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Better get ready

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“People don’t accept mothers who drink too much wine, and yell at their child, and call him an a**hole. I get it. I do it too. We can accept an imperfect dad. Let’s face it, the idea of a good father was only invented like thirty years ago. Before that, fathers were expected to be silent, and absent, and unreliable, and selfish, and we can all say we want them to be different. But on some basic level, we accept them. We love them for their fallibilities, but people absolutely don’t accept those same failings in mothers. We don’t accept it structurally, and we don’t accept it spiritually. Because the basis of our Judeo-Christian whatever is Mary, Mother of Jesus, and she’s perfect. She’s a virgin who gives birth, unwaveringly supports her child and holds his dead body when he’s gone. And the dad isn’t there. He didn’t even do the f**king. God is in heaven. God is the father, and God didn’t show up. So you have to be perfect, and Charlie can be a f**k up, and it doesn’t matter. You will always be held to a different, higher standard. And it’s f**ked up, but that is the way it is.”

-Nora Fanshow from Marriage Story

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Find them here: https://waronwant.org/McStrike-near-me 

#McStrike

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men rape little girls so brutally they need surgery and lifelong care if they survive the ordeal… men force girls and women to “give them sexual favors” (aka they rape those girls and women) in return for access to aid supplies in situations of war and disaster relief… men force women into sexual slavery… men in prison sexually harass their female legal representatives… male patients sexually harass their female nurses… male orderlies rape old women in care homes… men will literally rape the corpses of women in morgues… but sex is not a real axis of oppression and women are just as bad as men :)

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Praying for the woman I’ll be in 5+yrs I hope she’s happy, and loved, living life unapologetically, doing what she loves.

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Nicaragua

Hi guys, I’m here to inform about what’s going on Nicaragua so people around the world can be informed, since our government decided to censor and ban all the channels that are informing what’s really going on. It would mean the world to me if y'all could share it, my people are having peaceful protests and the police are shooting them with real bullets like they’re targets.

See, they decided to do a reform on our social security policy which would force us to pay more money and get less benefits. Once you’re retired they still want you to pay 5% of your pension to the government. Students took the streets for peaceful protesting but the police is shooting tear gas and bullets at them and they are unarmed. Many students have died already (15 confirmed). Share this and help spread the message that the government is killing us.

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Two boys swimming in the pink lake Retba, Senegal, Africa

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i literally can’t stop thinking about this video and i lose it every time

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You can be a woman and be a piece of shit

You can be a man and be a piece of shit

You can be trans and be a piece of shit

You can be cis and be a piece of shit

You can be gay or bisexual and be a piece of shit

You can be straight and be a piece of shit

You can be black, Latino, white, Asian, etc., and be a piece of shit

You can belong to any religion and be a piece of shit

You can be an atheist and be a piece of shit

The point is that “identifying” a certain way does not make you immune from being a terrible person. Being a good person is not based on who you are (as far as ascribed roles), but on what you do.

In addition, a piece-of-shit person is not a piece of shit due to belonging to a certain ascribed-status group. They would be a piece of shit regardless- unless they make the conscious and genuine decision to be a better human being and leave their jerkass days behind them.

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so whimsy so cute

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My mom’s says this was how it was when I came out. I love her.

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Joe