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Your wife's boyfriend now has to approve of any time she goes out with you -- and he almost never permits it anymore.

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It's not unusual for guys to say to you that they bet she steps out on you -- because they have trouble believing a woman like her would be married to a man like you. What you always say to them is that you are sure never cheats on you -- which in a sense is true, since you know her boyfriend and she never has hidden her relationship with him from you.

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"And don't forget to be really deferential and polite when you talk with him, and be sure to thank him when agrees to come over to give me what I need -- and make sure he knows that you've never been able to satisfy me the way he does. OK?"

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Your wife had consummated your marriage with the best man instead of with you, and he was also the one who went on the 10-day romantic honeymoon cruise with her. Nine months later, your daughter was born.

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You're shocked -- and hurt -- and your stomach is in knots worrying now what this means for your marriage, but there's not much for you to say. She obviously isn't asking for permission, or even trying to help you understand why she's doing this. So you have no choice except to accept that this is the new normal for her and you.

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"I mean -- I'm not that naïve dad. I saw how long mom would spend getting ready for her "girls nights out". I knew she wasn't out with the girls -- that she was with some other man. But I think it's great that she's done that for so long. And I love that she calls him her boyfriend and that they make such a great couple. He seems really nice, so I think I'm going to like having him spend a lot more time here."

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Two or three times a year, you and your wife and her sister and her sister's husband go away on vacations together. Your wife and her sister always have a LOT of sex on these vacations -- always involving cuckolding the two of you. It was really awkward for you and him the first few times, but you're basically used to it now, and you even sometimes talk about it with him -- about how you both took a while to learn to deal with it emotionally and how you now have gotten to the point where you really hope that the two of them are having a good time.

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Your wife loves being really sexy for her boyfriend, but she now makes you live pussy free. Are you jealous of him? VERY. Do you think she might someday start having sex with you again? You know that is not very likely to happen.

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This is certainly not the first time she has gone on a date with another man, but as often as she does it, you still find it odd that you are married to her but she is actively part of the dating scene -- and in fact, that she dates other men much more often than she goes out anywhere with you.

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"You really should thank her hun. Without her help and encouragement, I doubt I'd be going through with this."

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Your wife's previous lover had frequently permitted you to watch as he and your wife had sex. However, her new lover is much stricter with you. He has said you must earn that privilege.

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As you thought back on the evening, you realized that playing the game had been HIS suggestion, and that as soon as he suggested it, your wife (to your surprise) had enthusiastically agreed. You weren't sure it was such a good idea, but your wife called you a "stick in the mud", so you reluctantly agreed. And then, during the second "round" of the game, you were surprised when your friend posed the "dare" to your wife that she let him kiss her. And before you really had a chance to react, she had taken the dare and he was kissing her -- on the lips. Needless to say, matters escalated from there, and despite a couple of more attempts by you to end the game -- each one responded to by your wife laughing and saying it was all just in good fun and telling you to quit being such a spoilsport -- this is where things have ended up.

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Your wife really finds it amusing to tease you about the fact that she now makes you live pussy-free while her boyfriend gets to use her body whenever, and however, he wants.

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You wish that your wife wouldn't humiliate you like this in front of her friends, but it seems to be happening more and more -- especially when she is trying to talk one of her friends into the cuckolding lifestyle.

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You and your wife have been talking about her possibly doing this for a couple of months -- ever since you nervously broached the subject one night over dinner. At first she didn't think you were serious, and then she wasn't sure she wanted to do it -- but then she met the man who is taking her out tonight, and started flirting with him, and when he asked her to go out on a date with him, she enthusiastically said yes.

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Your wife knows that you love her, that your are 100% loyal and devoted to her, and that you would never disobey her -- and that you have accepted your role as her pussy-free cuckold.

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You are grateful every day to have the honor of being married to such a beautiful woman.