drogon1969

[drogon1969]

The mistake is that I'm missing in this scene...

Mmmm...

Tell us where the mistake is in this picture ...

[drogon1969]

The first word that comes to my mind when I look at you...: #uwu

CLICK 👇👇👇

[drogon1969]

If you cannot meet me and treat me and negotiate with me as an equal, then I won’t submit to you.

You’re not my father first. You’re my equal partner first.

You’re my equal first, and if you can’t meet me in that space, as an equal, then nothing else can happen in good faith.

It’s not BDSM if you think me below you before we even negotiate or agree to terms. It’s not BDSM if you assume the power dynamic before anything else. That’s called delusion.

And if you’re delusional enough to think I owe you/you’re entitled to power over me before we even meet as equals… I’m not interested.

I want an incredibly deep and meaningful connection. And yes, eventually, I want to find an M/s relationship.

But I want it based on friendship, and care, and us negotiating from a place of equality first.

I want to agree to _give_ my submission to you. I need to be convinced that it’s in our combined best interest. That you’ll look after me as well as you look after yourself. That our ethics align. I need to trust that you won’t ask me to do things that would damage me.

If you assume you have power over me before I decide to give it?

You’ll lose me entirely. You don’t get to take that from me.

My power is mine. To give or keep as I see fit and needed.

It’s my duty to guard myself, my peace, my happiness.

And if you feel you’re entitled to it… you’ll find yourself playing on your own.

[drogon1969]

10🔥/10🔥

[drogon1969]

New rules

In my last post, I pondered… Now that the concept of “statistically always” has been shown to be achievable, I’m starting to wonder if annual unlock goals make sense. I’m thinking we should reverse the logic. Perhaps the agreement should be I will be expected to be locked 100% of the time and every hour (or fraction thereof) I’m out results in some kind of punishment. I have no idea what that…

[drogon1969]

Eat her pussy until she's running down your chin, then grab her hair and kiss her like your life would fall apart without her

[drogon1969]

Bacaklarını açıp al beni arasına. Dakikalarca yalat amını.

#fantazitutkudur

[drogon1969]

Default Locked

I've had a lot of questions about a previous blog post - Low Key(holding). It seems many couples out there are working to figure out the best, most practical way of working male orgasm control into their relationships.

Most of the questions related to the 'Default Locked' system, where the male is locked unless there is a clear exception in the form of agreed instances where he can be unlocked. As mentioned in that post, this is the easiest, most practical system for the female as there is very limited involvement in the practicalities of the lockup. Her effort is limited towards granting permission (or not) should the male ask to be unlocked for a particular occasion or reason.

As time has gone on, this Default system is the one that my husband and I employ. While I haven't gone so far as to list a set of rules and regulations, this is typically how I go about things:

LOCKING

He is expected to be locked, unless I am explicitly aware of it.

There is no 'time frame' or schedule.

Unlocking does not mean 'orgasm'.

COMMUNICATION

He is not allowed to talk about it, unless I ask him or in case of emergency.

He can message me in advance should he wish to request an unlock.

PERMISSIONS

YES: This is quite fluid, but the main reason why I would grant permission to unlock is if there is a doctor's visit, TSA security at airports or something similar. The expectation is that he will unlock just prior to this, and relock immediately after.

SOMETIMES: Showering and maintenance once every few weeks will permit an unlock as I like him to be completely shaved. If he is unlocking for a shower, I do insist that he wears a tight speedo at all times. This minimizes / prevents erections and touching. Sometimes he requests to unlock for a shower and I will say 'no'. He can use a brush / get creative.

NO: He has in the past asked to be unlocked for exercise, swim training / cycling. initially I used to agree to this, but as the device has become more comfortable and a perfect fit over time, I don't see this as necessary. I love it when he wears running tights or his swim speedo in public - his cage is very discreet, but he gets all shy and bashful which I find adorable.

If I feel like having sex with him, I unlock him. Afterwards, there is an immediate relock.

Once these types of permissions have been established, there is very little work to do. After all, how often does he have a doctor visit, for example ? He knows the answer to most of them, and it's a short message checking in when he wants to request an unlock.

I think long-term that this system works wonders, especially when chastity becomes 'the way things work around here', rather than the fantasy games that many play in short term situations.

[drogon1969]

Ah yes, the Dutch tiktok girlies...

#NGL they're hot

[drogon1969]

Hoping you lubed up those hands with me blindfolded and restricted, anxiously awaiting your probing...

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Latex AMSR

[drogon1969]

Reblog if you’ll fuck me and cum on my face and tits😉

[drogon1969]

Would like to enter me from behind? If my ass gets 2,000 reblogs I’ll publish my pussy 🍑 

[drogon1969]

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[drogon1969]

Oh, #DivineTorture

just want to tie his arms to the bed frame and stroke his cock until he’s sobbing and wailing with every agonizing orgasm that rips through his body

[drogon1969]

[drogon1969]

Gorgeous, perky 🍒 ... pretty face and a twinkle in her eyes... ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️