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I think I like the thought of being alone so much because you are forced to be your own light. When you are your own light nothing can dull you except yourself. Being a light in darkness I think is beautiful.

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Beautiful vs Hot

With a 50% divorce rate in America, it is clear the way society is going about relationships in this day and age is “off.” There is no doubt social media is playing a part to mess with our ideas of what a relationship should be. I heard a JRE podcast today and heard Bret Weinstein talking about how males have developed a new reproductive strategy that is different than another reproductive strategy in history. The oldest most and most primitive reproductive strategy is where the male invests in the offspring and the mother of the offspring, he is prepared to go through all lives struggles with his partner. Raising a human baby is a big commitment and evolutionary it is one of the greatest most important things you can do. Human babies are so needy, one person raising a baby is very hard. You need a team, when you have a team you can afford to have a more needy baby. There is nothing good about having a needy baby, but there is something good about what you can get if you can tolerate a needy baby, you get a baby that is a lot more renowned when it grows up. But what I really want to talk about is this new reproductive strategy. This new strategy has been developed mostly because girls are getting more insecure and women are dressing hot to get more attention. When a male see’s a hot girl they are triggered because they have a chance of reproducing with no commitment, which, evolutionary, that is a win. Hotness is associated with sex, and that is pretty much the only standard which makes it appealing to men. Portraying yourself as hot, you are looking to get a mans attention most likely, but by doing this you are triggering the males 2nd reproductive strategy which is a guy looking for sex, which is counter productive to the males first reproductive strategy which is a life partner and a big commitment. 

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Success vs. Happiness

Have we all been brain-washed into thinking success will bring us happiness or is that a primal way of thinking? Why is everyone trying to hard to reach success and approval from the outside world? I think the goal should be happiness not success. If your not happy, you arn’t going to be successful. If you are miserable trying to reach your success, you are doing something wrong. Find something that makes you happy and forget about how to get to what you think success is. I think people care more about what people think about them than they care about their happiness. What if everyone only focused on there happiness and stopped trying so hard to accomplish everything? What if my happiness is not other people think success is? What if I don't want to be rich, what if I don't want a lot of money, what if I don't want the “American dream.” People won't think I'm successful, people will think i didn't “make it.” I won't make my parents proud. But, what if I'm more happy without striving for this crazy success. Life would be so easy... there would be no suffering but there would also be no growth if you weren't striving for success.

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learn to love suffering

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if you wait until your ready, you will never do it. you will never really be ready.

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light yourself on fire with passion and people will come from miles to watch you burn.

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Intuition:

You are looking for light but won't take off your sunglasses. You are looking for something real but don't have the faith to believe it's not too good to be true. You are looking for trust but don't know how to be vulnerable. You are looking for a prise but won't work through the process. So you feel cheated once you got it. You are looking for growth... it does you no good looking for growth. Love is about being accepting. When you are looking for growth you can not love in a way that will make you grow. Becuase looking for growth means focusing on the lack of what the do or dont have. Its your job to create your love in a way that is inspiring, inproving. If the love doesnt inspire growth thats not who your suppost to be with. Its not on you to look for growth, its on you to love. When you are ready for love you will have no doubts. Love is peace. Its worth the risk when its ready. Your love should enhance your life not complicate it. You attract what youre ready for.

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lil intro vert

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I went to a show by myself on a rainy night in Denver. I was standing outside in the rain feeling alone. I knew I was feeling a strong enough emotion that if I recored the noises around me  the emotion would translate into song. Which is the point of me making music.. To make you feel something deep inside you. So I sampled that into this song at the begging and end. The middle represents a lonely mind in a place where your not supposed to be feeling lonely. 

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C R E A T E   Y O U R S E L F

Never fake authenticity for acceptance. All that matters in life is the world you create for yourself and the impact it makes. Do what makes you happy because when you are happy, happiness will pour into your life. Be so true to yourself you don’t have anyone to impress but yourself. Be so true to yourself that you have no one to compare yourself to because you know you are a one of a kind. 

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A L L I G N M E N T              before       A C T I O N  (grinding hard vs flowing)

Our whole lives we have been taught that to get what you want you have to work hard, and if you don't take action nothing will happen and asked what are you willing to do to get what you want? This is the main stream plan, YOU create your own reality . You are using your physical body to create a physical result. This plan includes: hustling, sacrifice, grinding, stressfulness, fatigue, and exhaustion. This is a very primitive way to create your reality. Does it work? Yes, but are you focusing on your emotion, your joy, and happiness? If not there is a very good chance that the joy is not going to be the result. Right now your ego doesn't like what it is hearing because this is all you have heard and done your whole life. In this plan you think that if you work hard and get your result then you will be happy. Instead of seeking the result for the emotion, seek the emotion before the result. Yes this plan is initially motivating, and yes you might see results. In this main stream plan you are using cause and effect. In the quantum way of living your thoughts create your reality, you are causing the effect. This is the plan I have been using, I focusing on how I feel and deliberately shape my emotions and focus on what is wanted in my life without emphasis on the how or the steps to get there. I focus on the emotion that will provide what i want. This plan includes focus, ease, attention, it is deliberate, fun, and positive. This plan is more about mental effort than physical effort. Instead of the adrenal fatigue of hustling you are focusing on relaxation, visualizing and meditating. This requires less efferting, and will require less action. Yes I still take action, but I am in alignment and i am inspired when I do. I can tell you there is a qualitative difference when you live the quantum way to take action. When you are in a good feeling state the actions you are going to take and the effects of those actions are going to match those positive frequencies. There is a difference in inspired action vs. striving action. The ego pushes you and the intuition pulls. Let your positive frequency lead you to what you want. When you are are grinding and hustling and not in a joyful place don't think that when you get the result that will  come to you. Release the egos grip on the how.... The more you live the quantum the more you let go of the how and the more you let things unfold on there own the frequencies you are putting into the vortex will pull you in the right direction to the right steps of action that will lead you to the right result. 

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“Y'all don't know my struggle Y'all can't match my hustle You can't catch my hustle You can't fathom my love, dude Lock yourself in a room doing 5 beats a day for 3 summers That's a Different World like Cree Summer's I deserve to do these numbers "The kid that made that deserves that Maybach!" So many records in my basement I'm just waiting on my spaceship”

-Kanye West // Spaceship

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Why working out changed my life

Waking up and forcing yourself to do something, to accomplish a task that sometime you don't want to do. It gives you a since of pride and will encourage you throughout the day to accomplish another task and another task, and another. If you have a bad day at least you can say you worked out, and tomorrow you can push yourself even harder at the gym. There is a push that comes with working out, something so motivating, something that makes you want to grow and keep pushing yourself. Lifting in the morning and forcing yourself to have stress and a small sense of suffering makes all the little problems throughout the day seem infinitesimal. It makes you calmer. For me working out gives me so much self confidence, pushing myself in the gym makes me push myself in all aspects in life. No one is telling me to workout, and not many people even know how hard i work out, that is motivating in its self. Going to the gym listening to my favorite music and pushing myself to the limit gives me all the strength i need to conquer the day. Pushing myself to the limit at the gym allows me to push myself to the limit in life. Lets not forget the feeling of being strong and seeing your muscles grow makes me a stronger person mentally. I highly recomened working out, don't be scared, you got this.:) 

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Clair de Lune remix. This song was is to beautiful to remix, but i accepted the challenge. #Vaperwave 

Don't go, tell me the lights won't change. Tell me it'll stay the same.