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From one Gen-Z to another, let’s continue to deprogram ourselves from the idea that 30 is old and you need to have your shit together before 30.
You can go back to school after age 30!
You can fall in love after age 30!
You can find a best friend after age 30!
You can find a passion after age 30!
You can find a job you love after age 30!
You can recover from an addiction after the age 30!
You can pursue a large goal after age 30!
You can travel the world after age 30!
You can move after age 30!
You can change your appearance after age 30!
You can ask for help after age 30!
You can make discoveries about yourself after age 30!
You can come out after age 30!
You can fix your finances after age 30!
You can be attractive after age 30!
You can fix your life after age 30!
You can do anything after age 30!
Idk what so specifically about the number 30 has bewitched so many of us into believing that means your life is over, but it’s just so far from the truth!
You have so much more time after 30 to accomplish all that you want to do.
Your life isn’t over until it quite literally is over. Stop giving yourself a deadline that doesn’t exist!
#honestly all of those 20-year-olds crying about people in their 30s sound aggressive/mean#and most older people don't give a shit about their opinion#so if you don't want to sound like an idiot who's dreaming about living the dullest life ever when you're older... stfu :D
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thank you for your order 📠✨️ Toost situation:
Tommy sees that Joost is still having hard time: gigs are complicated to arrange, fans are still dogging on him for weird rumors, etc etc. Tommy wants to help, but he's worried that suggesting to share clothes for some fashion event isn't going to cut it anymore. What does Tommy do?
A) crashes at Joost's place with a decision that he needs to redecorate Joost's home? (with some very questionable choices)
B) takes a page of Jere's book and books both him and Joost a get-away resort vacation?
C) something completely unhinged that definitelly would cheer Joost up
Yuppi thank u so much! Love it! Definitely C
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From ockotv ig
Lovers huh 🤭
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paidatonriehuja story
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my range of emotions go from “it’s scary how much i feel” to “it’s scary how much i don’t feel”
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rb with whether people assume you’re older or younger than your actual age
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Fair weather friends. This could be purely anecdotal ( maybe just my area) but companies felt quieter this year.
It means that society has shifted to a place where it can be risky to launch pride campaigns. They don't want a Bud Light or Target situation like we had last year. By no means do I like rainbow capitalism but these companies pulling out because of "risk management" is scary. I don't want to buy a tacky T-shirt or have their meaningless approval, but I liked the feeling that they felt bold enough to "support" us.
Good riddance, we didn't need those performative companies.
#it might seem scary but it just confirms that the criticism of those companies was valid#queer people can diy their own rainbow stuff instead#we don't need those fake 'allies'
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Hot take but I really do think that some of y’all need to consider how/why/when/how often you’re making fun of straight people for being straight
I do it too, I’m not going to pretend I don’t make jokes about the hets, or the down with cis bus, or whatever
But I recently befriended a cis, straight dude and I have watched him be dismissed, degraded, and unambiguously insulted for the perceived “crime” of being straight — all in queer environments where he is allegedly “completely welcome” and surrounded by “friends”
This guy is not a toxic person! But I have seen him be made to feel so small and like his comfort and safety in those spaces are conditional on his silence and acceptance of being treated like a human dunk zone, and I think that some of y’all have had so much shit from straight/cis people that the second you feel like you’ve got an inch, you want to luxuriate in the perceived catharsis of bullying someone who— actually —doesn’t deserve it
And until he very, very carefully mentioned to me in private that it makes him feel bad, I didn’t even clock that I was involved in doing that, that it had become so instinctive for me to make casual jokes like that, and that— well meaning or otherwise —I had been contributing to an environment that made someone I really really like feel like shit
So, I dunno, I think maybe some of y’all should think about that too
#1. they might be still oppressed in a different way#2. even if they're not they're nice to you so stfu and direct that energy to hate on actual homophobes
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“it’s circus work.” not to me. not if it’s my monkeys.
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Actually no one should be having sex. All of us are aged-up minors and the passage of time is inherently problematic
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