Coming back here again to boost this post from a good friend of mine. Please help them out if you can!
heyo. queer, nb trade worker here. I hate doing these but. been unemployed for a minute and between trying to quit smoking, new meds making me violently sick and getting stomach flu from my roommate i've been pretty much stuck in my house and can't do doordash or apply for jobs. I've got enough for rent this month but i could use a few bucks for food and tylenol. venmo is macks-hack-shack (if you saw my govt name no you didn't). thanks y'all
I am not a woman because my identity is bounded and discrete, I am a woman because "woman" is far reaching and amorphous
On a more serious note, and I usually don't talk seriously here because yall are a bunch of jokers, while I get that developing for oneself a stable signifier that they can point to and argue the validity of their existence is really important to some people, simply reshuffling a rigid ontological narrative of gender and sexuality does not serve us as a community and will only cause more pain down the line.
The project is not to create ever smaller and more personalized identity categories with strict inflexible borders, but to undermine the entire structural rigidity of gendered signification; that's the only way we get our liberation.
So if you're uncomfortable with inhabiting an ambiguous space, frankly too fucking bad. That's the only way we're moving forward
One of my funny moments from when I was playing a lot of Amongus was learning that "lust" was on their list of forbidden words, resulting in me sending the message "I guess my blood**** got the better of me"
"bloodlust" is such a great word it's like someone saw the word bloodthirsty and was like "hmm not horny enough"
Still puzzling over the anon message in my askbox getting all bent out of shape about who I was following, because I keep my following list private specifically to prevent people from doing that shit. Maybe they were mad I reblogged from The Bad Person? Or that I follow them on Twitter? Idk I blocked them cause we don't do that shit at Disco Deer LLC.