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𝐏𝐢𝐜𝐤 𝐚 𝐓𝐨𝐦 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐒𝐮𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐫 - 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐈𝐝𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐳𝐞𝐝 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞-𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐯𝐬. 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐀𝐜𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞-𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫

Hello and welcome to a PAC I promised for Brazilian Valentine's Day and then didn't deliver. Welp, here I am now! This is entirely based on @vantaesfairie's PAC, which is here. I divided this PAC in two sections, one longer than the other, because the first is about the dream partner and the second is about the real one. It was funny: While writing the dream one I only got a few things, but when I got to the real person, I started getting all sorts of different details and etc, which makes me think that it was, obviously, because now I was talking about a living, breathing person. Also, if you felt dragged by the first part of this reading, don't worry. I got dragged as well. It's life. I also chose Tom and Summer for obvious reasons.

Also, this PAC is cursed :) It didn't want to be posted, so I hope it at least brings someone joy. Disclaimer: Tarot does not replace any sort of advice from a trusted professional that went to college for 8+ years to be there. It also does not always get things right. The future changes all the time and a responsible tarot reader can only assure 80% of their readings will be correct at any given point in time. Remember to take what you look at and go “huh, that could be me,” and leave the rest. Be conscious about your tarot content consumption and drink lotsa agua, amigo(a)(x).

Pile 1

Signifiers for you to know if this is your pile: You might be very emotional. You could be into photography (and have a blog dedicated to it). You could also be into plays. You might like or have a more dark-academia inspired aesthetic. You might have been born in Spring or like flowers. You could be heterossexual. You could have a (repressed or not) fear of commitment, or have been non-committal before. You could have a hourglass body. You could be considered tall. Horror could be your favorite genre. You could like to wear the color black, or have black as your favorite color. You might hear the sound of car horns all the time. You could be of mixed race. You could have been born in the month of December, July or May. You could be a Capricorn, Virgo or Sagittarius (or have those in any position in your chart). You could like the sound of rain or rainy weather in general.

Cards: Magician, Five of Swords, Six of Swords, Eight of Wands, Wheel of Fortune rx, Nine of Cups rx, Hierophant, Emperor.

Your Idealized Life-Partner:

Pile 1, your idealized life partner seems to be someone who can accomplish anything. They might even be rich, a CEO, or just someone who has an entrepreneurial feel to them. Definitely someone who is a bit of a daredevil. In your head, they are charismatic, have a good smile, a good career and a good life. They might like to transit through expensive restaurants, have an expensive taste and an expensive wardrobe. This is someone who definitely wears things who scream luxury, who people know are powerful in some way or another. With the Five of Swords, you might also want someone cutthroat, confident, who is not afraid to leave bad situations behind. Your idealized partner is a person who oozes what some call "masculine energy," someone who is not afraid to demonstrate they are in charge.

With the Six of Swords, they also need to be someone who went through a lot in life. Someone who's brooding a lot, a Bruce Wayne kind of vibe. Tortured, sad, someone who understands how hard life can be. This is also someone who is good with taking people out of this situation, who can care for you, who can give you strength, and who can take you from point A to point B emotionally (and, for some, sexually too). With the Eight of Wands, this person also must be someone who can let things go easily. I keep envisioning a person with an acoustic guitar, at the beach, with an easy smile on their face.

You might also not want someone who is fleeting, with the Wheel reversed. Your idealized partner is not someone who changes their mind, their moods or their body. Someone who stays the same, someone solid, someone fixed. You want someone with both feet on the ground. This also segues nicely into the Nine of Cups reversed, someone who doesn't drink maybe, or someone who doesn't like to party, doesn't like to go out, doesn't like to have a good time with friends, and who prefers to stay at home with you, themselves or a dog. You might also want someone who is confident, but keeps this confidence in until it's needed. Someone who's charismatic, but introverted, who doesn't lure people in. Someone who likes to go out, but to the beach or easy going places, like a restaurant, a cafe, a museum, or places like that.

With the Hierophant, they either need to be very traditional when it comes to religion (which might be important to some of you) or traditionally masculine, take the male role seriously (a husband and father, strictly). They need to be able to dominate, to possess, in a lot of different ways, to mark their territory somehow. People need to look at them and you and know they "own" you somehow. Someone you can bow to in a way, someone you can respect. They have their hand on the small of your back at all times and back off if you wanna touch my partner (but in a way that doesn't come off as totally possessive and it's actually sort of cool if you think about it, like he's protecting you and all that) (and yes, that was a bit sarcastic, but don't shoot the tarot reader, I have a family and so do you, and you don't wanna go to jail because of me).

With The Emperor, the Hierophant is solidified. Someone who exudes power, but who is a very good emotional support, someone who has their life together, who can support you and a family with their job, who can help others in need if that is necessary. Someone who, again, rules over all. With the Star, your ideal partner might even be someone who's famous, someone who has a je ne sais quoi, someone who's popular, who everyone wants, but only you can get. This is someone that is sort of a trophy partner, who you can show off, but better yet, someone who can show you off, to all of their likewise popular peers. Someone you can show in pictures with, travel, and generally live the high life with.

The Life-Partner You'll End Up With:

Cards: Seven of Pentacles, Lovers, Moon, Two of Pentacles, Ace of Swords rx, Ace of Cups, King of Swords, Six of Cups rx.

The person you'll end up with is someone that I'm seeing is calm on the outside and very anxious on the inside (although they can be very patient, I'll get to that). They give me shy person vibes, one of those people who stay in the corner, who hide their faces with their hands in pictures. Someone who shakes slightly when they drink coffee, who might not be able to take caffeine very well. This is someone who understands that nothing in life comes easy, or free, which is disappointing to them, but expected. They are someone who hates waiting, but who are still willing to do a lot of for the stuff they truly want to have, one of which might be you someday.

They can be, however, someone who just hates to sit around for things to arrive, so if it's not something they truly truly want, they're out of there in a minute. Always on the go to an exaggerated degree. They might have had several partners, several jobs, several different interests, etc. Different from the Wheel reversed, they are the Wheel upright in some cases. Always on the go. All of these ambitions are definitely on the realm of the same, though (so they might have a career goal they want and all their jobs were more or less leading there in some way, for example). Although, for some of you, they change everything often. They might even change their hair, style, mode of speaking, every 3-4 years (likely less for fashion).

With the Lovers, this is your soulmate though, the person you'll truly want to end up with. This is not a game or a joke, this is the one who'll be able to handle you as well as you can handle them. They might not be as solid as you wish they were, or as shiny like the Star, but they are very very interesting in their own regard. They also do have that magnetism that you are looking for, that thing that lures you to them. To some, it might even be a magnetism that lures everyone. This person might have no problem finding partners and their lives always seem to be going up in that regard. They are lucky in love.

With the Moon, this person is mysterious in someway. There's just a lot about them you don't know. They might have nightmares often, have a darker style of clothing, a darker way of expressing themselves... Something about them in general is clouded in shadows. Someone who might have alluring eyes, that when you look into you know that they are hiding something, something interesting about them that you can't wait to find out, but that few (the close ones, mostly) do. They might also look very good in the dark colors I mention and have a preference for the night. A night owl.

With the Two of Pentacles, htis is someone hardworking and who is always juggling things. At first, they might not have the flashiest jobs, but they have lots of them, to make ends meet. Their willingness to always be on the go, their energy is what propels them forward and what makes them create opportunities out of thin air. They are never gonna be out of a job, for example, even "shitty" jobs, because they can always run and get another one. Lucky in love, somewhat lucky in business, too. They also seem to be someone who'll achieve their goals eventually, because they are so ambitious (what those goals are, however, I can't tell, because it's different for everyone). Either way, this is someone very passionate, but very lost. They can also be quite funny, quite sweet. They are more delicate than your ideal partner, more vulnerable. They could have been a punching bag at school, and hold the scars near (which is why they are so shy), but that is for some of you (although I do believe that most people who picked this pile's partners holds some sort of scarring over things that people said or did to them).

With the Ace of Swords reversed, this doesn't seem to be a very logical person. They might be emotionally driven. They could cry or express themselves emotionally in any way very frequently. They give me an artist archetype, or someone who works with people's emotions. They could be a counselor or a psychologist (even through their lack of logic, the goal of picking up this profession here is to help people, to make them understand themselves). With the Ace of Cups here, they like to know that the people around them are well taken care of, that they are happy, and that they, themselves, are happy. That also goes for you, of course. They don't seem to be someone who gives their life to solely to you, because they have a lot of people and things they love. However, their emotional dedication is unmatched. If you have a problem and you ask them to stay home with you, they'll stay, but this communication is important. This is someone who has a lot on their plate, at all times, and they might not be able to see it if you don't let them know.

Now, the King of Swords threw me off, so I took a clarifier and the Chariot came out. The King of Swords seems, to me, the person your life-time partner is becoming. Someone who knows who to give love to, someone who can apply this logic they don't have naturally to things and people. They are growing into a very mature, wisened person. The King of Pentacles being the bottom deck energy also attracted my attention, so throughout the duration of your relationship with them, you are gonna see their energy becoming more fixed, and grounded. They are gonna flourish right before your eyes into a full person (and that doesn't necessarily mean they are very young, people have coming of age stories even in their thirties. I know because I live with a thirty-something year old I call my sister). They might not be the person you bow to, but they are definitely gonna be your equal and someone you are proud to say is your life-partner. In fact, many people, upon hearing you're dating them, might be overjoyed because they are wonderful (and your perfect match in every way). There might even be tears involved, for some. This person might have been through hell with relationships, or you have before you meet them, so it'll be like a glass of cold water in the dessert.

Last, but not least, with the Six of Cups reversed, this might be someone who's not very good with their past. Doesn't like talking about it. They won't conceal it, but they won't dwell on it, like an open wound. You'll need to be more careful with your actual life-partner than you'd have to be with your idealized one. As much as they can and will take care of you in your time of need, you'll have to do the same. You'll put in your weight in this relationship too. They might also not have a good relationship with their family, to some, with friends, to others, with people in general. They could have been quite hurt, again, so thread carefully, because if this person lets you in, you are surely someone they trust and they are a keeper through and through.

Some signifiers for your Life-Partner: Might be into plays. They could like to wear the color black often. They could wear hoodies often as well. Their favorite mythological creature could be the vampire. Their style could be dark-academia. They could like to watch period-dramas or old films in general. The moon came out, so this reinforces what I said about their mysterious nature, but they could also have a connection to the moon in general. They could have been born on the months of September or July. They could have the signs of Sagittarius or Gemini anywhere in their charts, but especially in the 10th or 5th house. Considering these are numbers that came out, you could also meet them in 5 months, 5 years, etc, the same going for 10. Their initials could be P, F or W.

Pile 2

Signifiers for you to know if this is your pile: You could enjoy photography. You could be loyal. You could identify as gay or queer. You could be warm toned and considered a colder person, or vice versa (or even warm toned and considered warm, and again vice versa). You could have a close relationship to the moon. You could have been born in April. You could have been born in Winter or Fall. You could like to wear hats or accessories. You could have piercings. You could have dark, black or red hair. You could be thin. You could be chubby. You could have a medium skin tone. You could have a heart shaped face. You could have Capricorn or Taurus anywhere in your chart, but especially in the 6th or 10th house. These signs can also be retrograde or you could have a retrograde sign on your chart. You initials could be Z, P, K, N, H, W, J or X.

Cards: King of Swords, King of Pentacles, High Priestess, Seven of Cups, Hermit, Blank Card™, Moon, Lovers.

This is someone who gives me wise vibes. Someone who is floating above the ground in a cloud of peace and love (on planet Earth). Someone who is definitely a guru. That's the general gist of what I'm seeing here. Your idealized partner is someone who's smart, who has a sharp smile and a loving aura to them.

With the King of Swords, this might be someone who's good with their words, who's sharp. They are someone intelligent, well-read, even well-travelled. Could speak many languages, could be an avid reader, all of those. They are also someone who is in good possession of their mental faculties, who are able to logically understand many things about life, even if they haven't experienced them empirically. The King of Pentacles beside this card, also showcases you want someone who is grounded, stable, loyal and, to some, older than you. Someone who's established in someway (although maybe not as much as Pile 1's person). The dad from Full House, for example. Has a good job, three kids, is a widower. Perfect. You might have a thing for "dad archetypes" because they embody this stability you are looking for.

With the High Priestess, your idealized partner is also someone who embodies this knowledge of spirituality, who understands the occult or who just understands in general. They could be someone highly intuitive, who can read people well just by looking at them. Someone who doesn't get in trouble often, someone squeaky clean. In your head, you might also want a person who can read you effortlessly, without you having to explain what you want. Someone who, again, understands, and most of all understands you and what you are all about without the vulnerability on your part.

You might also want someone who has many options, with the Seven of Cups, someone who is not just one thing. They could be an artist, but in that middle they're a director, a musician, a painter. Someone who has multiple jobs, multiple interests. Your idealized partner is multi-faceted. An alternative to this interpretation would be someone who has a lot of anxiety (as the Seven of Cups can represent that) and who controls it well, who has a busy life but can balance it perfectly. They should be, in your head, someone who easily gives time to you, kids, dogs, work and hobbies. Someone with their shit together, basically, in all areas of life.

With the Hermit, your idealized partner is also someone who knows themselves well, who has been through a dark night of the soul and came back, who, again, understands. Someone who is alright with spending time by themselves, someone independent. This person might also be cuddly, someone you can sleep next to (which is a message to someone). Still, what this card mostly speaks about is, again, a guru sort of figure, who learned from their own lives and now can help others with this. This card also gives me a lot of peace, a lot of calm. Someone who is a patient parent, partner and figure, who never, not once, loses their calm or needs help themselves (at least not for long).

With the blank card, you want someone who's always surprising you, who you never know completely. Someone who's never dull, even in all of their dullness, who has a rich inner life. With the Moon, it's the same thing. In fact, the High Priestess would also fit here. Someone who is more than they show, and who show this side only to you, because you are the one they trust the most out of everyone else in their life. This is a good segue to the Lovers. Your idealized partner is your soulmate, the one who completes you, who might be like you in every way even. Someone who you know is your soulmate, your twin flame, someone who is your destined one. Someone to whom you can also show these hidden parts of your life and never be judged. Your number one person.

The Life-Partner You'll End Up With:

Cards: Star, Three of Pentacles, Blank Card™, Four of Cups, Three of Swords rx, Six of Pentacles, Queen of Swords, Emperor.

With the Star, the person you'll end up with might be way less calm than you want them to be. Again, I don't like giving these sorts of messages, but to SOME of you they might even have some sort of notoriety somewhere. They are more similar to the person who pile 1 idealized (but not to an extreme extent, just here and there) to the one you idealized. They could be popular, rich, famous, or good with their business. A showy person, an entrepreneur, an orator in anyway. This person could have been valecditorian (if you are American) or top of their class (as much as, for some, they could have been the complete opposite, no in between. This person travels by extremes, because they are known for this). They are good with words, but more to the funny extent. They could weave sentences that are quite unique, for a few of you. For others, they could speak very formally, but if you listen closely, you'll realize their speech is full of double entendres. Definitely just as well read as you'll wish them to be, but with a caveat. They don't necessarily read the self-help, non-fiction books, but everything: Comics, manga, fantasy, drama, horror (big with them), whatever catches their fancy (even cereal boxes). Much more chaotic in their approach to life. They could also be the one everyone wants to be like, the one everyone loves (or hates, again, no in between). They're a wish fulfilment to many.

With the Three of Pentacles they are someone who is always with a large group. Life of the party situation, but also, obviously at work. Amazing at working in a team, and could be the head easily (however, I see that they might not want this often, if at all). They like to talk to people as well, and could be quite extroverted. This is someone everyone has a good word to say about: How funny, how witty, how devilishly smart, how cunning. Someone who understands people, like you wished them to, but for worse. Good at manipulation (although I sense most of you can see right through that), and sometimes doesn't even do it on purpose. They are simply so good with getting others to do what they want, or in convincing others of their opinion, that it doesn't compute that someone would go against them without this person being able to sway them. They can make their friends laugh, but perhaps not a room, so maybe they have a weird or wacky sense of humor. Still, they are charming, and good enough that, one on one, everyone ends up falling for them a little bit.

They are also someone who, again, prefers to be part of the team, and they are quite good with their hands. They have many things they are good at, actually, but they aren't proficient in all. It's interesting, cause I feel like everything you wished for, you're sort of getting, but slightly to the left than what you truly envisioned (chaotic, definitely), sort of like the Universe's personal "prank" on you. This person is here to teach you how to let loose. They are more immature than the dad archetype you wanted and someone who might not be interested in ever being like that, ever (although they can be stable in their own way).

With the Blank Card this is a person who always has something up their sleeve, who is always coming up with a new idea, a new way of seeing life. They're way more exciting than dull. All over the place would be a good way to describe it. They are definitely not someone who you can predict very often, and you might be horrified by that, cause you might not enjoy uncontrolled surprises. They love it, though, the look on your face when they come up with something that can be ghastly, or insane. Like a streamer I watch told his girlfriend that (I don't exactly remember what it was, so I'll replace it) he wants to build the biggest straw horse in the world, and that he wants to save money for that, so he can get into the guinness world records book (or something to this effect). His girlfriend (now fiancé) was annoyed and said that he needed to spend his money on things that make sense. He told her that this wasn't hurting anyone and that it was something that made sense. The conversation ended with them agreeing that they need to support each other's dreams, and that includes her support of his stupid dream of building the biggest straw horse in the world (very reasonable and true). I feel like this is something that's valid for this pile too, except that this person will ACTUALLY build the damned straw horse and you'll have to give it to them, it looks pretty sick actually (not to say that the streamer I watch won't achieve his dream, I believe you Spiff, even if I don't remember what the dream is exactly).

With the Four of Cups, this person might get tunnel vision quite easily. Like I said, if this person has a goal, however stupid (straw horse stupid), they'll achieve it, and they might become obsessed with it. They could overlook opportunities, and their life, in pursuit of what they truly want. However, I'm also sensing that this person could be swayed by pleasures quite easily, or get lazy if they aren't "hyperfixating" on this (or not interested enough). A toddler's attention spam. They could also fall into depression or anxiety and just see that, no way out---buuuut I believe they have somehwat of a sunny disposition, with the next card, so I won't affirm this with too much security (for some, though, yes). They could also become obsessed with people easily and think that everyone's the one, when they are not (relatable stuff). Very romantic, very confident in themselves (in this regard and the achieving things regard) to an extreme (but not dangerous, just endearing) extent.

With the Three of Swords reversed this person definitely had a lot on their plate, BUT they definitely hide it away to keep their sunny disposition. I don't think it's necessarily a secret, you know, everyone knows their story, their traumas and etc, but they talk about it and then move on to more fun themes. They live on in spite of all of this, in spite of the past hurts, and, to some, even alongside them. They are a part of this person through and through, but not their driving force. They are at peace with the pain of life, and the pain that will come, and this will never prevent them from doing anything. Feel the fear and do it anyway. The Self-Respect essay that Joan Didion wrote for vogue (it's been a while since I mentioned Didion here, and it's the same essay I used as the basis of my Didion inspired PAC): "Like Jordan Baker, people with self-respect have the courage of their mistakes. They know the price of things. If they choose to commit adultery, they do not then go running, in an access of bad conscience, to receive absolution from the wronged parties; nor do they complain unduly of the unfairness, the undeserved embarrassment, of being named corespondent. If they choose to forego their work—say it is screenwriting—in favor of sitting around the Algonquin bar, they do not then wonder bitterly why the Hacketts, and not they, did Anne Frank. [...] They are willing to invest something of themselves; they may not play at all, but when they do play, they know the odds." They understand themselves perfectly.

With the Six of Pentacles, this person is wary of other people who want things from them. The truth is that people have ripped them to shreds and they have helped every single one, only to then be left with nothing. People did not care about them one bit. The pockets were full of holes and they had no idea that they would never be satisfied. So, they might not give easily, but when they do, they do it generously. They might make large donations to charity (if they have the money), help the homeless, volunteer in several places, and the best of all is that you're not gonna know any of it until you are either together or you bump into them doing these charity runs. To them, it's something everyone should do, and not necessarily something to brag about. Very lowkey about how much they actually help others (if they believe these others are worthy of it, and are not gonna just take, take and take).

With the Queen of Swords, their mode of thinking is a little softer, like a mother who points out the flaws in logic in an argument with their children. Someone who doesn't run over people with their own ideas often (although they do give their opinion quite boisterously) and who understands that there is a certain arrogance to just affirming things without giving space for it all to end up being a lie. They also know that others have their own way of seeing life and fluctuate between respectful and genuinely interested in knowing why others think the way they do, and what makes them so different from them. They are a truly unique person in this regard, this want to understand and not merely judge. They are not here to judge, in fact, if at all. Sure, they are a person who has flaws, many of them, and they will eventually make a comment or have a less than pleasant attitude, but overall they hope people can have the same attitude as them about the whole thing and understand that they are merely a person (which is not as common as they may wish it was).

Last, but certainly not least, we got the Emperor. This is the confident, boisterous, strong. I don't really think this person wants to be the man of the house per se, or the boss, but they are definitely a father figure (although not the soft dad archetype, more the fun, daring dad archetype, the one people have crazy stories about like "My dad brought several stray animals home and one time he adopted a spider" or "one time my dad fought a bear while drunk" or "my dad tried to set his school on fire in the fourth grade" (actual story from one of my family members, didn't say which, and the fire didn't take). Things like that). They are ready to set the rule if it needs be and they'll be wonderful at disciplining children (and then taking them out to ice cream or an amusement park, when they're being good or when they understood the lesson). They can be stricter than you believe they are, although they're just as chaotic and free. All in good measure, a balance of sorts. Once you are married, you'll see how quickly he'll like to organize things, put everything in its proper place, so it is all divided equally: Money, chores, etc. They like to co-rule the place though, so they need someone who's just as strong by their side. Someone who'll listen to them and understand, someone who'll agree with their order of things. All in all, a stronger leader than you believe them to be, which will be very welcome, especially if you are someone who can't organize things as well. They'll make sure all is taken care of.

Some signifiers for your Life-Partner: They could be bissexual. They could like the color orange or wear it a lot. Their favorite mythological creature could be the vampire OR they've been compared to vampires a lot. They could have no pets or own a dog. They could be somewhat famous. They could have PTSD or, likely, complex PTSD. They could be white or like the color white. Alternatively, they could have darker skin. Their body type could be mesomorph. They could have a skater boy/girl style or a dark academia one. They could be considered tall. They could have been born on the month of November. They could have Cancer anywhere in their chart, but especially in the 11th or 9th (and also I keep hearing that one of their family members might have had this disease or even died of it. They could also like the song Cancer by My Chemical Romance). They could also have a retrograde sign there. Their initials could be S or T.

Pile 3

Signifiers for you to know if this is your pile: You might be in your 30s. You could have an inverted triangle body. You couuld be curvy. Your style could be emo or leaning towards that. You could be quite loyal. You could have been born in the months of June or May. You could like sunlight a lot, or simply see it a lot. You might like to watch a lot of documentaries. Your favorite animals could be spiders, foxes or snakes, or you embody qualities of those animals (you might also see them often). You could be a dominant Venus or Saturn. You could have Taurus and Sagittarius anywhere in your charts, but especially in the 12th, 8th or 7th. You could be a water dominant. You could have the master number 44 somewhere in your numerology, or this number is quite important. Your initials could be F, H, L V, Y and T.

Cards: King of Wands, Eight of Swords, Nine of Wands, Five of Cups, Sun, Queen of Pentacels, Ace of Pentacles rx, Strength.

Your Idealized Life-Partner:

With the King of Wands, your idealized life partner might be the Christian Grey archetype. They are confident, they take no shit, they are the possessive man, the passionate, fiery guy. Similar to pile 1, but not quite. This has more of a juvenile vibe, a bad-boy kind of thing. Someone who likes to have fun, to go out, to take you for a spin in their car. Someone who'll make you feel like you are in heaven in every way, who'll reform only for you baby, you are the person who's gonna tame the beast. They are also, obviously, a King, and not a Knight, so you might want them to be older, to be bigger in every way.

With the Eight of Swords, I am trying to keep it PG, but this also reminds me of Christian Grey. This is what you want them to do to you. This pile is quite horny. I feel like your idealized partner is the one who's gonna give you a great time altogether, but who's more passionate than traditionally romantic. With the Nine of Wands beside the Eight, though, I believe you also want them to take care of your bruises after you're done, to soothe you. They might also, in your head, be someone who has been bruised before, but who can hold his own in a fight. Someone who stands tall for what he believes in, and who can embody a more macho archetype. Masculine energy, like pile 1, again, regardless of gender.

With the Five of Cups, you want someone who understands the pain of life and with the Sun, someone who rises above it completely. Someone who likes to dance in spite of the rain, who'll always be happy go lucky. They're never sad and they're always available to give you some form of contentment, be it an adventure or sex. They might also cook and make you a big breakfast when you're down, or sing and be able to serenade you. The stereotype that comes to mind is the latino one. The fiery man with a big heart, big passionate feelings, who always knows how to conquer their person, to seduce them, etc.

With the Queen of Pentacles, your ideal partner, again, knows how to keep their house clean and in order. They're more of a house-partner to you, so you might want a traditional relationship (in the sense that someone stays in and someone goes to work, but you're not the one staying in, etc). You might also want someone softly grounded, who lays down the rule but doesn't boss you around (outside of you-know-where), so strong, but soft when they have to be. They could also be good with finances, with kids, everything. Kind of guy to wear an apron and to make you dinner when you're to tired to cook.

With the Ace of Pentacles reversed, I took the Queen of Swords clarifier. Again, a queen, so someone who has a balanced feminine/masculine energy could be your idealized partner. Yes confident, yes they take no shit, except for your shit, that they always take because they love and respect you. With these two cards, I sense you want someone who knows what to do when you are both down on your luck, who can get out of financial hurdles scat free. Someone who understands the world and who is able to make money easily, in spite of it all.

With the Strength card, your ideal partner is, again, strong, but in all facets of life. A source of extreme sunlight, capable of burning eyes, always there to protect your honor, but also perfectly able to take it when you are not in the mood for it. Someone who's never going to go against you that much, who'll always be tamed by you, like I said before. In short, someone who'll leave you perfectly free to do whatever, but who'll be there when you need an adventure or two.

The Life-Partner You'll End Up With:

Cards: Lovers, Sun, Queen of Pentacles, Ten of Swords, Eight of Pentacles rx, World, Six of Wands, Judgement.

Like Pile 1, you're gonna end up with your soulmate. Yay! I feel like all piles will end up with one form of soulmate or another, but this was so prominent that the Lovers came out. I usually don't read the Lovers as soulmate often, because I read it as a choice between two things, considering that during all of my years of practice this is the interpretation that ended up being right maybe 98% of the time. That being said, in this reading I think it means both and then some. Your person is definitely someone who gives love, who is good with other people and who people fall in love with often. That being said, they might also be quite good at making decisions and are not afraid of deciding between two lovers with a frightening speed. If they are with someone and they meet you, and you're better for them, they'll break up with the person they're with, easy as that. There's no questioning it with this person, very decisive.

With the Sun, you will get a sunny person, someone that gives a lot of light, a lot of love, just like you want it. They're always there when you need them with a hug, a joke, but not sure with a home-cooked meal (we'll see though). Either way, whatever you need, they'll bring. I don't think this person is drama free at all, I believe they have their fair share, because they could be quite passionate (with the force of the Sun, other things come along), but the sunny disposition outweighs most of the things that have going against them. Some people might not like how sunny this person is, though, because it's to a fault. They could be someone who seems not to take serious things all that seriously, even when it's important. That being said, I'm seeing that for most of you this person does know how to separate things, it's just that people think they're faking it. They can't be that happy ALL the time, it's psychologically improbable. And true, your life-partner might be lying here and there not to burden other people. More on that later.

With the Queen of Pentacles, I see they like to stay at home, definitely. I don't see they are a homemaker, though. I'm sure they know their way around a stove, and how to prepare a meal, but they don't have this love for it that you wish your future life-partner had, I don't think. Those of you who didn't want that will be happy to know that this person was well raised and knows how to hold their own. Don't expect them to pay attention to all chores though, because I see they can be a little forgetful. If you put down a chore division and routine, they might bitch and moan quite a lot. Lazy is what I'm seeing here, but not enough that they'll go against you, so they will do everything you say because they know it's important (they just hate it). They also like comforts, such as pretty expensive clothes, food, travelling, etc, all that the material Earth has to offer (this is the Queen of Pentacles after all). They are very sensual (in the five senses sort of way), and like the good stuff in life. Whether or not they can afford it, it varies.

With the Ten of Swords, here's what your person is hiding. People might pick up on it and that's why they think your spouse is faking their sunny disposition. The Ten of Swords here tells me of hardships past. We all got them, especially in this day and age, but this person hides them behind lock and key. I mean it, you'll NEVER hear about it, and if you do, consider yourself VERY LUCKY. You might hear rumors here and there, or a family member will say something, but this person might be on the toxic positivity side because they'll never come out and say it themselves. Sure, as your relationship progresses, they might finally say "Oh, shitty thing happened to me when I was like fourteen or something," but it'll always be in a joking tone, or as a comment to something you said. I feel like they wanna tell, they wanna say something, but they can't. They just can't do to others what was done to them. Maybe people threw their pain and burdens on them quite a lot in the past, and they simply don't wanna be that person, so they won't be. This is to an unhealthy degree? Perhaps, but I am seeing that they've been doing this for so long that they have mastered hiding their problems and solving them on their own. I think with a lot of talk and a lot of patience and a LOT of reassurance you might be able to coax a LITTLE bit out of them, but for the majority? No. Not really. You might die without knowing everything that went down with this person, and that's ok. In a way, they are protecting you as well. That also varies from person to person.

With the Eight of Pentacles reversed, again, this person might be quite lazy. Alternatively, they might not have had to work hard for everything they have in life. This is giving me rich child vibes, or someone who inherited a business (not necessarily a company, guys, this is not a Wattpad fanfic) and works on that now. They don't have to work hard, so they can just lay around, chill, do stuff they wanna do. This person might have a LOT of hobbies. They are more of a do rather than talk person, so they might go out and seize the world often. So, lazy at home, and when they're on the street, they like adrenaline. They like amusement parks, bungee jumping, jumping out of a plane with a parachute, things like that. Because they don't have to worry about work, either because they have people working for them, or because they never had to look for a job (or a secret third option: They made it big when they were younger through their hardwork and then never had to work again in their life) they indulge in the pleasures life has to offer. It's not all play and no work, though, so when there's something happening, they'll go and solve it. They just hate doing it. Life, to this person, should be all about being alive and not necessarily slaving away in an office. They wish the world was a better place, a perfect place. Still, it is not.

With the World, there's two ways of reading this card. One, this person has everything, like I said, and doesn't need much more in life other than perhaps a life-time partner, kids, the whole family thing etc (if they even want all that, because I'm sensing that, for some of you, maybe not). The second way is that this person likes to be worshipped somehow. They like the idea that you think they're so attractive and they might go out of their way to make themselves so, with you front and center in their minds. They want you to think they are the most beautiful person you have ever seen in your life, so they'll keep themselves well groomed, clean, well dressed and smelling good. Some of your persons like the idea of being a trophy partner. Others simply like when you look at them with loving eyes. They can get quite shy when you compliment them, though, even if this was the eventual goal of it all. I also sense that this person brings the feeling of the World with them wherever they go. People know they have everything. They operate with some form of peace that is palpable.

The Six of Wands also speaks of this. Whatever it is that this person wanted in life, they either already got or will get soon, by the time you meet them. They have the success story, although I'm not sure they go around telling everyone. They might believe that the less people know, the better. That way, they can't come and disrupt your happiness. Again, there's a story there, but your person is not gonna tell. They also love to help people get to the level they are at now and might invest in small businesses, or help their friends and loved ones with anything they can, without expecting things in return. They give because they have it. People around them might love them, might not believe they are real because they are so happy, generous and kind all the time. This is a person who has a great appreciation for life and all that it has to offer.

Last, but not least, with the Judgement card there are two ways of reading this card: One, your person has been quite judgy. Two, your person has been quite judged. To some, it's both. They were that person who got pretty bullied and then bullied other people, or the ones that bullied them, just as visciously. They became quite hateful, resentful, and started to lay it pretty heavily on people who didn't deserve it. They hate this part of them so much, and they still do it sometimes, subconsciously. Like "Look at that girl's hair" or "That person's just faking a style for attention" or "God, that accent sucks" things like that. To others, these are things that have been said about them, and though they harbored a hatred of these people they decided not to become like them (although a little bit of it has lingered, and they still have judgy thoughts in their heads). No way around it, this person judges a little bit, but less and less as the years go by. They might also believe in divine judgement, and that they have been or will be punished accordingly someday. That goes for all the people who put them, and others, through unnecessary pain and misery. Your person can be quite fixated on the idea of revenge, not to a violent degree, but a karmic one. They might even like distributing karma themselves (as I said, they could have bullied the bullies) and has no fear of showing their pleasure when an asshole has been punished accordingly. It is what they deserve after all.

Some signifiers for your Life-Partner: They could have a punk or punkish style. They could have dyed hair. Their hair could be red. They could wear glasses. They could have down-turned eyes. They could identify as queer. They could play an instrument. They could like the color purple a lot, especially dark purple. They could be neurodivergent (which is a vibe I got when I read they hated doing chores. Austistic people do that sometimes, but I don't remember the name of it particularly. They could be on the ace spectrum. They could like Winter a lot, or have been born in Winter. They could be quite logical. Comedy could be their favorite genre. They could be born in December or March. They could be a fire dominant. They could be moon dominant. Their initials could be A, P, Z, U or X.

#i chose pile 3 and the life partner signifiers are ME?????#the red hair punk style birthday and even the dominant signs #maybe i'm my own life partner??????? fucking hell

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