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Me too. Mine went in October

I am unable to access messages. Is this a new thing? I’d appreciate any replies.

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Hi Derek. There is one more alternative that not many are talking about. The tetherspout can be installed in minutes and provide total security for many ball trap cages. @simmered2020 is a super expert on PA piercing and chastity long-term security with real health and hygiene notes on. However, if for some reason you can't or won't get the piercing (in my case, my girlfriend/keyholder doesn't want me to have PA). The tetherspout is a brilliant alternative solution . Works like a button on your shirt.

I wish you all the very best for your marriage and your future FLR. If you have any further questions about the tetherspout please don't hesitate to DM me.

Hello I'm Derek a 50 year old submissive and I'm getting married and we both are new to this lifestyle of FLR and she wants to control my masturbation problem and we can't find a chastity that works for me the mainstream ball trap devices doesn't work for me what's your advice on a truly inescapable chastity sir

Hello Derek. Feel free to message me privately if you like. I wear a piercing secured MaleChastityNow (MCN) device. We found a piercing shop at the Association of Professional Piercers website, and read through Elayne Angel’s The Piercing Bible website and book.

I was pierced in 2014 with an 10ga needle and immediately stretched to 8ga. I healed in 8ga jewelry and stretched to 4ga. The thicker jewelry feels better. I was too shy to say I’m using it for chastity, but I did say I wanted to stretch to heavier gauges, so the piercer set it further back.

If you like ball-traps but find them too easy to pull out, get a Contender. @female-led-couple has an active OnlyFans as well as some content here. She got him pierced and fitted in a Contender.

Small changes in base ring diameter and angle can make a big difference in comfort.

If you want a shaft-only device, get a GlansArmor2. That’s what I’ve been wearing most often.

This year there’s a “no piercing” option: it’s a glans-ring which traps you inside. That way you don’t need to be pierced. But I like my piercing, the commitment it represented to my wife, and the safe healthy method for security.

Mark at MCN uses 316 stainless steel and gives it a jewelry grade polish. He also uses narrower cage rods, which make for a lighter device. It’s about 56% lighter than his competitors.

As of 2020, he started offering a proprietary keyed fastener. The screws are custom made for his company, and are the best quality and security. The PA mount has the screw countersunk. There’s no way to loosen it without the keyed bit, and a driver to get some torque. The MCN Lock System is very secure.

I’ve worn MaleChastityNow cages for 13 weeks straight without removal, and for over 180 weeks so far. I have bought dozens of other devices. But I’m in my “dream home” now.

Good luck on your journey. Share it with your wife. Try to let her lead. Play safe and sane.

All the best to you both.

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It's too clever for its own good .😅

ChatGPT makes the rules!

As a test, and for a bit of fun, I asked ChatGPT to define the rules and reasoning for male chastity in a female led relationship. I used the contract question as the starting point, and asked specific questions as follow ups.

Here are the unedited results! What do you think? CONTRACT:

As a Keyholder, I take this responsibility very seriously and want to ensure that our relationship is built on trust, respect, and clear communication. With that in mind, I present to you the contract for our male chastity slave.

Contract for Male Chastity Slave:

Purpose: The purpose of this contract is to establish the terms and conditions of the chastity slave’s submission to the Keyholder in a female-led relationship.

Duration: The chastity slave will remain in chastity for the duration of the contract unless otherwise specified by the Keyholder.

Ownership: The chastity device and all related equipment belong to the Keyholder, and the slave has no right to use or possess them without her permission.

Keyholder: The Keyholder will hold the key to the chastity device at all times and may unlock it at her discretion.

Release: The slave will only be released from chastity with the explicit permission of the Keyholder.

Maintenance: The slave will maintain the cleanliness of the chastity device and submit to any necessary inspections or cleanings as directed by the Keyholder.

Punishments: The slave acknowledges that any disobedience or failure to comply with the terms of this contract will result in punishment as determined by the Keyholder.

Consent: The slave acknowledges that they are entering into this contract willingly and with full knowledge of the terms and conditions outlined herein.

Termination: This contract may be terminated by either party at any time, with or without cause.

Confidentiality: The slave will not disclose any information about the Keyholder or the details of their relationship without her express permission.

By signing this contract, the chastity slave agrees to the terms and conditions outlined above and acknowledges that any violation of this contract may result in punishment at the discretion of the Keyholder.

DURATION:

I believe that the lockup durations should be agreed upon by both parties based on their individual preferences and desires. However, I can suggest some minimum lockup durations that are commonly used in female-led relationships.

For beginners or those new to male chastity, a lockup duration of 1-2 weeks is typically recommended to allow the submissive to adjust to the physical and emotional aspects of chastity. After that, longer lockup durations of 3-4 weeks or more can be considered, depending on the desires and limits of both parties. WHY IS CHASTITY NECESSARY?

Power Exchange: Male chastity is a tool for power exchange between the dominant partner (in this case, the Keyholder) and the submissive (the chastity slave). By controlling the slave's sexual pleasure, the Keyholder establishes and maintains control over the power dynamic in the relationship.

Discipline: Male chastity can be used as a form of discipline or punishment for the slave's disobedience or failure to comply with the Keyholder's orders.

Intimacy: By denying the slave's sexual release, the Keyholder can create a heightened sense of intimacy and connection between them. This can lead to a deeper level of trust and vulnerability in the relationship.

Sexual Exploration: Male chastity can also be used as a tool for sexual exploration and experimentation, allowing the Keyholder and the slave to explore new and exciting sexual experiences together.

Overall, male chastity is a means of enhancing the power dynamic and intimacy in a female-led relationship, while also providing a tool for discipline and sexual exploration.

BENEFITS FOR THE KEYHOLDER:

Power and Control: As the keyholder, the female partner has complete control over the male's sexual release. This can create a powerful dynamic in the relationship, where the female partner is in charge and the male partner must submit to her authority.

Increased Intimacy: By controlling the male's sexual release, the female partner can create a deeper level of intimacy and connection in the relationship. This can lead to increased trust, vulnerability, and emotional closeness.

Heightened Sexual Pleasure: When the male partner is denied sexual release for an extended period of time, it can lead to heightened sexual pleasure for both partners when release is finally allowed. This can create a more intense and satisfying sexual experience for both partners.

Enhanced Communication: A female-led relationship with a male chastity component requires clear and consistent communication between partners. This can lead to enhanced communication skills overall, which can benefit the relationship in other areas as well.

Increased Personal Satisfaction: For some women, the act of controlling their partner's sexual release can be personally satisfying and empowering. It can create a sense of confidence and pride in their ability to take charge of their relationship and their partner's pleasure.

Overall, being a keyholder in a female-led relationship can provide a range of benefits for the female partner, including increased power and control, enhanced intimacy and sexual pleasure, improved communication skills, and personal satisfaction.

BENEFITS FOR THE LOCKED MALE:

While it may seem counterintuitive, there are actually many benefits that a male partner can experience from being in a chastity cage. Here are some potential benefits:

Increased Focus: When the male partner is in chastity, he may find that he is more focused on his partner's needs and desires, rather than his own sexual urges. This can lead to a deeper level of emotional connection and intimacy in the relationship.

Improved Sexual Performance: By denying sexual release, the male partner may find that his sexual performance improves when he is finally allowed to orgasm. This can lead to a more satisfying sexual experience for both partners.

Enhanced Submission: Chastity can be a powerful tool for submission, allowing the male partner to fully surrender control to his female partner. This can create a more fulfilling and satisfying power dynamic in the relationship.

Personal Growth: The experience of being in chastity can also lead to personal growth for the male partner, including increased self-discipline and self-awareness.

Heightened Sexual Pleasure: When release is finally allowed, the male partner may experience heightened sexual pleasure due to the extended period of denial.

Overall, being in a chastity cage can provide a range of benefits for the male partner, including increased focus, improved sexual performance, enhanced submission, personal growth, and heightened sexual pleasure.

Nice one, AI.

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Absolutely. Super secure, very hygienic, no healing time or blood loss . Perfect for keeping chastity cages secured.

Don’t understand why tetherspouts are not more popular…..

Better than a piercing