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never getting over that time some radfem weirdo tried to tell me "9 to 5" wasn't anti-capitalist and I was erasing women's struggles by calling it that

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Say what you want to about the X-Men movies, but Rogue telling Logan he should wear a seat belt and him scoffing at her only to immediately be thrown through the front windshield was the most Wolverine™️ thing that could have possibly happened.

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The shogun of sengoku-era america, Abraham Lincoln

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yesterday my friend accidentally attached this image of a dog to his discord message and I keep randomly thinking about it and laughing

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no worries I got that from the original post, your cat captured the right energy

all m/f ships are queer to me because i live in a beautiful world where i ont perceive every cdfdooooooooooooooooooooooooooooodddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddhatatcer ineao

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you'd think he's never had a comfy bed in his life the way he always chooses to look as sad as possible and sleep on the floor next to one of his three beds

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"They should have been bullied more."

The idea that some people deserve or need to be traumatized and abused into being "fixed" is also the same principle behind why abuse is such a widely accepted component in the treatment of disabled and pathologized people. Just in case you didn't know.

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I like memes that would be funny 1000 years ago.

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Airport surplus auction will start 2 days ago. Registration ends last week. All interested parties please sign up before the deadline or we will throw everything away.

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Anger is one of the most invalidated emotions in trauma recovery. People often say things like, “Being angry just lets them win,” or “You’re only hurting yourself.” But that isn’t true. Anger is a normal, valid part of healing.

Anger isn’t automatically bad. There’s destructive anger, which lashes out or harms yourself and others, and constructive anger, which helps you understand your pain, your needs, and what boundaries you want to set. Ignoring anger or bottling it up often leads to blow-ups or misdirected frustration later.

For me, learning to feel anger was a turning point. For years I blamed myself for my trauma. Feeling angry at those who hurt me was the first step toward realizing I didn’t deserve what happened. My anger was grief, betrayal, and the part of me that wanted to be safe.

Constructive anger can be a powerful tool. It can:

Motivate you to set boundaries or leave unsafe situations

Help you advocate for change or take action in your own life

Push you toward healing and growth

Anger becomes a problem when it consumes you or causes harm but the feeling itself isn’t bad. Listening to it, understanding where it comes from, and channeling it in safe ways (like journaling, exercise, or creative outlets) can make it part of your healing.

Your anger doesn’t mean they’re “winning.” Sometimes, it means you are because you’re finally putting the blame where it belongs and giving yourself the chance to heal. 

I wrote a longer post about this here. 

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no one talks about how straight up painful it is to be the bigger person when deep in your soul you just want to be a huge bitch about it

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you must be new here

can i be your fuckable loser