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Sexy

1: I would love to see you rushing through the bedroom door getting home from work, maybe even panting, and telling your partner (the camera) how “in heat” you are. You’re desperately taking off your clothes, feeling up your body, telling your partner that you’re ovulating, and you NEED to make a baby. I enjoy phrases like “It’s time,” “fill my womb,” “get me pregnant,” “I need a baby inside me,” etc. Feel free to surprise me with dialogue here, but the idea is that you’re desperate to be fucked and impregnated.

2: Also getting “home from work” and entering the bedroom in dress clothes if you have them, shirt tucked in, belly pushed out as far as you can (NEVER pad or stuff your shirt to appear bigger, I prefer real belly only). You have a slight waddle, and the spots where your nipples are are wet from milk leaking. You’re irritable, annoyed, and undressing “for the third time today”. You’re complaining about your back, your swollen feet, your cravings, and you’re interrupted mid-sentence because you felt the baby kick for the first time. You take a moment of surprise, your hands shoot to your bare belly, and your mood completely shifts to excitement. It all feels real now, the human you made together is growing deep inside you, and for the first time, you enjoy your new body and bump and cannot wait for it to get bigger. You take a few moments to talk to the baby within you, feeling up your bump, getting emotional, etc.

3: Again, belly pushed out as far as you can, you waddle into the room with wet pants. You’re panting, saying you’ve been contracting all day and you “think it’s time, my water just broke!”. You’re mixed with anxiety and excitement, scared for the labor but eager to meet your baby. You struggle to undress but when you finally do, a massive contraction rips through your stomach. You moan and grunt in pain (as loudly as you’re able, the more painful the better). You lie down with your bare soles to the camera, legs spread as wide as you can, belly pushed out. You push, sweat, pant, scream with each contraction. I love phrases like “I can feel it moving down,” “Its coming!” “It feels like it’s tearing me in half!” Etc. Again, feel free to improvise, I love pain and panic.

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Ultrasound

Video starts with you sitting, dressed normally maybe in clothes that fit you a bit tight, belly pushed out as far as you can, maybe reading a magazine. The “doctor” calls you over, you put the magazine down, and struggle to stand up under the weight of your belly. You have to get up belly-first with your hand supporting your back as you waddle out of frame.

You’re lying down on a ‘hospital bed,’ Your face, torso, belly, and groin in frame, still fully dressed, and belly pushed out. You are telling the doctor the symptoms you’ve been having over the last few weeks. They are all pregnancy symptoms—puking in the morning, strange cravings, frequent mood changes, and “this weird gas that feels like it’s moving in my stomach” but still completely unaware and not considering that you're pregnant. The idea never crossed your mind. The doctor instructs you to lift your shirt, as she will now perform an ultrasound.

A bit hesitant and frightened, you slowly lift your shirt and unbutton your pants so the wand can get to your lower belly. You hold your belly’s sides for a few moments while you look at the ultrasound screen. Suddenly you gasp, and announce you felt that weird gas shifting again and ask the doctor if she saw what that was.

She says its just as she suspected. She’s going to put you on some hormones, treatments, etc. etc. And as she is saying this, you’re looking worriedly. You’re panicking a little, asking him things like “what does she mean?” “What’s inside me?” “Why is my belly moving?” Feel free to improvise here.

Then she says the word “pregnant”. And “It’s a girl” and “I’d say you’re about 5 months along”. You are stunned to silence for a few moments, wide-eyed. Suddenly very scared, you start questioning her, maybe close to tears. “There’s a baby in here?” “I’m having a baby??” “That can’t be right, I don’t want to be pregnant, I don’t want to have a baby” Feel free to improvise here as well.

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Surprise Twin

A normal, healthy pregnancy, going through the stages and motions and growth. The beginning part of this is all up to you and your comforts, but the key is that, sprinkled in to conversation, there are small mentions of your size throughout.

"I seem bigger than last time..."

"The bump came a lot sooner than we expected"

"Try getting some walks in here and there to control your weight, you're a bit above average considering the stage of pregnancy you're in."

Ultrasounds and doctors appointments confirm you have a healthy baby on the way, but to keep an eye on your food intake.

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Toward the end of your pregnancy, things are much more difficult than expected. You're incredibly tired, you struggle to sit and stand, your feet are swollen and exhausted. Before too long though, your water breaks, and you begin labor.

You contract, push, breathe, and do everything you're supposed to do, everything your classes and books prepared you for. After some long, deep pushes, you finally deliver a beautiful, healthy baby.

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You comment on how you really did overdo it on the food this time, as your belly hasn't deflated, and you still feel massive and heavy. You take some quiet moments with your new baby, but mention to your partner you're still feeling some cramps. They assume it's just the placenta that you still have to deliver.

You breathe through the contraction and push, hoping to get it over with quickly, but you feel a mass move within you, and you swear you feel kicks, too. Your partner mentions it's probably phantom kicks, but you start to panic as you feel a head start to crown again.

To your panic, confusion, and horror, you realize you have a second baby coming. You've had a hidden twin this entire time.

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Video Blog

The first stage, I'd love to see you talk about how you’ve been feeling ill the past few days. You went to the doctor, and announce you're pregnant. You look down at your stomach, put a hand to it, and stand, showing off your flat belly. Maybe go into a story about how you had an unprotected one night stand, and now you have a baby growing inside you. Talk about how you plan to document your growth, and then mid- sentence, you get interrupted by a wave of nausea and you have to excuse yourself to rush to the bathroom and throw up (nothing needs to be shown here, you don’t have to actually throw up, but maybe hearing some would be great).

The second stage, your belly is showing just a bit (don’t inflate to your biggest yet, but a noticeable difference from the first stage). You explain how the morning sickness hasn't let up yet, you’re still feeling sick in the mornings, and you’ve been craving the weirdest foods. Your back is starting to get sore and your feet are swelling now (while it's tough to simulate swelling feet, it'd be nice to at least see them up close, tops and soles). In the middle of a sentence, you pause for a bit, thinking you’ve felt a kick, but then brush it off. You continue talking, then audibly gasp, and rush a hand to your belly, and excitedly announce you felt a kick, and show the small bump of your belly. React genuinely to this (either excitement, or maybe talk about how anxious this is making you, how feeling the kick is making you realize how real this is, etc. However you feel you or your character would genuinely act toward this happening.)

This scene, you’re in dress clothes (corporate work clothes, maybe. Button-down dress shirt, khakis, etc.) Your button-down is tucked in, and your belly is straining the buttons. Filmed from the bathroom, you’re flushing the toilet from having to pee for the 5th time today. When you waddle to the mirror to wash your hands, you notice you’re leaking (just wet your shirt a bit by your nipples). You swear, noticeably annoyed (this isn’t the first time this has happened) and you begin to unbutton your shirt to change it. With your shirt off, you admire your body in the mirror. Turning to the side, admiring your bump, maybe doing a couple ‘pregnancy poses’, really enjoying your new shape and connecting with the baby.

You are at your biggest, and you waddle into the frame belly-first (real belly, not padded), and you struggle a bit to sit down, one hand supporting your back, the other, your lower belly. You talk about how your back aches, your hormones and cravings are going wild, and the kicking is non-stop. You have to pause a bit and breathe through a contraction. You announce you’ve been having them all day, they are getting closer together and are getting more and more painful. Talk more about your huge belly, maybe show it off some more. You’re doing an everyday task, every so often breathing through a contraction, when suddenly, you make a facial expression: you feel a MASSIVE shift inside you that confuses you at first as a hand goes to your belly, with great surprise, you feel a relieving pressure release in your belly, and you cant believe it, but your water just broke. You panic a bit, and say you have to go to the hospital, because you “…think it’s time! It’s happening!”

Change of frame, you have your (bare) feet against the desk, or a surface, with your legs spread wide as if they're in stirrups. Your belly is out, you hold it, and you're breathing through labor. Talk about how much it hurts, how you feel you have to push, etc. Maybe discuss how active the baby is now how much he/she wants out, and breathe/struggle through the occasional push.

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Option 3: Lamaze

This one is more to explore different poses and seeing more of your body if you're comfortable with it.

You are down to your underwear (or as close as you are comfortable, I'm interested in seeing your bare legs and feet here, not necessarily nudity) your legs are spread, and your soles are in frame. Your belly is fully extended and also in frame, and you're doing some breathing exercises.

The idea here is that you are full-term, practicing your lamaze, when suddenly you feel a shift in your lower belly, and begin to contract. Concerned and worried, you continue breathing, maybe in denial that it's happening now. But more contractions hit, maybe you pretend your water has broken suddenly. Panic sets in as you realize you're also too heavy to get up, and the baby wants to come NOW. You transition to acceptance, as you hold behind your knees and begin to push. Would love some panicked dialogue here, maybe pleading with the baby, anything to let me know how you're feeling--what the baby is doing inside you, what your body is doing, etc.

Might also be cool to get a side view angle of this as well? Up to you though

Pardon my poor drawing, but this is the pose I was envisioning:

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Option 2: Vlog Continued

This scene, you’re in dress clothes (corporate work clothes, maybe. Button-down dress shirt, khakis, etc.) Your button-down is tucked in, and your belly is straining the buttons. Filmed from the bathroom, you’re flushing the toilet from having to pee for the 5th time today. When you waddle to the mirror to wash your hands, you notice you’re leaking (just wet your shirt a bit by your nipples). You swear, noticeably annoyed (this isn’t the first time this has happened) and you begin to unbutton your shirt to change it. With your shirt off, you admire your body in the mirror. Turning to the side, admiring your bump, maybe doing a couple ‘pregnancy poses’, really enjoying your new shape and connecting with the baby.

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Option 1 (a bit extreme)

Possibly a bit NSFW, discretion advised: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WXEZ6g2WLoM&ab_channel=i8thacookies

This is one of my favorite videos ever. It's so raw, and I've always fantasized about seeing a man experience this. I definitely understand if it's too extreme, please don't feel pressure to recreate this.

But I love the panic in this. Starts off normal, but then panic sets in as she realizes the baby is coming out of her. I love her volume, her screams, the way her body moves to adjust to giving birth. Her dialogue is amazing too, I love when guys tell me they can feel the baby moving or shifting, ESPECIALLY in instances like this: "It's coming out of me!" kinds of things.

I dont expect you to film and drive but if you're ever in a remote location and want to give something even close to this a try, I'd be forever grateful