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20y old female

Female: I have a question iDlABL0: Ok iDlABL0: I'm listening Female: How exactly do you come up with all the advice you have iDlABL0: What you mean ? Female: Your always helpful in a way I can ask anything and you have an answer iDlABL0: Mmmm Female: It’s talent dev iDlABL0: No iDlABL0: It's not Female: Yes it is iDlABL0: It's a person being able to judge without any personal issues Female: Aka talent iDlABL0: You're not reading

iDlABL0: I judge a situation iDlABL0: Not the people that's in it iDlABL0: Idc if it's my friend or my sis in the siuation iDlABL0: I will never choose sided based on blood or friendships iDlABL0: It comes with being mean and an asshole iDlABL0: Because i am able to not affiliate myself with hwatever might be going on Female: Your not an asshole iDlABL0: I can distance myself from any kind of situation,moment, argument or fight iDlABL0: And look at it from a strangers point of view Female: Wow Female: That’s a hard thing to do iDlABL0: No it isn't iDlABL0: Not to me iDlABL0: Cuz i don't think lies in any kind of form are a good thing iDlABL0: I rather have the ugly truth from the most beatifull person in the world iDlABL0: Then a pretty lil lie from a snake Female: I agree but sometimes I can’t even tell I’m lying until I think back iDlABL0: That means that you say shiid without thinking your words through Female: Depends on what situation yes that will happen and if it does I will apologize. That’s one of my flaws I let anger get the best of me iDlABL0: Alot of people have that Female: Yup iDlABL0: They can't manage their own anger and end up saying shiid they don't mean or either regret later iDlABL0: I have always been the kind of person to listen and read carefully before i reply iDlABL0: Because in my mind coimmunication is important to any type of relationship, lovers, family, friends, parent and kid communication is always needed Female: And that’s a good thing but sometimes it’s hard to tell an emotion based off words iDlABL0: And there are so many loopholes in communication that it's easy to misunderstand other and being misunderstood iDlABL0: To make sure people do not misunderstand me which will save me the issue of a fight, argument and havin to apologize i take my time to think iDlABL0: I also say this iDlABL0: " I'm thinking " iDlABL0: I don't wanna make it seem like i'm not interested and doing something else while i'm in a serious convo iDlABL0: But I also don't wanna make any false promises that I can't keep Female: Wow iDlABL0: I value myself too much to put myself out there as someone that doesn't keep his promises, that doesn't listen and that doesn't show interest iDlABL0: I try my hardest to show the people I value my love and knowing all of their experiences and include my own experiences into that iDlABL0: I know there's alot of things that can be misunderstood if you do not choose your words carefully iDlABL0: I get mad iDlABL0: Definitely iDlABL0: But even in my anger I will take the time to calm myself down enough so I can make myself clear through words without any regret Female: The world needs more people like you Devon iDlABL0: Because that's the kind of man I aspire to be and that's exactly why people love me Female: That’s amazing iDlABL0: So no iDlABL0: It's not a talent Female: Then what is it iDlABL0: It takes alot of patience with yourself and others as well that you need to realize who you are yourself before you can do anything like advising others iDlABL0: Are you the friend with a silver tongue ? " no. You're gonn be just fine. He was an asshole " Female: I hope not iDlABL0: Or are you the friend that will stay loyal to your own values and beliefs " You were definitely wrong for that. i understand why he got mad. you should be the one to apologize this time " Female: I hope I’m loyal as I try to be but I’ve made my mistakes iDlABL0: Everybody wants to be likd iDlABL0: Everybody wants to be loved iDlABL0: And humanity has the nasty habit to betray themselves to feel love from another Female: Mhm iDlABL0: There is a small selection in this wotrld who has already realized that loving yourself and staying loyal to yourself will always come first and will always be the most important iDlABL0: This small selection are the people that everyone falls for iDlABL0: Because they stand strong and proud into their shoes without the need or support from snakes around them iDlABL0: They are attractive because of their way of thinking and how they are able to help anyone in any situation iDlABL0: And they are easily liked and loved because of their patience and guidance for others Female: And your one of those people iDlABL0: Yes, I am iDlABL0: Being a part of this small selection comes with great disadvantages tho iDlABL0: Disadvantages that alot of people do not realize Female: Like? iDlABL0: It is a lonely existence to always wanna better yourself and make sure you do not make a mistake iDlABL0: Because it's easy to see the faults and flaws of others iDlABL0: It is almost impossible to relate iDlABL0: This is the biggest flaw of this small selection iDlABL0: We can not relate iDlABL0: We can not sympathize Female: So you don’t feel sorry for others when that ask advice iDlABL0: Which is why the words " mean, coldhearted, asshole "  and so one are being thrown at us without mercy iDlABL0: I don't feel sorry for a person that has put themselves into a sitaution that was clearly their own fault iDlABL0: I understand iDlABL0: But feeling sorry ? iDlABL0: No Female: It’s hard to believe you have been called that iDlABL0: Every human being is unique and has their own learning growth and experiences iDlABL0: I accept that iDlABL0: I respect that iDlABL0: But I have zero tolerance for the one that plays a victim when he/she is just too blind to see they were the instigator iDlABL0: And yes, i have been called many names iDlABL0: But as a positive side to that ... iDlABL0: I have also been called very loving things iDlABL0: Both of them are acceptable to me iDlABL0: Cuz everyone i meet perceives me in a different manner Female: So is that why you are so easy to get along with iDlABL0: In the time I met you you've seen a very uninterested side of me just as a very mature side that's able to advice iDlABL0: But my kids see a whole different side iDlABL0: I'm not easy to get along with iDlABL0: On the contrary iDlABL0: People think i'm easy to get along with iDlABL0: because I don't judge a book at all iDlABL0: No matter if I just seen the cover or read it from beginning to end iDlABL0: All that book will get from me is acceptance iDlABL0: And these days ... that's very rare iDlABL0: Which makes people comfortable around me Female: It’s kinda like the story of you and your ex then she didn’t see the same side as me iDlABL0: You can not talk about my ex hunnie Female: Deal iDlABL0: Cuz you only know her by what you heard of me Female: There’s two sides of a story I get it iDlABL0: Which brings us back to " i judge a situation. Not a person in a situation " Female: I’m glad I met you Dev iDlABL0: Why ? Female: You show a different way to look at life, a better way if you will Female: You prove that there is always a positive side Female: And I admire that about you Female: Everyone is lucky to have you, someone who will listen and not be afraid to tell the truth, someone who will hear both sides and not judge it, that’s what makes somebody special iDlABL0: You can look at it that way yes Female: Or? iDlABL0: This all you seeing and summed up just now is only from a friends point of view iDlABL0: Now try to imagine being my sister Female: Your closer to her right? iDlABL0: Every lil thing that she does. I tell hr my honest opnion. But that I still love her iDlABL0: That she should do what she thinks is needed but i don't have to agree to that iDlABL0: That I do not condone certain behavior but that's she's allowed to do what she thinks is right while making clear that i think she's wrong iDlABL0: " But I still love you " iDlABL0: My sister is feeling like she's never enough for me iDlABL0: She feels like she's a failure of being a lil sister to me iDlABL0: Where you see in the movies and the fairytales that a big brother comes to the rescue iDlABL0: i'm the brother that tells her to clean up her own shiid iDlABL0: It was her fault. She needs to solve it iDlABL0: Imagine ... iDlABL0: Having me as your brother Female: And thinking I’m not enough? I wouldn’t want to imagine it iDlABL0: I have a standard disclaimer iDlABL0: Which is " I;m not trying to be rude or mean, but .... " iDlABL0: Because I'm really not trying to be rude or mean iDlABL0: I'm trying to let whoever see the situation from a different side iDlABL0: And lots of people can't handle having a mirror put in front of them in their ugliest personality moments Female: People need to learn to solve there own problems that they won’t always have that one person to depend on all their life iDlABL0: Have you told yourself that in the mirror this morning ? iDlABL0: Or do you need me to put a mirror in front of you right now ? Female: No I’ve learned from past experience iDlABL0: So let me ask you this iDlABL0: You talk about people needa solver their own shiid iDlABL0: But do you do so yourself as well ? iDlABL0: It's easy to point a finger at another when the shoe is on you iDlABL0: It's magic if you're able to not point fingers at all and can be able to work on that same thing yourself tho Female: I have my ways of solving a problem on my own but I also have my ways of getting advice and then solving it To my friends I’m the one that solves problems and I know it for they have told me so but for myself I don’t have anybody for it iDlABL0: Female: People need to learn to solve there own problems that they won’t always have that one person to depend on all their life Female: I know what I said and I wouldn’t change it some people do need to learn and some people just can’t iDlABL0: You just cvhanged it iDlABL0: You changed it from " people " to " Some people " iDlABL0: There is a big difference isn't there ? Female: Everybody needs to learn it yes but the difference is that some people don’t let themselves learn it no matter if they can or can’t I still think everybody should learn iDlABL0: So it isn't just anger that makes you say things without thinking your words through iDlABL0: That mirror is annoying huh ? Female: Heh slightly iDlABL0: In my eyes right now, you are judging people based on their experiences when you still have a lot to learn yourself iDlABL0: So in my eyes, your judging isn't fair iDlABL0: What you just basically said is that everybody should learn to solve their own problems iDlABL0: Note: I never agreed with you on this statement iDlABL0: I think there is nothing wrong with asking for advice iDlABL0: For the knowledge you do not have. Can be taught by another iDlABL0: We do it with out chidlren every day when they go to school Female: I never exactly said that there are somethings that other people can’t fix problems that are too personal those problems should be solved by the person who made them not by somebody else iDlABL0: Socializing, relationships and friendships are just not subjects that are being taught at school iDlABL0: That doesn't mean you can't find a mentor, friend, parent, or anything else to advice you in these Female: Advise yes but fix? Not all people can do that iDlABL0: Female: People need to learn to solve there own problems that they won’t always have that one person to depend on all their life iDlABL0: You did say it Female: I’m not saying you can’t ask advice I have people who come to me send a simple screenshot and say fix it. I’m saying people can’t fix your problems they can advise you in the right direction sure but they can’t fix it alone when it isn’t there problem iDlABL0: So again... You did not mean it the way you said it iDlABL0: Coomunication. Choose your words wisely Female: You can say that yes Female: I’ve got to go it was good catching up ttyl iDlABL0: Ok iDlABL0: Ttyl Female: Bye

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BeDazzleDD The Beginning

Sooooooo, we have figured out what we gonn do with this account.  We're gonna use this account for the crazy IMVU stories I went and still go through. These contain, humor, Crazy people, Gore/Sexual content, Drama, Attentionseekers, Dirty Minds and alot more.  Recap: I have been on IMVU for almost 10 years. In these 10 years I went through alot of experiences and from now on I will share these with you here.  WARNING: Some of these stories may contain Gore/Sexual Explicit content.  From now on every Sunday a new story will appear under #BeDazzleDD.  Tonight the first story will posted. And to give you a lil hint it contains...  #Cucumbers. XD See you in a few hours. 

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Till 3 weeks ago I had no idea what the fuck Tumblr was. Yes, I have been living under a rock. After I was told what it was and took a look around, it didn't interest me enough to make an account. Then, .... I persuaded a friend of mine to start reading manga again and she told me that if she was gonn start manga again, I had to make an account on Tumblr. I have no idea what imma do with this account yet, but we'll see. Suggestions are welcome. Till that time, imma try and find out how this thing works. I have literally no idea. O.o