in the next city say the same thing to another girl while taking them back to the hotel. Saying that, if you’re comfortable with it I would personally go to London. It is an experience almost no one gets to have - being with a musician like that. I believe you can know him as you go. BUT know what you’re getting into and don’t let him take advantage! Know your worth too! - K

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i'm rlly into a guy but he lives in a different city than i do and he likes me too. how do i make this work without being only his hookup gf every time he tours where i live? i don't want to be his 'serious gf' but i also don't just want to just hookup every time he has a show here. pls help

From personal experience you insert your self into his life, become friends with his friends, be friendly with his family and see him in his city if possible often enough for him to think it’s a possibility. Make him want you and his people want you around - K

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I went to a gig to flirt w the guitarist and we ended up talking the entire night - towards the end he kept on saying how he wanted to get out of there with me but I didn’t want to because I just got out of a toxic relationship. So instead, we kissed but I pulled away bc my toxic ex was on my mind 😭😭 do u think I’ll get a second chance with this guy? I told him it was bc I just got out of a bad relationship and he said he understood but now I’m scared if the next time I see him he’s not interested at all and just totally ignores me.

I’m sure you’ll get another chance! It really isn’t that big of a deal, when you see them next just tell them you’re sorry and are over that person! Also I’m sorry you were with someone like that! I hope you meet someone who treats you the way you deserve xoxo - K

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In potentially the most chaotic groupie moment of my life I accidentally had a rock band get so drunk they passed out in the chapter room (like sacred secret room) of my sorority and I had to kick them out the next morning so they made it to the next city on the tour. Not exactly a question but honestly I just want people so share their groupie adventures and stories

Oh please share your adventures! I’d love to share them and hear them. Also would love to hear what it’s actually like to be in a sorority ahaha - K

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I blacked out and made out with every member of this rock band and also perhaps slept with the wrong member. As in I had been going out with one member and somehow slept with another member. And I’m dumb enough to be asking myself why none of them have texted me in the past few days. Wellllll this was very much out of pocket for me since I normally don’t so much as kiss the bands I hang out with. Wayyyy too much gin and cherry flavored vodka. Any hope for going back to normal with them? ❤️❤️

I’m not sure if this will still be at all useful! But surprisingly yes, in the normal world it’s a huge deal breaker but in the little bubble they exist in if you flatter their ego and say the right things you can go crawling back and blame the gin. Getting blackout brings people closer together xoxo - K

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Honest to god I just want to know why all these musicians are so short. I am not even 5’9 and I’m taller than half these idiots

Yes to this!! I’m 5’2 and if they never played guitar you wouldn’t catch me dead with a man under 6ft. My future husband is 6’4 and that’s where I want to be - barely within sight because I’m so short - K

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May I ask, what did your friends think of this? The ones you had in common with him. It’d be fun to know if anyone found it hilarious too haha

From what I can remember it got a lot of people’s attention. I think it actually got me invited to more things. People who knew him very well thought it was funny, a lot of his band and and crew didn’t speak to me for about 4 years though - K

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Bahahaha I’m the one who got the person right! I think I knew who it was because I believe I have figured out who are some of your friends and he fits the description perfectly. Good that you put him in his place!! I’ve read your last posts and it’s good that you’re friends with him now! -“You’re banned from all of my shows.” K said with venom. God, my heart.- This part cracked me up big time BAHAHAHAHA. You’re so unapologetically funny. I'll send another ask.

Thank you love xx Oh please share some others. We had a strange story - I wish him well because he’s very honest which is rare for that world - K

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hii I miss your writing sm, your blog is my all time FAVORITE on tumblr. I hope you’re doing well and I wish you the best!

Aww thank you lovely! I wish you only good things - K

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Any Hozier news?

Besides me enjoying the sound of his voice nothing - K

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For the anon that wants to pursue their blogger career:

Hello! What you want to do is exactly what I do for a living, and I’m also an ambivert so I understand your struggle. Like what K said, you should indeed create a persona and go from there. What also works is to start with small (big) bands, they tend to be very easy going and you might befriend them. This will boost your confidence. Before approaching them you can analyze who’s the nicest of them all and that’s your way to start building a connection. I’ve done this and other band members approach and join the conversation. Also, compliment them, tell them how you find their work interesting (be chill) and they will come to you simply because they love it when someone loves them. Remember you’re one of them and you belong there!

Opportunities happen with connections, especially if you’re friends with their team. I’d also say, be careful because they will notice if you want to be just hanging out with bands. It’s hard to mix career-groupie relationships but you can do it.

However most importantly dear anon, your friendships have to be genuine! And never try to be someone completely different. It will be tiring and they will notice after a while too.

There is a lot I’m missing but if you need more advice I can help you! xxx

Thank you for sharing! xxx - K

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YOU WERE ONLINE AND I MISSED IT

I’m back online, keep notifications on and ask me things xoxo - K

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To the person who guessed who I threw a beer on, gold star for you. DM me or go on anon if you want to talk about it and not name names

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Does going to a band's shows help them consider you and be taken backstage?

That depends on the band, but I will say the bands that do don’t have a good reputation. Before and after are the time for groupies. The gig is for fans. Any band that don’t agree are probably into underage girls - K