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hey????

and with that i will now go hide in my priv bunker with my hockey rpf and buddie fics byeee we should do this more often

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sapnap sitting down to write in his journal like Dear diary. just when I thought it couldn’t get any worse. my dad brother had esex with my best straight friend forever’s ex girlfriend. he and my stepmom are still fighting about everything upstairs. I called my friend skeppy to come get me but he says his helicopter isn’t working when I know it is. SEVENTH GRADE SUCKS!!!!!

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and where is sapnap in all this?

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and where is sapnap in all this?

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no. IT ALL MAKES SENSE

Dream And tommy = prime boys

logan paul and ksi =prime energy drink

what are these four best at? internet beef. drama. engagement. boxing . this is it. ive unlocked it. the TRUTH.

dream and tommy boxing match this summer. this is the hype tweet to pull attention to them oth. engagement. evedybdojsjkalqnznnzkzkzkkk

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hasan and austin’s first reaction to ted cruz wishing dream a happy birthday

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tonight’s been a movie

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HASAN BABY WAKE UP

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FUCK IT IF DREAM CAN FINALLY ADMIT HES AUTISTIC I CAN TOO!!!!!

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hasan and dream autistic test collab stream #trust

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can’t believe this url is canon now

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My bad yall gut reaction 😭😭 going back to my lane now byeeeeeee

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ranboo deleting his qrt im crying he doesnt even have enough spine to defend his stance on not saying the r slur 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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wtf hi 🫢!!

dream used the revive book on me by saying the r word

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IM SORRY A6D. A6D IS MY FRIEND.

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hi guys

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these past few days i've been seeing really weird rethorics that i think should be cleared up (note: this does not reflect my feelings towards the reality of caiti and george's situation, i'm strictly speaking about the debates that have arisen as a consequence of it)

- "the friends are responsible for it" wrong. in this case, the friends are shitty. they're neglective and they worked a girl into a panic over their preconceived mistrust towards the dteam. caiti is not "the baby of the group". she does not share a considerable age difference with the rest of her group. this was a group of equals partying together, where no one was expected to hold more responsability than the rest. thinking something is "weird" doesn't necessarily equal something feels "off". just because my friends think it's weird that i was hooking up with people significantly older than me doesn't mean the situation felt "off".

it's unfair to expect someone to esentially play babysitter - if it hasn't been previously discussed, and especially when all of you are drunk, and roughly the same age. take care of your friends, always, and keep general tabs on what they're doing, who they're with, and most importantly, where they're going. but to expect to keep such an scrutizing and detailed eye on an equal that has the right to have fun as much as you is unfair and unrealistic. when someone's reaction to something unpleasant is having "no reaction", it's not out of the world to miss it. if you find yourself in a situation where you're the friend, don't berate yourself for missing it. sometimes there's no way of catching it until something has happened, and it doesn't mean you have to live the rest of your days keeping your friend in a tight leash.

sometimes these things happen - every day we stay alive, we take risks. humanity struggles with understanding why some things happen "just because", and we are always ready to conjure a "cause" that will ease our fear of uncertainity. there's ways to minimalize those risks, yes, but life like that would esentially look like living in a bubble - and even then, there's just some things you will never be able to avoid.

- "it's not victim blaming, it's victim accountability" that's not a thing in this context. straight up. victim accountability definitely exists, just not in this case. using the term "victim accountability" in the context of avoiding one-off tragedies that have one active perpetrator (ex. a robbery, sexual assault) as opposed to a tragedy that is considered an accident (ex. a fire, a car crash; in both cases we can all agree there is no actual intent behind the situation) is tracherous and a veil term to soften the blow of calling it victim blaming.

we have to draw a bold line between "should not have left the stove on" to prevent a fire <- fire is not a sentient beinig that has the conscience of wanting to start a fire. fire is not at blame because it doesn't feel blame // "should not have drunk before driving" <- the road you drive on isn't sentient. it can't push you off the road intentionally. if you crash into another car, the person behind the wheel is definitely sentient, but definitely not at blame, since they did not want to crash into someone (in the situation where you did not crash into someone with the intent of crashing into someone else) and "should have known wearing a skirt that short would increase the chances of someone else doing something bad to you" <- your behavior should not be linked to someone else's misbehavior.

it is not your responsability to measure your behavior to appease to someone's misbehavior. whilst they're still steps you can take to minimize the risk of something happening, someone else's actions will never be your responsability, not even partly. you are not responsible for someon'e elses misconduct. those who have the capacity to misconduct (the intent, the lack of social conscience, etc.), will do it -if not to you, to someone else.

someone else's behavior will never be anyone else's responsability but their own. you may play a part in it, as everyone acts as a reaction to their context (in which everyone is included) but it will never be your responsability. and i need everyone, especially young kids, to understand that.