emilyhath

[emilyhath]

Could you reblog this if you're overweight and have an ed? I'm sick of feeling alone and I know that there are others like me out her that feel alone and hopeless.

[emilyhath]

How to be comfortable and confident in being single as a black female when it’s not your choice i.e. no man has ever approached me, seriously…not even the weird ones on the street

Don't define your worth based on how men perceive you. If you know that you have so much to offer, then you know that it's their loss. I'm a firm believer in what's meant for you is yours. What can be seen as disappointments or "setbacks" can actually be blessings in disguise. Don't view it so negatively but maybe that you're dodging bullets. In addition, a lot of time we'll want something so bad and we're actually not ready for it, at all.

Also, while I understand the psychology behind it, as someone who's been approached by weird men in public since I was about 12, that's not something you want. You guys have got to stop putting so much validation into attention from strangers on the street. More often than not, it's not going to give you that validation you seek but instead just make you feel gross. Trust me.