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HEY IF YOU’RE A BOY WITH AN EATING DISORDER I HOPE YOU KNOW I LOVE YOU AND YOUR DISORDER IS VALID !!!!!!!

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‼️‼️PLEASE HELP ME FIND MY LITTLE BROTHER!! THIS IS AN EMERGENCY‼️‼️

He’s a missing native child and at EXTREME RISK! The cops aren’t doing SHIT!

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this accounts still kinda new so uhhh if anyone is active october 2021 pls like/reblog i wanna follow more people

(especially transmasc people and anyone who had a really high sw)

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Me posting on tumblr:

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New goal unlocked

i want my thighs to not touch when i lay on my side

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I’m so scared

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Idk who needs this but, your ED is 110% valid even if:

- you don’t count calories!

- you don’t exercise a lot

- you don’t purge

- you don’t fast

- you binge more than u restrict

- you have never fainted

- you have never been hospitalized

- you have never been tube fed

- your not underweight

Love y’all stay safe you are all worth ❤️

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If you had to go with theme of ‘American independence’ despite it being a bad theme, what would your outfit look like? Would you choose an American counter-culture movement or something else? I might pick a 1920s crossdressing look but I doubt anyone would get my gay references lol

Ooooh, I love this question!

(I also would love to see your 1920s crossdressing ensemble. That sounds amazing! And totally in keeping with the dress code.)

Going to the Met Gala is a BIG FAT FANTASY. I will never be invited, nor willing to pay the exorbitant ticket price ($30,000 US for a single seat this year). Never going to happen.

Since we're talking FANTASY, I like to think I'd be free to attend as an openly Romani woman. My family is largely closeted about our race; if I had actually attended the Met Gala in 2021, I'd be white-passing. I'm not sure an openly Romani woman has ever attended the Met Gala before?

That sucks! And this is a fantasy! So, let's pretend I'm attending as a Roma. I'd definitely want to do that.

I'd ask Erika Varga to design my dress.

She's the owner/designer of Romani Designs. Erika is the most famous Romani fashion designer in the world. Her clothes are jaw-dropping.

Her collections lean toward high-end daywear, so I'd definitely commission something more grandiose for the Met Gala. Something like the "Blueprint" collection, but dialed up to eleven, you know?

Going into the Gala, I really wanted to see more use of patchwork fabrics. This isn't a uniquely American concept (clearly, as Varga is Hungarian), but it calls to mind two important eras of American history: The Great Depression of the 1930s, and the hippie movement of the 1960s.

The 1960s would be my inspiration era.

The mostly white hippies of the 1960s appropriated a lot of fashion inspiration from other cultures. There were Indian and Middle Eastern influences, Black American influences, Central and South American influences... and Romani influence. A lot of it.

White hippies stole the Romani aesthetic so effectively that they rebranded some of our most traditional clothing as "hippie style."

I'd like to reclaim that. I'd like to take the look back from Rachel Zoe and Florence Welch and the Olsen Twins, among others. That'd be "American Independence" to me. I think Erika Varga would be the prefect designer to help me do that.

I might even wear a dikhlo, which is a traditional Romani headscarf. Very few American Romani women ever wear one because it's such an obvious signifier identifying you as Roma. (Most American Romani are closeted, at least some of the time.) My mother only wears them to funerals. My grandmothers only wore them on special occasions. The Met Gala is a very special occasion.

(If you're reading this, and looking for my thoughts on more Met Gala looks, you can find that right here.)

Anyway, this was fun! Thanks so much for the ask!

Keep yourself safe for me, friend.

XOXO, Earnest

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I know some people need to hear this, especially me because I get so scared of my metabolism dying or something but it’s not possible. I literally get eaten alive by my head every single day about this so this was a nice peace of mind, hopefully for you too.

You will lose weight in a calorie deficit, some may be slower than others yes but you will still lose weight.

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This user is half-Romani and does NOT support harassing people over fanworks.

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L.M. Montgomery, Anne of Green Gables

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2022 after 2 month !?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

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hardest pill i swallowed was realizing i didn’t mean shit to people that meant a lot to me.