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god wants you to have hot kinky sex with fat women. he told me

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imma be so real with u, if youre not specifically getting off to the idea that im literally an animal while im topping u then youre doing it wrong and youre literally missing half the appeal. the first time needs to be filled with apprehension and maybe even repulsion that gives way to how obsessed you are with how different, how taboo, how good it feels to have a wolf rutting into you desperately. and then every subsequent time its because you cant get enough of the feeling, and youre totally hooked on getting put in your place by an animal while it slams into you with the intention to breed you full.

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'house of the rubber zombies' by robert blayney in terminatrix magazine premier issue c. 1994

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And we musn’t forget this vital entry

https://fxtwitter.com/paulmcicedtea/status/1751324492456919337

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protip if ur messing around with someone and you suddenly want to stop, you need to verbally tell them. mildly changing your whimpering and whining to subtle crying and sad whimpering is not good enough. it will take them too long to notice. speak up. because you're uncomfortable, having a not good time, but also because you've now put the other person in the position of doing harm to you without their knowledge.

it makes you feel like they're hurting you when they should stop (despite you not speaking up) and it makes them feel like a sexual assaulter. thanks for coming to my ted talk.

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comms / req open

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ur mom believed in bigfoot last night

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i do wish yall would post more community-building shit instead of having oppression olympics rule your every letter. it's like we don't even know not to feed trolls anymore.

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doing incest roleplay but shaking my head the entire time to let the audience know i don't support the sanctity of the nuclear family

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redid my pinned a bit ago btw. i love looking grumpy online

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chloe brailsford

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our kink server (20+ only please!) keeps inadvertently pulling people into feedism and it's so beautiful to see. every week or two there's a new one. you love to see it.

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I finally have new glasses, and they come with snap on sunglasses, which I honestly think I might never take off.

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anons are off but i still wanna know: do you have advice on how to find people to engage in your niche kinks with? are there any online spaces you'd recommend? do you find people in real life?

One thing you really have to do is abandon the thought of finding your one perfect fit who just magically already exists in the world, and instead make it a goal to find other people in the kink community who are skillful, good communicators that you vibe with who have interests that are compatible enough that you two can work out some kind of scene together that you both can be happy with.

Kink is improv, it's a game, it's a LARP -- so finding a partner is a bit like finding someone who will be interested in your 17th century mermaid role-playing game and landing on a few buddies who are into pirates and marine biology (plus that one friend who is just down to play anything because they're a great improver and love TTRPGs).

I think it's easy to miss that this is how it works -- I used to think that kink was about bringing my fantasy into real life as much as humanly possible, and that therefore I needed to find a person who lined up with my fantasy as much as possible. The reality is that I'm looking to play, and so I need to find someone who is good to play with, and who wants to play a similar enough game to what I want to do.

So if you're interested in power exchange (as I am), maybe you can find enough commonality with pup players, pony players, Master-slave players, or hell something specific like chastity players in order to work out some kind of scene or dynamic together that scratches the itch of what makes your kinks exciting to both of you. If incest is what interest you, it may be that there are some cool age players in your area who would be happy to engage in a scene that has incestuous themes for another example. If you like emotional intensity, finding a sadist with a really great in-scene persona and who gives killer aftercare might be just the right thing for you, even if what really gets you going in the interior feelings and they're more into whipping someone's ass.

I find that flagging myself as a pup is a lot more successful on the apps than saying that I am interested in hypnosis, for example because hypno's a far more niche kink with a higher skill bar to clear -- there just aren't as many people who know what it is, how to do it well, or who like it. but since part of what I enjoy about hypnosis is getting into dumb, docile headspaces, I can do that pretty easily with pup handlers, and we automatically have a language and frame for what we are looking to do that makes play happen pretty easily.

The more elaborate the kinky play you are trying to make happen, the greater time investment you will have to make on the front end. I recommend getting on Fetlife, if you aren't, and joining local kink groups (you can also try posting a personal on Lex, or cruising for the kinksters that are on Grindr -- but please, vet them and make sure they know what they are doing. there are a lot of amateurs on there).

Attend local munches and classes at dungeons, and get to know people in your local scene -- the more you invest in getting to know other people, the more you'll be able to figure out who has a compatible style of play and interests that can kinda overlap with yours. You'll also meet a lot of voracious kinksters who are just there to have a good time with people they are into, and as you build relationships, some of them will be into you!

I have been meaning to write a longer piece about this stuff, and I think your question just inspired me. There are a lot of struggles that new kinksters have in finding partners that comes from them not having enough background on how the social scene operates to navigate it effectively -- and being fueled by horny fantasy logic rather than the reality of what meeting new people and establishing working creative relationships looks like. because that is what a kinky play partner is -- a creative relationship. it's someone you play a pretend game with. so you gotta find someone who does it well, and is willing to join the same general imagination space as you. and that's it!

I don't say this to knock on you for asking the question -- fetish media almost always depicts a scene happening through two people with similar desires just magically meeting one another through circumstance, without having to put in any negotiation work or making any compromises. Makes sense, that's what makes it an alluring fantasy! But in reality, making your niche fetishes come to life means a lot of making small talk at kink events, being nice to people, attending classes, volunteering to help fold up some chairs and sweep up debris afterward, and then making an offer to someone whose interests maybe align like 45% with yours and seeing what you can make happen together that is mutually exciting.

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coloured sketch comm!! tysm!

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who up hitting the rick and morty genderbent incest meth bong